[Divorco]

Some guys crave the novelty of "strange" pussy. They literally would chase an average new woman instead of repeating with a supermodel. But they would also date aboriginal she-beasts if nothing else were available. They prefer quantity to quality.

I care less about novelty and am just not terribly interested in dating below-average. Even when suicidally lonely and sexually frustrated, I'm still not interested in a "4". Suppose my "floor" is an average "5". That means I get one point of benefit from dating a "6", but five points of benefit from dating a "10". It might be more extreme than that. I would probably drive several hours or take a vacation to see a hottie instead of a slightly above-average woman.

There must be a lot of guys like me. Most guys just lock up a girlfriend and then completely stop looking. I wonder about the prevalence and malleability of preferences. What if a young Roosh had gotten a hot girlfriend? What if a typical beta stumbled upon a pussy paradise?

[Pappy]

People forget one thing. Sure you can conquer a 9 or 10 and have the best sex. But that requires effort.

With a 5, you don't have to clean your appartment, you don't have to shower, you don't have to have something to eat. And the effort required to make her suck your cock and come in her mouth is a lot less than a hot girl. The 5 will do anything you tell her to do and it will be easy. And when she gets angry you just know she doesn't have better options than you.

[ElBorrachoInfamoso]

Have you tested this out? I mean, have you had a quality girlfriend and little desire to bang other chicks for a long period?

I know men like this exist but I can't empathize with them.

What's that quote? Behind every hot girl is a man bored of fucking her.

[Ovid]

My experience has been mixed in a relationship. On the one hand, it was harder to motivate myself to chase other girls, mostly because in a relationship it's logistically an order-of-magnitude more difficult. So, harder + not that many hot girls in my daily routine + regular sex from a pretty girl... It's easier to just succumb to circumstances. On the other hand, sex with my last girlfriend got so boring that sometimes I'd have to slip off to the bathroom and watch a bit of porn to get hard... That was when it really hit home how dissatisfied I was, and I ended it.

From this I'd conclude that relationships are only workable if you find a girl who takes care of you and treats you like a king and has interests and values which very closely intersect with yours, while allowing you enough freedom to cheat with other girls on the sly. Thus, you get occasional mediocre (at worst, at best mind-blowing) sex from a girl who is pleasant enough to keep around for Saturday afternoons, while still being able to bang some strange and keep your options open. Engineering that sort of situation is tough, though.

[sixsix]

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There are two distinct types of non-AFC men. Thrill of the Hunt men (TotH) and Pleasure of Sex men (PoS).

Before I describe each, let me clarify a few things.


* Neither type of guy is any better than the other. They’re not better or worse. They’re just different. As you’re about to see, there are lot of pros and cons to both styles.


* BOTH types of men are Alpha males. Both types can be skilled at seduction and/or relationships. Both are “cool”.


* These two types of men have nothing to do with monogamy or poly, nor is this a discussion about mono vs. poly. Both types of men can desire mono and/or poly relationships (though with different results as you’ll soon see). Men of both kinds are very horny, love sex, and (sadly) usually desire to “settle down” and get monogamous someday “down the road”. Neither type of guy should get monogamous, for completely different reasons that I’ll demonstrate in a minute. But again, this is not a discussion about monogamy.


* As you read through these descriptions, you’re going to think “I’m a little bit of both.” Lots of guys have some PoS and TofH in them, but you are not “both” no matter how much you think you are. One of them is stronger in you than the other. That being said, some guys can be extreme in their style (PoS or TotH) and some guys just be “standard” in their style. But you’re one or the other, not both.


The Difference Between The Two

PoS guys desire sex. They don’t care how they get it as long as it’s easy, quick, and not a lot of trouble. For TotH guys, the hunt is just as important as the sex. Sometimes it’s even more important.

That’s really it…but it’s a big difference.

TotH guys are always pushing themselves to the limit, trying to accomplish difficult lays. Fucking a gal who was really hard lay is a huge source of pleasure for them. The harder the lay, the more they had to work, the more they had to push themselves for the lay, the better they like it. Whenever you read about a 45 minute bathroom lay at a club, you’re likely reading about a TotH guy. Whenever you read about a guy battling a chick’s reluctant ASD for hours to score that SNL or SDL, you’re very likely reading about a TotH guy.

PoS guys just want to get laid. They want to get to the sex as easily as possible without a lot of hassle, even if the methods they use are considered “boring” or “AFC”. They just want the sex. They don’t give as shit about the hunt. As a matter of fact, extreme PoS guys won’t bother with pickup at all…they’ll just pay for hookers. Again, they don’t care how they get it. They just want it. Whenever you read about a guy talking about how great Facebook is for getting laid, you're likely looking at a PoS guy.

TotH guys view the process of seduction as fun and thoroughly enjoyable. PoS guys view the process of seduction as a necessary evil. They both can be very effective. One wants to push himself to accomplish great things, the other wants to get laid fast and easily. Either approach can work.

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