Quote: (12-24-2012 07:59 PM)Indyone Wrote:
I responded with "In that case, how about you and my imaginary and non existent girlfriend have a threesome then?"
I am curious how she reacted to that. I'm guessing it didn't go so well.
Maybe just take the Facebook on the off chance that she is a paranoid freak who feels the need to screen your profile before meeting you on a date? But that seems unlikely. In my experience, if a girl wants to bang, she doesn't care if I have a girlfriend or not, and doesn't bring it up. Also, you best believe she gives out her phone number, oftentimes without being asked. I have taken a few girls' social media accounts and sent them DMs, but it never led anywhere.
If a girl is genuinely interested, I've found, she'll make it easy to communicate your instructions for when and where to appear so that she can receive your manhood, and won't raise any topics that would tend towards discouraging a hookup. That's different than shit-tests, which are actually an indication of interest and can hasten the bang if you hold fast to your strong, masculine frame. In this case, the girl knows that it's inconvenient to organize a date via DMs, and easy to ignore such threads.
She isn't stupid, although she might act that way because she doesn't have the power to overtly reject you. If my goal is to bang, I don't waste time with somebody who is putting up obvious roadblocks. Investing time in a girl like this is like buying stock in Arthur Andersen. Better to keep looking, trying different strategies and locations, until you see a girl that gives IOI.
As far as using social media to get laid... The only actual value I've found in Facebook is to join groups and find events IRL where you can run game on women and expand your social circle. Once, back in the early days of Facebook, when the platform still only supported a few colleges, I did clean up with a handful of college girls that I found directly on the platform. But these days attractive girls won't even read the flood of DMs that land in their inbox on a daily basis. For many girls, social media is nothing more than a funnel for receiving the male attention they instinctually crave without having to do anything or put themselves at risk for rejection in the physical world. Every girl that's above a 5 is receiving dozens of messages a week from thirsty suitors that she will never bang. Again, social media is not a tool for communicating with women that you have already met in person.
