[Architekt]

What are some things you think every guy should do/try to build that interesting lifestyle?

I've got a few, and I'm in the process of writing a blog post about it, but I want to make sure I haven't missed any.

Some stuff I came up with:

Being fit and doing sports
Hitting gym, doing gymnastics, parkour, martial arts, surfing, dancing, yoga etc
Get jacked

Knowing all the spots and events going in your neighbourhood and city

Knowing shit about food and drinks

Reading a ton of books and articles

Forming opinions on everything

Learning how to be stylish

Produce music in some way

Travel as much as you can

Have an interesting job

Speak another language

Learn how to cook, and just take care of yourself in general

[WestIndianArchie]

Interesting to who?

Himself?
Chicks?
Some specified demographic?

Audience matters.

[Thomas the Rhymer]

Stubborn cheerfulness against all odds.

People are drawn to happy people.

[Architekt]

(01-10-2013 03:49 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Interesting to who?

Himself?
Chicks?
Some specified demographic?

Audience matters.

If you do things you find interesting and love it, girls will ultimately find your passion interesting and will probably want to be a part of it anyway.

[kenny_powers]

You hit some good points to make sure you are a well-balanced and interesting man.

I find knowing a wide range of people from different backgrounds, with different hobbies, careers, nationalities, etc...makes your life and subsequently you more interesting. Don't isolate yourself to one type of crowd. If I hosted a big party of all my friends from the last 20 years it would be a giant shit show. Strippers, Drs, lawyers, junkies, bums, millionaires, Jesus freaks, Muslims, surfers, meatheads, yuppies, young, old, etc....

You should also have a mentor. And you should be mentoring a younger guy on something - career, women, sports, whatever.

[Architekt]

(01-10-2013 08:51 PM)kenny_powers Wrote:  

You hit some good points to make sure you are a well-balanced and interesting man.

I find knowing a wide range of people from different backgrounds, with different hobbies, careers, nationalities, etc...makes your life and subsequently you more interesting. Don't isolate yourself to one type of crowd. If I hosted a big party of all my friends from the last 20 years it would be a giant shit show. Strippers, Drs, lawyers, junkies, bums, millionaires, Jesus freaks, Muslims, surfers, meatheads, yuppies, young, old, etc....

You should also have a mentor. And you should be mentoring a younger guy on something - career, women, sports, whatever.

Solid idea, including this in my list

[lush1]

To be vivacious, gregarious and fun in all aspects of your life wherever the situation allows.

[Giovonny]

(01-10-2013 03:21 PM)Architekt Wrote:  

What are some things you think every guy should do/try to build that interesting lifestyle?

Every man should do what makes him happy. Follow his passions. Follow his inner voice.

Regardless of what women think.

Game is about presenting yourself in an attractive way. Sometimes, that means not sharing everything about your life.

(01-10-2013 04:01 PM)Architekt Wrote:  

If you do things you find interesting and love it, girls will ultimately find your passion interesting and will probably want to be a part of it anyway.

My passion is collecting insects. I'm also very passionate about the mating habits of spiders. And, I love to play role playing games like Dungeons and Dragons!

But, this is what I really love to do!!!



Do you think chicks will sense my passion and want to be a part of my lifestyle???

Of course not!!!

Having hobbies in one thing. Attracting women is something else.

You wanna attract women? Be good looking, funny, high value, and socially intelligent.

You wanna have an interesting life? Do what interests you.

Don't assume women will care about your passions. It might bring you all the joy in the world, but, to her, it only makes you a nerd or a weirdo.

The guy who is passionate about partying and having fun will certainly pull more chicks then the guy who is passionate about insects. What's interesting to you, may or may not be interesting to a girl.

[Technics]

Here's what would be on my short-list for what I believe is an interesting lifestyle:

1) At least tri-lingual (legit language skills, not what 80% of people pass off for "knowing" a language)
2) Being able to knock it out of the park with at lest 2-3 food dishes.
3) Well traveled
4) Being fit and having at least one sport or martial that is a passion
5) Strong knowledge of female psychology and how to please a woman sexually

[lush1]

(01-11-2013 04:03 PM)Technics Wrote:  

Here's what would be on my short-list for what I believe is an interesting lifestyle:

1) At least tri-lingual (legit language skills, not what 80% of people pass off for "knowing" a language)

Agree with all of them except this one, the vast majority of girls couldn't give a flying fuck what languages you know (unless obviously its their language).

[Ensam]

Yeah, but if you speak three or four languages well you've drastically increased the chances that you'll be speaking her language. In the western world a combination of English, Spanish, French and German ensures that you can pretty much communicate with anybody.

[WestIndianArchie]

(01-10-2013 04:01 PM)Architekt Wrote:  

(01-10-2013 03:49 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Interesting to who?

Himself?
Chicks?
Some specified demographic?

Audience matters.

If you do things you find interesting and love it, girls will ultimately find your passion interesting and will probably want to be a part of it anyway.

lol

[Technics]

(01-11-2013 08:00 PM)lush1 Wrote:  

(01-11-2013 04:03 PM)Technics Wrote:  

Here's what would be on my short-list for what I believe is an interesting lifestyle:

1) At least tri-lingual (legit language skills, not what 80% of people pass off for "knowing" a language)

Agree with all of them except this one, the vast majority of girls couldn't give a flying fuck what languages you know (unless obviously its their language).

A) I would contend that a large percentage of all girls, and an even larger percentage of classy girls are quite impressed by foreign language knowledge

B) As another poster said, its not just about impressing them but being able to communicate with girls who do not speak your native language

C) This thread is about building an interesting lifestyle. Therefore, not exclusively related to just what attracts girls. In my opinion, being multi-lingual adds greatly to the "interestingness" of a lifestyle and expands greatly the culture, media, and philosophies one has access to.

[lush1]

I will agree to disagree on point A but make you right on B and C !

[Architekt]

(01-11-2013 03:54 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(01-10-2013 03:21 PM)Architekt Wrote:  

What are some things you think every guy should do/try to build that interesting lifestyle?

Every man should do what makes him happy. Follow his passions. Follow his inner voice.

Regardless of what women think.

Game is about presenting yourself in an attractive way. Sometimes, that means not sharing everything about your life.

(01-10-2013 04:01 PM)Architekt Wrote:  

If you do things you find interesting and love it, girls will ultimately find your passion interesting and will probably want to be a part of it anyway.

My passion is collecting insects. I'm also very passionate about the mating habits of spiders. And, I love to play role playing games like Dungeons and Dragons!

But, this is what I really love to do!!!



Do you think chicks will sense my passion and want to be a part of my lifestyle???

Of course not!!!

Having hobbies in one thing. Attracting women is something else.

You wanna attract women? Be good looking, funny, high value, and socially intelligent.

You wanna have an interesting life? Do what interests you.

Don't assume women will care about your passions. It might bring you all the joy in the world, but, to her, it only makes you a nerd or a weirdo.

The guy who is passionate about partying and having fun will certainly pull more chicks then the guy who is passionate about insects. What's interesting to you, may or may not be interesting to a girl.

Maybe I should have included something about masculinity in the criteria for said activities