[TheCaptainPower]

If there is one thing I have learned after going out drinking for the last 16 years in a row, is that everyone has their own "NICHE BITCH'...

Don't ask me why, but for some reason there are certain types of women that love me, and others that hate me...

I have an automatic crush on natural blondes,when I see a natural blond at a club I start going crazy. Only problem? I have about a 10% success rate with blondes...

Italian/Brooklyn/Staten Island girls? I have a 85% success rate. They like me so much that sometimes I have to hide...

Girls that are in shape? You would think that since I work out so much this would be a no brainer, but they HATE ME. They HATE my guts. For some reason any girl who is in good shape will not give me the time of day.

Big tits? Thank god, but girls with big tits LOVE ME. They are usually a little big on the heavy side, but I have had some nice cocounts in my face over the years...

Black girls? 50/50
Spanish? 50/50

Europeans? Hate my guts. Espcially russians. I have a 3% success ratio.

Jewish? Love me...They want to blow me and marry me. My 2nd best ratio after Italian girls..

So in conclusion: It could help to find out what type of women like you. I spent years chasing after blondes and getting rejected, now that I know my "type", I can pinpoint girls that I know are most likely down to bang.

Power out!

[Days of Broken Arrows]

Great post. And an even better coining of a phrase. I've thought about this but never articulated it.

My niche bitches are Jewish women -- particularly the brainy ones.

One reason for niche bitches is that girls tend to have a "type" they date over and over whereas guys want variety.

(01-29-2013 10:26 PM)TheCaptainPower Wrote:  

If there is one thing I have learned after going out drinking for the last 16 years in a row, is that everyone has their own "NICHE BITCH'...

Don't ask me why, but for some reason there are certain types of women that love me, and others that hate me...

I have an automatic crush on natural blondes,when I see a natural blond at a club I start going crazy. Only problem? I have about a 10% success rate with blondes...

Italian/Brooklyn/Staten Island girls? I have a 85% success rate. They like me so much that sometimes I have to hide...

Girls that are in shape? You would think that since I work out so much this would be a no brainer, but they HATE ME. They HATE my guts. For some reason any girl who is in good shape will not give me the time of day.

Big tits? Thank god, but girls with big tits LOVE ME. They are usually a little big on the heavy side, but I have had some nice cocounts in my face over the years...

Black girls? 50/50
Spanish? 50/50

Europeans? Hate my guts. Espcially russians. I have a 3% success ratio.

Jewish? Love me...They want to blow me and marry me. My 2nd best ratio after Italian girls..

So in conclusion: It could help to find out what type of women like you. I spent years chasing after blondes and getting rejected, now that I know my "type", I can pinpoint girls that I know are most likely down to bang.

Power out!

[Kabal]

This is why traveling is so addictive--the testing of new waters, the mapping out of new terrain, the unending search for the El Dorado of niches.

Not only may women in different countries respond to you differently, women in different cities within the same country may respond to you differently. Furthermore, women in different venues within the same city may respond to you differently.

And there's a time dimension to it as well.

You are always getting older; evolving; growing more seasoned.

Venues are always changing via random walk; cities are in constant flux due to secular and seasonal demographic movements; countries are marked by socioeconomic shifts on the macro level.

Who knows what the next city, country, or region will bring?

I've notched two Shanghai girls without setting foot there--what if I actually went to Shanghai, or second-tier China?

I crushed five Saigon chicks, supposedly some of the more difficult in SE Asia, in eight nights and eventually closed at six in eleven nights--what would the reputedly more liberal and easy Manila hold for me?

I got shut out in a week in Buenos Aires and one night doing night game in Bangkok... what implications does this have, if any?

The intersection of travel and girls is full of wonders.

[Nomad77]

Like you had a friend that Loved those Blonde American cheer leader types but he could never get the time of day from one because he was the nerdy looking guy. He finally gave up and settled down with a older blonde educated type. Very good point, a lot of guys spend years chasing girls they will never get just because they refuse to change the product (themselves) to appeal to the target market (the girls they are chasing).

[Samseau]

Great term

[Giovonny]

Amazing term

[GenJx]

Incredible term

[WestIndianArchie]

(01-29-2013 10:26 PM)TheCaptainPower Wrote:  

So in conclusion: It could help to find out what type of women like you. I spent years chasing after blondes and getting rejected,

Deep down though, you still want to fuck some blondes, don't you?

Screening for DTF women is just the beginning of game mastery, imo. And that might be enough for some.

But in your heart of hearts, you know that you still want your precious little blonde snow bunny.

Admit it. You could run through 100's of chicks that already like your story, but you want to finally break one of those bitches that normally wouldn't give you the time of day.

For a lot of us, Game stopped being about "easy" sex.

WIA

[Kwisatz]

I have some very specific types that like me as well. For a while I decided to take time and concentrate on the types of women that don’t, as a challenge. It was fun and enlightening to go out and make it a point to go after those the most likely not to want me. I found out it was all in my head. I suspect it’s all in yours too. Have you considered a month where you only go after “In shape” Black & Spanish women? Find out if you do any better or worse if those are the only options you give yourself. I’m looking forward to finding out you are as successful with them as any other woman.

(01-29-2013 10:26 PM)TheCaptainPower Wrote:  

If there is one thing I have learned after going out drinking for the last 16 years in a row, is that everyone has their own "NICHE BITCH'...

Don't ask me why, but for some reason there are certain types of women that love me, and others that hate me...

I have an automatic crush on natural blondes,when I see a natural blond at a club I start going crazy. Only problem? I have about a 10% success rate with blondes...

Italian/Brooklyn/Staten Island girls? I have a 85% success rate. They like me so much that sometimes I have to hide...

Girls that are in shape? You would think that since I work out so much this would be a no brainer, but they HATE ME. They HATE my guts. For some reason any girl who is in good shape will not give me the time of day.

Big tits? Thank god, but girls with big tits LOVE ME. They are usually a little big on the heavy side, but I have had some nice cocounts in my face over the years...

Black girls? 50/50
Spanish? 50/50

Europeans? Hate my guts. Espcially russians. I have a 3% success ratio.

Jewish? Love me...They want to blow me and marry me. My 2nd best ratio after Italian girls..

So in conclusion: It could help to find out what type of women like you. I spent years chasing after blondes and getting rejected, now that I know my "type", I can pinpoint girls that I know are most likely down to bang.

Power out!

[snoop]

(01-29-2013 10:26 PM)TheCaptainPower Wrote:  

Italian/Brooklyn/Staten Island girls? I have a 85% success rate. They like me so much that sometimes I have to hide...

Girls that are in shape? You would think that since I work out so much this would be a no brainer, but they HATE ME. They HATE my guts. For some reason any girl who is in good shape will not give me the time of day.

IME almost no woman of value wants a man that is in better shape than her and/or prettier.

[Wayout]

I totally concur with OP. For whatever crazy reason I always get positive reactions from Asian and Indian girls! The love me long time!!! Also lesbins for some reason - yes,they always want to be friends with me and I get along with them very well!
However I am attracted to American blond cheerleader type or a Scandinavian blond. Asians do nothing for me!

[Barron]

European women are my niche. Americunts are my kryptonite, and they must be defeated.

[Sargon of Akkad]

(01-29-2013 10:26 PM)TheCaptainPower Wrote:  

I have an automatic crush on natural blondes,when I see a natural blond at a club I start going crazy. Only problem? I have about a 10% success rate with blondes...

A bang rate of one out of ten? That's actually not that bad in my book...not bad at all.

[w00t]

I like the concept of a niche and think it makes sense from a marketing point of view.
However I have a hard time finding my own niche. I cant really see a common denominator in the girls that are into me, they are all over the place. I like to go after really tall girls since Im tall myself and I figure they have problems finding men their size but thats about it.

[TheCaptainPower]

Being a Brooklyn "Part-Italian", I can pick up an Italian-American girl in 3 seconds....

They just look at me and it's on. Italian girls are big on marrying "their own kind", so its always easy for me.

But I can't stand them, lol

[Ensam]

Huh, from this title I thought this meant find your niche in terms of personal style/brand. I think that's equally important angle. Figure out what kind of guy you are and project that as clearly as possible. Make it easy for a girl to figure out if you're her type. I think this is why guys who dress and present themselves in a manner many here would consider ridiculous get laid often. It's ok to turn off 95% of the women out there if you make it super easy for the 5% who dig you to find you.

[HotLava]

I have a feeling that women size you up on the spot and put you into some sort of category. Maybe it's easier for them to deal with all of the strangers that they meet on their dating adventures. Some examples might be: dumb fratboy, sketchy black guy, nerdy black guy, guido, european guy. I'm not trying to be prejudice here, but I feel like women do place a label on you and then act accordingly to that label. Whereas as men, we just assign a 1-10 number based on her looks and describe her personality as either good, annoying, or dumb.

My niche bitch is an average intelligence average weight blonde. Maybe they like my latin soap opera guy look. Unfortunately, I have a big thing for redheads, and they don't respond as well.

[EasyMoney]

This is so true - its also helpful to know what socio economic class your gaming in. A friend of mine who is a real natural will readily admit that he's great with spoiled rich naive girls because that's his world and he knows how to talk to those girls better than any other.

[Parlay44]

Quote:

Italian/Brooklyn/Staten Island girls? I have a 85% success rate. They like me so much that sometimes I have to hide...

I love Italian girls so much and they love me. Lucky for me New Jersey is FULL of them. They are definitely my niche bitches.

I do have a thing for redheads as well. Problem is only 1/10 is actually pretty.

[Screwston]

(01-31-2013 04:48 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(01-29-2013 10:26 PM)TheCaptainPower Wrote:  

So in conclusion: It could help to find out what type of women like you. I spent years chasing after blondes and getting rejected,

Deep down though, you still want to fuck some blondes, don't you?

Screening for DTF women is just the beginning of game mastery, imo. And that might be enough for some.

But in your heart of hearts, you know that you still want your precious little blonde snow bunny.

Admit it. You could run through 100's of chicks that already like your story, but you want to finally break one of those bitches that normally wouldn't give you the time of day.

For a lot of us, Game stopped being about "easy" sex.

WIA

Yes. I think some guys out there reach a point where they want to expand their pussy platter. You can take the easy way and always go after your "fishbowl" or niche. Or you can switch it up and get rejected a lot more but get that rare girl who you thought would never give you the time of day. I know what works for me but I've been doing the same types for years now. It's great to know what your #1 customer is but you should try to expand after you master that.

[anewtypedude]

My niche is the desperate prudish girls. Somehow I have the word "husband" written all over my face. Anyway I can fix that?

[TheCaptainPower]

@anewtypedude Are you working out? Dressing good? Sex it up a little bit...

I stick with the following for NYC:

Sunglasses a must in the summer...
Never wear white socks...
No sandals....

If your hair is thinning make sure your shave it ...etc, etc..

A sun tan helps, and always bleech your teeth with the $9 dollar rite aid stuff.

You should start a seperate thread for getting rid of the "husband" look, I used to have that problem..

[jtbabycarrots]

Man you're just blow'in in the wind when you let girls decided whether or not you're their type. To have game means to be the selector.

That said, different girls respond to different types of game. So this could be a great opportunity to figure out for yourself what type of game works for what types of girl.

You can really see the difference when you're talking about nationalities. I noticed you said you had a low response rate with blondes and russians but a high rate with intellectual girls. Well that tells me is that you're coming in kind of under the radar (smart, shy and funny maybe even a little dorky). If you want Russian girls or blondes you have to come in with some authority. They smell fear bro.

[Nudge]

Asians are usually very into me. I call them fail-safe, if Im getting blown out all night Ill search for the nearest decent Asian chick and my chances are always pretty good.

Gone off them a bit recently though.

[Nomad77]

(01-31-2013 06:01 PM)Kwisatz Wrote:  

I have some very specific types that like me as well. For a while I decided to take time and concentrate on the types of women that don’t, as a challenge. It was fun and enlightening to go out and make it a point to go after those the most likely not to want me. I found out it was all in my head. I suspect it’s all in yours too. Have you considered a month where you only go after “In shape” Black & Spanish women? Find out if you do any better or worse if those are the only options you give yourself. I’m looking forward to finding out you are as successful with them as any other woman.

This is what I have been doing for years now, out of necessity! I use to believe my "game" was good enough to get any kind of women and to some degree it is BUT it comes at a price! The moment you move out of you Niche the amount of work you will have to put in increases. The further away from your niche you move the more work it's going to take. Even with good game, it will still require a lot more work. Now here is where it gets real interesting, my niche are girls around an 8 both in looks and socioeconomically. Now, you would think if I can get an 8 then a 6 would be easy! BUT it's exactly the opposite. It takes twice as much work to get a 6 than it does an 8 for me. Now, there are going to be exceptions: girls that are not in your niche who for whatever reason are just into you but these are a small minority and there's no way to find these girls with any consistency.

Now what I do is give priority to girls from my niche. IF I can't find one then I go after other girls. My biggest problem with my niche is that the girls are usually locked down in serious relationships so I am forced to look outside of my niche and put in a lot more work than I would like for less of everything.