[Ensam]

I met a girl (~7) the other night at a party. She is a friend of a friend and was flirty. Turns out she'll be in the city I'm going to be in next weekend. She gave me her number and wants to meet up. The rub is she's going to that city to meet up with a guy she met at a conference a few weeks ago. Is this worth following up on? I have a feeling I might be plan B if things don't go well with that guy. I'll be there with a few of my former roommates/wingmen and figure it might be worth just inviting her along to whatever we end up doing. I don't think I'd change any of my plans to accommodate meeting up with her.

[jerome]

(01-20-2013 07:12 PM)Ensam Wrote:  

I met a girl (~7) the other night at a party. She is a friend of a friend and was flirty. Turns out she'll be in the city I'm going to be in next weekend. She gave me her number and wants to meet up. The rub is she's going to that city to meet up with a guy she met at a conference a few weeks ago. Is this worth following up on? I have a feeling I might be plan B if things don't go well with that guy. I'll be there with a few of my former roommates/wingmen and figure it might be worth just inviting her along to whatever we end up doing. I don't think I'd change any of my plans to accommodate meeting up with her.

Just invite her out to where you are going, if she is interested she will show up, if not, than you will realize the truth...

The other guy is irrelevant. All you can do is control your own destiny, and that is to have fun and invite people to your party,

A man true value is his ability to walk away from a woman.

[Insignia]

(01-20-2013 07:12 PM)Ensam Wrote:  

I met a girl (~7) the other night at a party. She is a friend of a friend and was flirty. Turns out she'll be in the city I'm going to be in next weekend. She gave me her number and wants to meet up. The rub is she's going to that city to meet up with a guy she met at a conference a few weeks ago. Is this worth following up on? I have a feeling I might be plan B if things don't go well with that guy. I'll be there with a few of my former roommates/wingmen and figure it might be worth just inviting her along to whatever we end up doing. I don't think I'd change any of my plans to accommodate meeting up with her.

She just gave you a shit test, she is down but the other guy thing is a test to see if are going to get jealous or overeact like a beta. Just ignore the other guy completely and just contact her for a meet up, protray confidence and you will get her no problem. If a girl gives you their phone number she is definitely down.

[Ensam]

Update: Ended up not happening, plans changed and I ended up staying in a different town. Still had a fun weekend with my friends but man, french chicks are brutal.