Challenge: Destroy my dry spell.
I'm trying to look out for a solution for my dry spell. I checked previous posts which relate to this topic but I want to have a space to log this as a particular challenge.
I am trying to adress this problem by going out almost every day and approaching as much as I can (4-5 approaches per night) but I am starting to suspect that my inner game is not in it's best spirits, so I get more rejection because my vibe and mindset are wondering some weird places sometimes.
Anyhow I just have in mind the Just Keep Going Thread from Roosh, even though maybe I should make some adjustments to my life.
I am fairly good looking guy and sometimes I get lucky and I am able to pull out one night stands if I get in the right social mood I can break down groups, I can make 'em laugh their asses off, I have travelled and live in several cities around europe and can ramble almost about anything. And I am pretty good at what I do. I can go out solo with no problem at all and I used to be a shy person but not anymore.
But something is just not clicking. Maybe it's the winter that makes people less open, maybe is my financial situation that's in a tight moment (I'm not bitching, just trying to put some facts on the table).
I started jogging again, getting some endorphines going on and help me tackle my anxiety.
I will keep going, until my last breath, until I hit rock bottom and it's time to float back up and enjoy the ride.
It's been 3 months since my last notch, and it wasn't even in my hometown. I don't masturbate often either, try to keep it to once a week so I can have my testosterone levels up, and a clear mind.
Problem is, after 3 months the body starts to get used to not having sex, and a lot of the tools and skills (including my confidence) I had with me from my high tide, seem not to be working at the moment.
I am becoming used not to have sex, so I am starting to idealize it and I need to reverse this process.
I will not quit and just keep going. I will be more systematical, I will start logging my approaches and try to learn from that.
But on top of everything I will start admitting: THIS IS FUCKING HARD.
This is when one must struggle and overcome luck as factor and play the numbers. I will keep going even though my inner self is closing down too.
This is where I'm not sure to listen to myself, or just keep going against my difficulties, force myself out of this situation.
Where I live there are still parties from NYE until tomorrow. I wil take a shower and go back to the club I was and keep going for my NYE notch.
Much obliged,
VUBBS.
I'm trying to look out for a solution for my dry spell. I checked previous posts which relate to this topic but I want to have a space to log this as a particular challenge.
I am trying to adress this problem by going out almost every day and approaching as much as I can (4-5 approaches per night) but I am starting to suspect that my inner game is not in it's best spirits, so I get more rejection because my vibe and mindset are wondering some weird places sometimes.
Anyhow I just have in mind the Just Keep Going Thread from Roosh, even though maybe I should make some adjustments to my life.
I am fairly good looking guy and sometimes I get lucky and I am able to pull out one night stands if I get in the right social mood I can break down groups, I can make 'em laugh their asses off, I have travelled and live in several cities around europe and can ramble almost about anything. And I am pretty good at what I do. I can go out solo with no problem at all and I used to be a shy person but not anymore.
But something is just not clicking. Maybe it's the winter that makes people less open, maybe is my financial situation that's in a tight moment (I'm not bitching, just trying to put some facts on the table).
I started jogging again, getting some endorphines going on and help me tackle my anxiety.
I will keep going, until my last breath, until I hit rock bottom and it's time to float back up and enjoy the ride.
It's been 3 months since my last notch, and it wasn't even in my hometown. I don't masturbate often either, try to keep it to once a week so I can have my testosterone levels up, and a clear mind.
Problem is, after 3 months the body starts to get used to not having sex, and a lot of the tools and skills (including my confidence) I had with me from my high tide, seem not to be working at the moment.
I am becoming used not to have sex, so I am starting to idealize it and I need to reverse this process.
I will not quit and just keep going. I will be more systematical, I will start logging my approaches and try to learn from that.
But on top of everything I will start admitting: THIS IS FUCKING HARD.
This is when one must struggle and overcome luck as factor and play the numbers. I will keep going even though my inner self is closing down too.
This is where I'm not sure to listen to myself, or just keep going against my difficulties, force myself out of this situation.
Where I live there are still parties from NYE until tomorrow. I wil take a shower and go back to the club I was and keep going for my NYE notch.
Much obliged,
VUBBS.