Gaming is just like fishing. There are three factors involved with getting women: location, game, and effort. The only difference between gaming and fishing is in fishing, your equipment and fishing skill is the same as Game. Game is you and your skill at interacting with women. Of the three factors location is the most important. You can have the best gear and the put in a lot of effort but if you are fishing somewhere that doesn't have any fish, you won't catch any.
Next is gear or game. You have to have to right gear/game to catch the kind of fish you want. The fish has to like the bait you are using enough to bite. In game the women you are going after have to find you attractive enough. If you are going after hard rock chicks and you like Jazz and dress like a preppy dude it's going to be rough getting them to bite your bait.
Finding a good fishing spot is so important that I wouldn't even worry about your gaming skills until you do. If you can find a really good one, you might not even need that much game to begin with. It may be like fishing in a barrel.
Next is gear or game. You have to have to right gear/game to catch the kind of fish you want. The fish has to like the bait you are using enough to bite. In game the women you are going after have to find you attractive enough. If you are going after hard rock chicks and you like Jazz and dress like a preppy dude it's going to be rough getting them to bite your bait.
Finding a good fishing spot is so important that I wouldn't even worry about your gaming skills until you do. If you can find a really good one, you might not even need that much game to begin with. It may be like fishing in a barrel.