[twigman]

Hi - because its all I can do right now, given my current life and this dead city, I am meeting girls in supermarkets and cafes, malls etc (not bars). I generally get a back-forth conversation of around 3 or 4 sentences. eg. to a cashier in a department store playing awful music. I class her as an 8 because she is wearing no make up and is in some store uniform and she looks very cute. SHe has an eastern european accent. So thats very appealing to me for some reason.

me: 'Do you choose the music here?"
her: "no way... " laughs
me: "I was going to say..."
her: "we definitely don't, try listening to I Apologise like infinity times a day... awful".
me: "Really I thought you picked it between yourselves and played it over and over again because you liked it "
her: "Noooo..." laughing.

I was getting some good teasing happening, but I just don't know where to take these things. I felt a connection, but couldn't advance. The number close seemed to dorky without more rapport. Do I just need to go deeper ? "Wheres your accent from"?. ANyway thoughts on process here guys, I'm a bit lost. She was a cashier - not much time as there are other people waiting. I went back again, and bought a packet of gum (' I am waiting for my ride'), and then was too shy to open again. She probably gets hit on all time and I need to go in a bit deeper into some kind of show of value?

Ah, a bit painful. It was nice to make her laugh but I don't want to play the entertainer.

[duncanidaho]

My recommendation is to game her a for a couple more days to build up her attraction and interest in you in order to advance to a number close. Someone mentioned in another post about a friend who would interact with a woman in the same scenario quite often, then one day purposely ignore her and talk to someone else. I think that's a good way of showing you're not needy and have an attitude free of any outcomes as well as help build up the attraction and interest from a woman.

If you're not sure of when to ask for a number/email or whatever, just remember it's better to do so when you're on a high note, right after you've demonstrated something she finds of value. Let her know you have to meet some friends, but you'd like to talk to her when she's not working to support her meth habit. ;D I prefer to have the woman volunteer her contact information (I'll typically ask, "how can we talk later?") and when she's writing it down, I'll write out my information, but I won't hand it to her until after she hands me hers.

[Roosh]

Yes you have to go deeper, or else you are taking an awkward stab in the dark. For non-bar places.. does she ask you a question about yourself? Or at least does she ask any type of question to continue the conversation? If not then it's okay to walk away. But if she does.. "Hey i gotta run.. it was nice talking to you.. how we continue this conversation some other time?"
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