[JohnKreese]

Don't ask how I came across this but check out this article, specifically, number 7.

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/why-men-...00947.html

"7. They Want Variety
Get this: Some men will cheat even though they love the woman they're with. "Men admit to cheating because they crave variety" says Morse, "but have done so while still being very happy in their current relationship." Yeah…that's ridiculously lame. "

"Ridiculously lame" to want variety?

[Katatonic]

We are biologically wired to not be monogamous. If a guy doesn't cheat, he sure as hell fantasizes about fucking other women.

[RouteBackwards]

I live by number seven... Even though it makes me lame.

[Cincinnatus]

Guys cheat for one reason. We want some strange, and we think we can get away with it.

[ElBorrachoInfamoso]

I don't understand men who don't want variety. What's wrong with them? Even gay men want variety.

What fraction of men who don't want variety are either asexual or closeted gay men?

[Parlay44]

To quote Mötley Crüe ...

Quote:

I’m such a good good boy
I just need a new toy

[Timoteo]

Quote:

"7. They Want Variety
Get this: Some men will cheat even though they love the woman they're with. "Men admit to cheating because they crave variety" says Morse, "but have done so while still being very happy in their current relationship." Yeah…that's ridiculously lame. "

#7 can still be the most difficult for women to wrap their heads around, because they still largely tie sex to their feelings (or they tie sex to the hamster, because if it were really still tied to feelings, they wouldn't be running up the notch counts that they do). Sometimes it's because another chick may have a bigger this, or a smaller that, but it's usually because she's just different. Period. #5 was also on point, especially one word - opportunity. It's that simple. An opportunity presents itself, and you won't get caught, so you get that nut.

[funkyzeit]

Sure, we want variety, but you also have to be a man with principles.

If a girls is good to you and is afraid of you cheating (afraid in a negative way of losing you and being alone and hurt, not in a way of having a fun challenge of winning mental games with the girls who want you), she deserves your loyalty. That is your way of taking care of her like she takes care of your clothes/food/dick.

But if she is being bitchy, shit tests you for various reasons because she is doubting your worth or openly disrespects you, then feel free to show her your worth through flirting or even fucking other women. But I prefer dumping her on the spot for that.

[Hannibal]

Preaching to the choir here, but it's not like a guy who cheats on his girlfriend with a random is that big of a deal.

We're not held up to the same standards as women when it comes to cheating because we can cheat without investing our feelings into it, something they can't do.

Plenty of husbands out there fooled around on their wives in the past and they didn't divorce them because of it. One of my older friends (like 50 years older than me) passed away recently and I learned that he had a girlfriend in another town. He was still married up until he died though.

[le prince perdu]

Men cheat because men love pussy.

When a man wake up in the morning the first thing on his mind is pussy.
When a man gets money he will go spend it on pussy.
When a man is bored the first thing he thinks about is pussy.
When a man is sick, pussy will cure him.

Men love pussy so much that he will always be hunting for pussy, even if he has a 1000 beautiful women waiting for him, he will still look around for some new pussy.

[Millz]

Everyone wants more flags and thats the truth. I still need to sample indian and oriental myself. More pussy is the only answer

[Pete]

I cheat. So what?

I've been with so many women who are engaged or have boyfriends that I don't trust any of 'em. In my opinion most women are the same with very few exceptions.