Last night, I was on a train. I was sitting near one of the exits reading a book and I was alone. An 18 year old sat down across from me. Her stop was coming up and she was waiting to exit. She had a big poster board near her legs. I asked her if that was a souvenir. She said that it was her work. Then she asked me what I was doing on the train. I told her that I was coming home from a Brooklyn Nets game.
Next, she told me that she was a freshman at the Fashion Institute of Technology (FIT). I told her that I lived in an NYU dorm this summer. The train was slowing down, so I immediately told her that she seemed pretty cool and that I will be moving into NYC this September. I asked her if she wanted to grab a drink and she said that she has a boyfriend. I told her that a lot of things could change from now until September. She said that is true, haha. I then said that I would give her my number and if anything changed hit me up. She said that I'll give you my number. She yelled it out while she was outside the train before the doors closed. I got it.
My immediate instinct was to text her this Sunday to wish her luck with her upcoming semester but I have learned to always do the opposite. Therefore, I reasoned that I should wait until September to contact her. Today, I was re-reading Bang to see where I went wrong last week with a girl who I met at a library but who flaked out the day of our drink date. Anyway, I saw that Roosh advised that should you text a girl within the first week of meeting her or else she will mentally write you off.
Here is my dilemma: I want to meet up with her asap. She was cute and she was attracted to me because she gave me her number even though she has a boyfriend. Also, it was only about a three minute conversion. My problem is that I do not have a place in NYC yet but I could rent a room in one of those hour long hotels. I am confident that if I can get her out to a few venues near FIT, I will get the bang. I will take her to the same places where I took 3 other girls last summer with the last resulting in a bang.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated if I should text her this week or wait until September. If this one does not work out, on to the next. Thanks
Next, she told me that she was a freshman at the Fashion Institute of Technology (FIT). I told her that I lived in an NYU dorm this summer. The train was slowing down, so I immediately told her that she seemed pretty cool and that I will be moving into NYC this September. I asked her if she wanted to grab a drink and she said that she has a boyfriend. I told her that a lot of things could change from now until September. She said that is true, haha. I then said that I would give her my number and if anything changed hit me up. She said that I'll give you my number. She yelled it out while she was outside the train before the doors closed. I got it.
My immediate instinct was to text her this Sunday to wish her luck with her upcoming semester but I have learned to always do the opposite. Therefore, I reasoned that I should wait until September to contact her. Today, I was re-reading Bang to see where I went wrong last week with a girl who I met at a library but who flaked out the day of our drink date. Anyway, I saw that Roosh advised that should you text a girl within the first week of meeting her or else she will mentally write you off.
Here is my dilemma: I want to meet up with her asap. She was cute and she was attracted to me because she gave me her number even though she has a boyfriend. Also, it was only about a three minute conversion. My problem is that I do not have a place in NYC yet but I could rent a room in one of those hour long hotels. I am confident that if I can get her out to a few venues near FIT, I will get the bang. I will take her to the same places where I took 3 other girls last summer with the last resulting in a bang.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated if I should text her this week or wait until September. If this one does not work out, on to the next. Thanks
