[tenderman100]

Ok, some context.

I started working this babe at the beginning of December -- very smart, reasonably good looking, late 40s. We had scheduled to meet the second week in December, but the two other babes in my harem wanted some get togethers, and then I had to travel all the second week of December for business, then off the opposite coast for family holidays, so I stopped communication. If she came back, great...if not, oh well.

Here are the exchanges int he past few days.

Her

Quote:

To the man who took me to the brink of our desire then left town in a hurry: my last transmittal. I guess your passion runs hot and cold...

I presume you found something better.

I certainly did.

Happy new year to us both.

Me.

Quote:

Good for you. Crazy end of year and new year for me. Found something better? Me? Maybe...maybe not.

If what you have found eventually, if not already, disappoints...options are available.

Her

Quote:

Well I guess I lied ... that was not my last transmittal. The truth is I would still like to meet you. Your cool detachment and long absence tell me what you're offering is uncomplicated - and that appeals to me. But I don't know how you turn it off and on so callously.

I'm conflicted but also skeptical that what you call "passion" is anything beyond a quick roll - not that I'm knocking that - but I just don't know what we're talking about here. I'm too susceptible to the allure of your earlier (and our collaborative) writing, but in the end I know they are just words - not even sentiments and definitely not action (so therefore fairly hollow). I'm too much the dreamer. But it seems so simple - it's just an authentic physical and emotional connection I crave. And I think that's what you want too. Why is that so difficult to find?

Anyway ... I'm not sure what I'm doing. But I'm less confident now than when we had planned to meet in December. And there has been a new development that could hold promise. Too soon to tell.

[Dulceácido]

Hook, line, and sinker. Her hamster is going nuts.

She seems pretty high maintenance and needy, though. How much effort are you supposed to invest in chasing and "wooing" a chick that is married? She's completely delusional in that regard. She wants to be pursued as if she were single and actually brought more to the table than a vagina. Chicks are so predictably disappointing. Her husband probably has no idea what a skank his old lady is.

You gonna meet her?

[tenderman100]

(01-07-2013 10:14 AM)Dulceácido Wrote:  

Hook, line, and sinker. Her hamster is going nuts.

She seems pretty high maintenance and needy, though. How much effort are you supposed to invest in chasing and "wooing" a chick that is married? She's completely delusional in that regard. She wants to be pursued as if she were single and actually brought more to the table than a vagina. Chicks are so predictably disappointing. Her husband probably has no idea what a skank his old lady is.

You gonna meet her?

They ALL seem high maintenance and needy. Yet I really like her honesty. She wants an "emotional" connection but she really really wants to be fucked really really hard.

I'm torn. At one point I had three in the harem and given how much I work it was too much. The two I have now are great. We'll see.

[el mechanico]

Why do you work so much at your age? You should be winding down in poosy paradise and inviting us to do some bird-dogging

[Teedub]

You've certainly gamed her well! Very impressive

[tenderman100]

(01-07-2013 11:07 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Why do you work so much at your age? You should be winding down in poosy paradise and inviting us to do some bird-dogging

I like what I do -- I have two kinds of addictions --business and politics. Working keeps me invigorated.

After two marriages, I need the money. Plus, by the time I tap it, social security and Medicare will be worthless.

[el mechanico]

(01-07-2013 12:06 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

(01-07-2013 11:07 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Why do you work so much at your age? You should be winding down in poosy paradise and inviting us to do some bird-dogging

I like what I do -- I have two kinds of addictions --business and politics. Working keeps me invigorated.

After two marriages, I need the money. Plus, by the time I tap it, social security and Medicare will be worthless.

Do that stuff in your 70s leave the country now.

[Menace]

Two marriages? That is news. What made you do it the second time? Once was enough for me, even with an amiable end.

[OGNorCal707]

I find it interesting that as a guy who has been married twice, tenderman has quite the fetish for banging married women. It's almost like he wears it as a badge of honor or some shit, could this be because he was cheated on when he was married, and this is some strange form of "setting things even".

Personally the idea of fucking a married woman does nothing for me, there are enough single women out there, I'd rather not have to deal with banging someone else's wife.

[OGNorCal707]

(01-07-2013 12:06 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

(01-07-2013 11:07 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Why do you work so much at your age? You should be winding down in poosy paradise and inviting us to do some bird-dogging

I like what I do -- I have two kinds of addictions --business and politics. Working keeps me invigorated.

After two marriages, I need the money. Plus, by the time I tap it, social security and Medicare will be worthless.

Unless you are working in politics, "politics" is a lame excuse for an "addiction", I'm assuming you mean following politics, which is something you can do as long as you have a computer and internet connection.

Plus, aren't you old enough to be tapping into social security and medicare already. Use it before you lose it old man.

[el mechanico]

(01-07-2013 01:21 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(01-07-2013 12:06 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

(01-07-2013 11:07 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  

Why do you work so much at your age? You should be winding down in poosy paradise and inviting us to do some bird-dogging

I like what I do -- I have two kinds of addictions --business and politics. Working keeps me invigorated.

After two marriages, I need the money. Plus, by the time I tap it, social security and Medicare will be worthless.

Unless you are working in politics, "politics" is a lame excuse for an "addiction", I'm assuming you mean following politics, which is something you can do as long as you have a computer and internet connection.

Plus, aren't you old enough to be tapping into social security and medicare already. Use it before you lose it old man.

I'm waiting for that pm..The one from Tenderman that says "Hey dude just scored a huge villa in Cali Colombia and two Suzuki Samurais with 350 conversions. Come down."

[Hotwheels]

A Samurai with a 350?

Sounds like a deathride.

[el mechanico]

(01-07-2013 01:34 PM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

A Samurai with a 350?

Sounds like a deathride.

Tender's gonna live on the edge

As far a politics go if you're really interested the fastest way to get close to politics is to move to a third word country. Even our "DR Driver" has met the president in his homeland.

[tenderman100]

I love how all you guys are so solicitous of me and have all this great advice....

Just so you know...I am going to meet of my married babes in a couple of hours (a hotel she is paying for) fuck her brains out...and then go teach a class I run...

It's gonna be a good day.

[OGNorCal707]

(01-07-2013 02:04 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

Just so you know...I am going to meet of my married babes in a couple of hours (a hotel she is paying for) fuck her brains out...and then go teach a class I run...

It's gonna be a good day.

I just hope to God you're not a political science professor.

[ColSpanker]

Long may you run.

[tenderman100]

(01-07-2013 02:22 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

I just hope to God you're not a political science professor.

Holy shit, no! I actually teach stuff that is useful to people.

Though there are some poli sci professors who are actually pretty good.

[soup]

Go Tenderman! Tenderman reminds me of this:

[el mechanico]

(01-08-2013 01:46 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

(01-07-2013 02:22 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

I just hope to God you're not a political science professor.

Holy shit, no! I actually teach stuff that is useful to people.

Though there are some poli sci professors who are actually pretty good.

Like what?

[tenderman100]

(01-08-2013 02:07 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  

(01-08-2013 01:46 PM)tenderman100 Wrote:  

(01-07-2013 02:22 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

I just hope to God you're not a political science professor.

Holy shit, no! I actually teach stuff that is useful to people.

Though there are some poli sci professors who are actually pretty good.

Like what?

Let's just call it "Executive Management Skills."

[tenderman100]

(01-07-2013 01:18 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

I find it interesting that as a guy who has been married twice, tenderman has quite the fetish for banging married women. It's almost like he wears it as a badge of honor or some shit, could this be because he was cheated on when he was married, and this is some strange form of "setting things even".

Personally the idea of fucking a married woman does nothing for me, there are enough single women out there, I'd rather not have to deal with banging someone else's wife.

Here's my argument for doing it.

Quote:

I want to make the argument for why married women are in many ways the best chicks to game, especially for an older guy like me who will find the young chicks to be rare bangs.

First, a married woman who is out for new cock is more than likely to be married to a Beta. The Beta man can take many forms -- a guy who is boring in bed, who can't get it up, or when he does it's too small. Sometimes the beta husband is exactly what the chick wanted -- stable, financially secure to the degree she wanted (or to a lesser degree) but is soulless, intellectually vapid, inattentive, or simply ineffectual.

Second, before you get involved with a married woman, you really have to sound out what kind of beta she is married to -- or rather if she's married to one at all. If she is some kind of total slut, who is married to a guy who is very powerful and an Alpha, and she really want ANOTHER alpha...well run away. But if she's married to a guy who, for example, is simply not pleasing her sexually or is so incredibly boring as a man...then that's a woman that is worth banging. Even if you are discovered by the beta husband -- as I once was by this very successful attorney husband, but a pure beta who simply couldn't pound her like I could -- all he will say is "stay away from my wife." That beta is not going to murder you or subpoena you.

By the way, the more upscale the chick is, the better. If she's got the nice house, the nice life, the nice workout club, the nice car....she's not going to give that up. And the Beta husband isn't going to do anything to you either...he's got an image, commitments. Stay away from the babes with total working class loser types or, of course, the mafia types. But the upper middle class babes with the corporate husband or the small business husband...they are perfect targets.

Third, married women love the fantasy that "this guy will take me away from all this." But deep down she knows it's not going to happen. So you work the imagination, but you also bring her to reality. She will see that you will not rescue her...but she has experienced the fucking that she has craved. That tension, for her, is thrilling. And when you make her come by eating her pussy, and it hasn't happened for her for so long, she will come crawling back to you. You have her.

Fourth, and finally, the encounters will be almost always completely sexual. She won't spend the night. She will fuck, and leave. Oh, she might call, and text, and email, but her own schedule, her own commitments, will eventually lead her to see that this will be a sometime thing. In addition, she is almost always fucking nobody else but you -- no time, no energy. She isn't promiscuous, like the the 20 somethings unattached and in the bar scene. She also knows that SHE needs to keep it secret...and that she is in trouble if she gets caught. Women are tremendous liars, and especially good at lying to the beta.

Anyway, that's why I love the married women. The sex is tremendous. The commitment from me is virtually non-existent.

[tenderman100]

Well, we finally got together this Friday, after some scheduling issues (she is working and traveling) and it was...well, not a disappointment, because I did fuck her...but the other two married babes I have going are so much nicer looking. She wasn't a SIF, but she was definitely plump. The fun part was she was totally submissive...she was desperate to be dominated, and I did that.

These situations are always problematic. She wants it bad, and the fucking can be fun, and if our schedules mesh, she'd get together in a nanosecond. I don't think I'd really have to go into gaming contortions. So the opportunity would always be there. But the yoga babe with her tight ass is way way nicer, as is the raven haired corporate drone housewife with her good plastic surgery and tummy tuck...though I still have to put in gaming effort with both of them.

[Timoteo]

I target women in their 40s, and while I don't target married women, I had an ongoing, bicoastal thing with one for years. Anyway, this one is definitely intelligent, and really self-analytical. The hamster is spinning, but she acknowledges that it's spinning and admitted to still wanting to get fucked because you got her spinning. After all that verbal diarrhea (in part a challenge, but a submission also), she gave it up. NICE. As long as she acts right, carve out a place for her. These thinking types eventually become too annoying to deal with, but if she's an enthusiastic bang...