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01-29-2013, 07:24 PM
I just got a notification of an OKCupid event in my area. I'm not sure if I'm going to take part yet, but it seems as though they've been going on around the NYC area for a while now, so I was wondering if any of you had any experiential information of what one can expect from the event.
A little extra info for those who don't know...
It costs $5, it looks like there will be vodka cocktails and hors d'oeuvres served, and dj etc. But, it will be hosted at the Banana Republic (at least the ones in Santa Monica and WeHo).
I just signed back up to OKCupid so I lost the attractive matches for the time being, so I would also like to hear if there are multiple events going on (one for the attractive and one for the unattractive crowds).
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01-29-2013, 07:44 PM
(if you're worried about the quality of your search matches, set up a fake female profile. They automatically get highly rated by men, pretty much.)
Go to the event and give us a datasheet!
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01-29-2013, 09:43 PM
Judging from that woman's blog write-up, I agree this sounds like it would be a goldmine for anyone with a bit of game.
This could be me, but I think that for a guy there's something of a stigma attached to showing up to such an event. Here's my opinion as to why:
Manhood is defined as going and DOING stuff. That includes knowing how to ask out a woman. So a guy at such an event is at a disadvantage, because it insinuates he doesn't know how to successfully do this (supposedly) very basic thing...whereas with women, we expect them to be passive and assume they could be there simply because they didn't get asked (luck of the draw). This is just me pontificating, though.
The other option is show up alone and just say you travel or want to meet "better quality" women. Or show up with a female wingwoman.
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01-29-2013, 11:34 PM
The event in my city is locked as they need more women.It's going to be a cockfest.
Feel the fear..then do it anyway.
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01-30-2013, 12:44 PM
Don't go, the girls that take part in these events are the pickiest worst dates you could possibly imagine with profiles up over a year possibly more. You want a girl who just joined or even better just joined and recently moved to the city. The longer they have profiles and are invested in OKC the bigger they're heads are blown up with hundreds of messages they get. Lone wolf it, stack dates on the same night go for the new girls.
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01-30-2013, 02:54 PM
The event has officially been renamed 'RooshVForum Valentine's Meetup, West Hollywood Edition'
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01-30-2013, 03:09 PM
The event in chicago is unlocked. you can see the people attending on your left. Lots of girls with +1 and lots of guys by themselves. If a few of those +1 dont show expect a huge cockfest since you know all the guys will show up.