A few weeks ago I was on a first date. Since it was unseasonably warm out, I suggested we go for a walk around the neighborhood to look at the pretty houses. This was after the getting the first brief make out in the bar of course.
While walking, we happened by a school playground. She suggested we go in. This turned out to be a brilliant opportunity to generate all sorts of positive emotions, defusing any player vibe, demonstrating a playful, unself-conscious nature, and getting some fun kino in. I pushed her on the swings really high until she screamed, we went down the slide, showed off how many pull-ups I can do on the monkey bars, then cuddled up inside the little fort for a few minutes before saying it was time to go home.
Now I wasn't going to get a lay on the first date with this girl since she's 22 and inexperienced. It ended up being the third date with her.
Since then I've tried this with two other girls; so far it's worked brilliantly. Both of these were on second dates, and I worked them in at the beginning on the way to a dj/dance club venue in my neighborhood. We came across them "accidentally" of course while giving them the scenic tour of my area. So I get spontaneity points too.
Both times I got them laughing like a giddy schoolgirl. And got the notch at the end of the night.
Anyone else ever try this?
While walking, we happened by a school playground. She suggested we go in. This turned out to be a brilliant opportunity to generate all sorts of positive emotions, defusing any player vibe, demonstrating a playful, unself-conscious nature, and getting some fun kino in. I pushed her on the swings really high until she screamed, we went down the slide, showed off how many pull-ups I can do on the monkey bars, then cuddled up inside the little fort for a few minutes before saying it was time to go home.
Now I wasn't going to get a lay on the first date with this girl since she's 22 and inexperienced. It ended up being the third date with her.
Since then I've tried this with two other girls; so far it's worked brilliantly. Both of these were on second dates, and I worked them in at the beginning on the way to a dj/dance club venue in my neighborhood. We came across them "accidentally" of course while giving them the scenic tour of my area. So I get spontaneity points too.
Both times I got them laughing like a giddy schoolgirl. And got the notch at the end of the night.
Anyone else ever try this?
