So I go out with this girl met on Match. She is a 6.5/7. Not a model but definitely worth a fuck or two. I am a newbie, I need to practice.
First I had a pretty solid (I think) email exchange with her to get her to the date. The day of the date (today, I just got back) she texts me on the phone asking if we are still on. I answer after a while, say we are on, make a joke. We exchange a few more texts. I make sure she sends the last text and I answer always a bit later that she does and with short texts.
She comes to the date and seems pretty enthusiastic, she smiles a lot, she constantly touches her hair, fidgets with her necklace, we laugh a lot, spend a good time. She actually starts kino, she touches my arm. By the end of the date I almost constantly touch her hands and arms and she touches back. She reciprocates and she touches my leg at some point; however she somehow felt self-conscious about that and she told me that she did because her chair would move too much. She is a PhD student in health policy field, I have a PhD in economics so she spends at least 15 minutes saying "oh you must be a genius", "I worship economists etc". I answer with a bit of self-deprecation "I am not a genius", "you'll make me change the subject" etc. Maybe that's wrong but I thought that overall was pretty good DHV...
I had planned for drinks and wanted to keep it short (I read someone in another thread give this advice: first date short, second date go for the bang), meet at 8:30 and leave at 10:30 at most, but honestly we are having a good time and without even realizing its 11:45. I say I gotta go home because I work tomorrow (I work a lot...). She is leaving for school tomorrow, about two hours flight. I am still not planning for a bang, I think it's just going to be a kiss and goodnight. I paid for drinks (so I guess here is a first mistake but what else can I do? The guy asked for a card to open a tab at the beginning of the evening and I gave him mine. It seemed impractical then to say: "oh btw let's split the drinks". How do I deal with this next time?).
We get out of the bar, she offers to drive me home without me asking. I went there with the Metro, wasn't planning on taking her back home. I say "thanks, you can leave me at the metro if it is too far for you". She says "no, no I will take you home". So at this point I think that there is no way that I am not going to get laid tonight. On the car we keep talking and smiling and so on (15 minutes ride).
She parks in front of my house, I go to kiss her and she... gives me the cheek. WTF? So not even a kiss, after all? Is it because the ride on the car cooled her down? Did I do something retarded without even realizing it?
I am a newbie so maybe I misread the whole thing and made tons of mistake. Can you explain to me what you think happened and how I should deal with this next?
First I had a pretty solid (I think) email exchange with her to get her to the date. The day of the date (today, I just got back) she texts me on the phone asking if we are still on. I answer after a while, say we are on, make a joke. We exchange a few more texts. I make sure she sends the last text and I answer always a bit later that she does and with short texts.
She comes to the date and seems pretty enthusiastic, she smiles a lot, she constantly touches her hair, fidgets with her necklace, we laugh a lot, spend a good time. She actually starts kino, she touches my arm. By the end of the date I almost constantly touch her hands and arms and she touches back. She reciprocates and she touches my leg at some point; however she somehow felt self-conscious about that and she told me that she did because her chair would move too much. She is a PhD student in health policy field, I have a PhD in economics so she spends at least 15 minutes saying "oh you must be a genius", "I worship economists etc". I answer with a bit of self-deprecation "I am not a genius", "you'll make me change the subject" etc. Maybe that's wrong but I thought that overall was pretty good DHV...
I had planned for drinks and wanted to keep it short (I read someone in another thread give this advice: first date short, second date go for the bang), meet at 8:30 and leave at 10:30 at most, but honestly we are having a good time and without even realizing its 11:45. I say I gotta go home because I work tomorrow (I work a lot...). She is leaving for school tomorrow, about two hours flight. I am still not planning for a bang, I think it's just going to be a kiss and goodnight. I paid for drinks (so I guess here is a first mistake but what else can I do? The guy asked for a card to open a tab at the beginning of the evening and I gave him mine. It seemed impractical then to say: "oh btw let's split the drinks". How do I deal with this next time?).
We get out of the bar, she offers to drive me home without me asking. I went there with the Metro, wasn't planning on taking her back home. I say "thanks, you can leave me at the metro if it is too far for you". She says "no, no I will take you home". So at this point I think that there is no way that I am not going to get laid tonight. On the car we keep talking and smiling and so on (15 minutes ride).
She parks in front of my house, I go to kiss her and she... gives me the cheek. WTF? So not even a kiss, after all? Is it because the ride on the car cooled her down? Did I do something retarded without even realizing it?
I am a newbie so maybe I misread the whole thing and made tons of mistake. Can you explain to me what you think happened and how I should deal with this next?