Woman always say they find confidence attractive, but that simple statement is not easily understood. The link below gives some detail to what confidence is, in sports. This can be adjusted for gaming woman. The article list 6 sources and 5 exercises to boost it. The overall website provides a wealth of info for sports training and exercise.
An example, source 6: Emotional State.
Emotional states is the final source of self-confidence and relates to how you control the emotions associated with competition, such as excitement and anxiety. Very often, the importance of the occasion creates self-doubt, which is why it is essential to control your thoughts and emotions. Learning imagery and concentration skills such as those described in "the spotlight of excellence" (Exercise 2 below) will help.
http://www.brianmac.co.uk/selfcon.htm
An example, source 6: Emotional State.
Emotional states is the final source of self-confidence and relates to how you control the emotions associated with competition, such as excitement and anxiety. Very often, the importance of the occasion creates self-doubt, which is why it is essential to control your thoughts and emotions. Learning imagery and concentration skills such as those described in "the spotlight of excellence" (Exercise 2 below) will help.
http://www.brianmac.co.uk/selfcon.htm