I've been seeing this Mexican girl for three months, solid 8/10 with slim body, firm round ass, and about average sized but nice tits. She's firmly conservative, family oriented, cooks and cleans, and made me wait 7-8 dates for sex despite me pushing hard early and often.
I consider myself an intermediate player. I'll fully admit that I make occasional mistakes and that relationships are not my forte. I entered the game late, (I'm 27 and only been doing this a few years) but my looks and confidence are very good. My inner game and charisma has become my strongest link; my actual experience with women is a little more limited. I pass most shit tests with flying colors. Hot girls check me out all the time in public and this girl sees this all the time.
So we hit it off very well for the first two months, but now I find that she's bitching and moaning about more shit. She complains that I take too much control, that I'm an asshole her to her and don't let her make decisions and don't listen, blah blah blah. A one time complaint is no big deal, but this won't go away. The other day she was purring like a kitten at a bar, so into me that I could tell that every other girl was noticing and giving me hard IoI's. Then when the hockey game turned on I paid more attention to it than her, and she started getting very bitchy and repeated that I'm very rude with her and whatnot. I couldn't snap her out of it so I just sent her home that night.
She still enthusiasticly replies to my texts when I toss her a bone, and she tries to look good for me and says that she's ugly. She says she isn't sure she wants a relationship with me and gives me a laundry list of things that I supposedly do wrong. I've been aloof and laughed her off but she's still bitching and moaning and has become less fun to be around as a result. Am I overgaming from a relationship context? Does this girl want commitment and I need to sprinkle in some beta male shit? Is there a cultural barrier I'm missing? If so, whats the best way of proceeding without falling into her frame? Like I said, I'm bad with relationships and need an honest critique. Ask me for more information if you need it.
I'd prefer to salvage this, improve her behavior to where it was earlier, and turn it into a relationship if possible. But I'm also prepared to move on if needed. I'm just tired of dealing with cunty American girls just for sex and would prefer to try a relationship with a quality woman for once.
I consider myself an intermediate player. I'll fully admit that I make occasional mistakes and that relationships are not my forte. I entered the game late, (I'm 27 and only been doing this a few years) but my looks and confidence are very good. My inner game and charisma has become my strongest link; my actual experience with women is a little more limited. I pass most shit tests with flying colors. Hot girls check me out all the time in public and this girl sees this all the time.
So we hit it off very well for the first two months, but now I find that she's bitching and moaning about more shit. She complains that I take too much control, that I'm an asshole her to her and don't let her make decisions and don't listen, blah blah blah. A one time complaint is no big deal, but this won't go away. The other day she was purring like a kitten at a bar, so into me that I could tell that every other girl was noticing and giving me hard IoI's. Then when the hockey game turned on I paid more attention to it than her, and she started getting very bitchy and repeated that I'm very rude with her and whatnot. I couldn't snap her out of it so I just sent her home that night.
She still enthusiasticly replies to my texts when I toss her a bone, and she tries to look good for me and says that she's ugly. She says she isn't sure she wants a relationship with me and gives me a laundry list of things that I supposedly do wrong. I've been aloof and laughed her off but she's still bitching and moaning and has become less fun to be around as a result. Am I overgaming from a relationship context? Does this girl want commitment and I need to sprinkle in some beta male shit? Is there a cultural barrier I'm missing? If so, whats the best way of proceeding without falling into her frame? Like I said, I'm bad with relationships and need an honest critique. Ask me for more information if you need it.
I'd prefer to salvage this, improve her behavior to where it was earlier, and turn it into a relationship if possible. But I'm also prepared to move on if needed. I'm just tired of dealing with cunty American girls just for sex and would prefer to try a relationship with a quality woman for once.