[Sketness]

I just read VK's recent post on resistance The same thing happened to me where a girl basically took me home but then told me that i couldn't sleep in the bed, and that she tired and only wanted to watch a movie. So i opted to dip. My question is for the future should I have pushed for more? Or was that interaction just bound to fail since she wasent "feeling it"

[NYJ]

If she wasn't "feeling it" she wouldn't have let you come over to her place. The movie was a cop out as for the most part women aren't going to be direct about sex.

[polymath]

I think it's a little insulting if a woman invites you over but explicitly forbids you from her bed.

[DVY]

ive been in this situation before. Before i would weasel into the bed, or at least try to. Upon that failing, i would bounce or sleep in her bed (lol).

Now, after traveling in SEA, I would stat bounce and maybe even stop responding to her calls/texts until apology was rendered.

[RandalGraves]

FWIW, this is how I weaseled in one time:

Sitting on her couch watching our favorite show, drinking wine, and making out on and off.
"Hey, let's watch in your bedroom, more relaxing."
"I dunno... no sex tonight."
"Haha yeah, no sex, just cuddling."

In her bedroom...
"Ah, I hate laying in bed with jeans, so uncomfortable."

Pants off in bed--just a matter of getting her aroused enough during a makeout that she will accept when you escalate closer and closer to sex. It was rewarding watching her from behind slide her panties to the side of her pussy so I could hit it raw that night...