[michelin]

(03-03-2013 07:37 AM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

I'm also not a fan of the term 'harem', I prefer 'rotation', but different strokes.

I agree the term "harem" is dated and sounds kinda soft, "1001 nights" fairy tale like.

But "rotation" loses the idea of multiplicity that a harem suggests.

I don't think it implies fucking every single girl every week. In my book it could be once every month or even two monts, as long as there is a certain frequency in seeing her.

[Nonpareil]

(03-03-2013 08:01 AM)michelin Wrote:  

(03-03-2013 07:37 AM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

I'm also not a fan of the term 'harem', I prefer 'rotation', but different strokes.

I agree the term "harem" is dated and sounds kinda soft, "1001 nights" fairy tale like.

But "rotation" loses the idea of multiplicity that a harem suggests.

I don't think it implies fucking every single girl every week. In my book it could be once every month or even two monts, as long as there is a certain frequency in seeing her.

Oh I don't use it in the baseball sense, ie, my starting rotation, I use it in the Astronomy sense, ie, any large enough object (such as my cock) can attract a near-unlimited amount of objects into rotation.

(I use it because it's a much better code word; every girl knows what a harem is, but rotation? You can drop that in front of them and they won't be any wiser, provided you aren't stupid and obvious about it.)

[Sargon of Akkad]

I agree that a "harem", "rotation", "fuckbuddy brigade", whichever you want to call it, does not have to mean you see each girl every week. To me, it basically means a collection of girls you have sex with regularly or who are at least open to having sex with you.

[michelin]

what about "love group"? it seems to be more in tune with our choice for "love tourist" to differentiate with "sex tourist".

[Sargon of Akkad]

"Love group" somehow implies that it's actually about "love", which it almost never is.

Personally, I'm in favour of using the term "fuckbuddy brigade".

Maybe "bootycall battallion"...or maybe just "sex group"

[nash23]

I peaked at around 6. But usually 3 is manageable. My number one rule is never be seen in public with them and never meet their friends. All dates are at my place or takeaway food back to my place. If they insist on watching a movie find a cinema that's discreet.

[AneroidOcean]

(03-02-2013 06:08 PM)TheRookie Wrote:  

Haha, "snail trail." That is plain nasty, man. I make sure to throw the pillows off the bed and pull back the sheets all the way or else that nasty stuff gets all over the place.

Haha, I meant snail trail like from their WETNESS while fucking them, not from them not bathing and having slime oozing out of their pussy.

That does remind me to go buy some more sheets, though. Need more to have in stock so that I don't have to worry about washing the sheets immediately. Helps get rid of the hair too to be able to just change the sheets quick.

It's not good when you're dating a girl with curly brown hair, another with really dark brown straight hair, and another with shorter thing lighter colored hair. Hairs have haunted me in my dreams. I can actually more easily pass off female items in my house/room (like jewelry) than hairs IN my bed.

[michelin]

The harem "equilibrium" seems to be around 4: a manageable group of girls, flexible so you can drop one when another (better one) sets in.

[TheRookie]

(03-06-2013 04:20 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

Haha, I meant snail trail like from their WETNESS while fucking them, not from them not bathing and having slime oozing out of their pussy.

I'm on the same page as you - not dating homeless chicks right now (knock on wood). I just don't like when the pussy wetness gets all over the sheets and pillows.

If you bang a girl with a sheet over you the snail trail gets everywhere. And if you finger her and then fuck her it gets all over the pillows when you grab the bed, grab her shoulders, etc. So I just throw the pillows off the bed and pull the sheets all the way back.

[TheRookie]

(03-03-2013 08:28 AM)Nonpareil Wrote:  

Oh I don't use it in the baseball sense, ie, my starting rotation, I use it in the Astronomy sense, ie, any large enough object (such as my cock) can attract a near-unlimited amount of objects into rotation.

I like that. "The Solar System." Mercury is the main chick you see twice a week and Pluto is the girl you can't stand and bang every two months.

[Grayham]

At the moment I'm rotating three girls. But I'm missing a main chick.

Two of the girls I'm having over once every week or two weeks, sometimes on subsequent days during the weekend. The third one is a once a month kinda deal when I get bored or feel like I need to keep the contact warm. She also is the one who wants to have a proper relationship (whatever that shit is) with me so I keep her on the longest leash.

I don't recommend having two different girls over two nights in a row, this is a pain in the ass when it comes to washing sheets, and it can lead to incessant whining when the first one forgets something. But unfortunately the only times I can see those girls is during the weekend.

The problem I then have is that the week becomes kind of lopsided towards the weekend and it leaves little room for new ventures during the nights out in the weekend (also Monday-Thursday is boring). Especially since I don't have a main girl that I want to have over other days of the week. At the moment I'm considering to drop one of the two girls down to a monthly visit too and find myself a main girl. Those are few and far inbetween here though, either they get clingy and want a relationship or not long enough around to realistically function as a main girl (I like the exchange students from EE).

Three feels like an optimal number time and energy wise. So I'd have to drop one if I get a main.

[LaPastillaRoja]

One of my favourite parts of being in University is having a mini-rolladex of booty calls you can text/call whenever you need a bang. The best is when you don't even have to go out and a girl texts you as she's leaving a club asking if you want some company for the night. The difficulty is making sure these girls understand the situation and don't expect more than just a bang. Its hard sometimes to tell how much attention you should give the girl to keep yourself relevant but not so much that she thinks you want to be exclusive.

[AneroidOcean]

(03-10-2013 05:19 PM)TheRookie Wrote:  

I'm on the same page as you - not dating homeless chicks right now (knock on wood). I just don't like when the pussy wetness gets all over the sheets and pillows.

If you bang a girl with a sheet over you the snail trail gets everywhere. And if you finger her and then fuck her it gets all over the pillows when you grab the bed, grab her shoulders, etc. So I just throw the pillows off the bed and pull the sheets all the way back.

My solution is to immediately (if possible) toss a hand towel UNDER the fitted sheet where the wet spot is, then grab another hand towel, get it decently wet on one side. Get some moisture soaked through to the hand towel underneath (not a ton, but enough to dilute the snail trail), wipe up as much as you can with the wet end of the towel, then dry the whole area as much as possible. The hand towel underneath can stay (it'll dry) for a night if you prefer or if the sheet is dry enough you can pull it out. If you diluted/wipted the snail trail enough, this will dry with NO mark.

Of course, it's also pretty easy to just wash the fitted sheet only, but that's not always feasible especially if you're having another girl over within 24-48 hours and don't want to change your whole sheet set. My problem comes when the duvet cover gets snail trailed because that's a lot more work to pull the down comforter out of it, wash it, then get it back on (even if you grab a new one that's the same color as the sheets you still have to pull one off and put another one on. Not a big deal until it happens 2-3 nights in a row.