[Rocky]

Hey you boyz, first ting, my English no good: sorry! Got blueballed the other night. Wat i do wrong?

I'm in a city in China. i meet this girl, she put out the right signals, so I make date with her at my hotel. we eat and drink some, then I ask her to my room. Straight away she like: 'What you wanna do?' all inacent, like a schoolgirl ya know? But I figure - 'Hey, most of these asians are like tis' so i says 'No worry, we just talking1 I'm a nice guy!' We go to room, we talking, I get talk round to men and dates and sex and all type of horny tings, she keep up wit the 'You're not gonna make a move on me right?' shit, and I keep laffing, 'no, no, I nice guy' but i givva her the vibes, ya know? i think it going ok, she tell me about some shit, some euro guys try pick her up, I figure she givin me the hint. so i say she should come sit on sofa with me, she go all cold and feeze up. so i think 'OK fuck off then, ya gonna waste my time' and I palitely end te convasation and she leave, all polite and shit, but when we outside, she giving me all disapointid face like why I no make move on her or some bullshit, and i start tinking 'fuck, should I have just jump on her or what?' - I never do that cos if she start scream or summing I go to China jale, no fun! So after she leve I message her try to fix date for next nite but she no reply.

Wat i do wrong? She just crazy or I fuck up? Tanks for ta help dudez!

[charmer]

its not her fault...you were at wrong place with wrong person.

(you should be dating a gay with poor English)

[UgSlayer]

a girl will never take responsibility for sex. To her "it just happens". It happens because you make it happen. She basically told you at the end of your date that she wanted you to go for it. A lot of the resistence is just a front so she doesn't seem like a whore. When in doubt, escalate. If she is against it, she'll say no.

[Willy Wonka]

(04-12-2010 02:22 AM)Rocky Wrote:  

'fuck, should I have just jump on her or what?'

Yes. Girls like aggressiveness.

Of course, read her reactions and proceed based on what they tell you. Her actions mean more than her words here.

Playing with her and forcing yourself on her our two different things. Always allow her to leave if she's not ready for that, but always try to make a move when you get a girl alone for the first time.

[OGNorCal707]

Personally I think it's cool some dude in China is on these forums, it's not like any of us can speak Chinese. Dudes every where are struggling with this game biz, but we're trying to grow, evolve, improve, and I'm down to help out and get help when possible.

[Rocky]

(04-12-2010 04:40 AM)charmer Wrote:  

its not her fault...you were at wrong place with wrong person.

(you should be dating a gay with poor English)

Yo Mofo, how good is your italian? Son of whore Prick.

To other guys, thanks for your reply: Willy and Norcal (But me not Chinese, just work here!).

Yeah, reckon I shoulda been more agresiv - She wouldn't come to room if did not wanna get fucked, yeah?

On ta the next one!

[charmer]

(04-14-2010 11:58 PM)Rocky Wrote:  

(04-12-2010 04:40 AM)charmer Wrote:  

its not her fault...you were at wrong place with wrong person.

(you should be dating a gay with poor English)

Yo Mofo, how good is your italian? Son of whore Prick.

To other guys, thanks for your reply: Willy and Norcal (But me not Chinese, just work here!).

Yeah, reckon I shoulda been more agresiv - She wouldn't come to room if did not wanna get fucked, yeah?

On ta the next one!

now i reliezed why she gave your 'compliments'

[AlphaQup2nite]

Hey Man, im living in china, and ive seen this a million times.

The first mistake you made was let her bring up all the objections AKA "You arent going to make a move on me." You should be bring them up as a re assuance, or use it in a humorful way (aka. putting your arm arround her and whispering in her ear "you arent going to take advantage of me, are you? Which chicks i found that once the fear is out there, if its said by you, they arent gonna pay attention to it, as long as you can build trust during the inital interation.

Next step is to esclate physically. In my game, i have literally a hundred thousand TV shows and movies on my compter, which is set up with a 24 in HD monitor on my coffee table, so it is the most natural thing to use it as an excuse to get her into your place "hey you GOT to check this movie out, with the lights low and your arm around her) Touch her, try to kiss her, get her to say no. Then back off and leave her alone for a bit, totally freeze HER out. I tend to fold laundry in the next room for a few min, or step out on the balcony for a smoke. Then, come back, renew conversation, and escalalte again, and most of the time youll get further till you hit resistance. Keep this up, and never act like you are embarassed about going to far. Its just the way you are, if she didnt like you, she wouldnt be alone in your place with her. Eventually you will get something.

Remeber some simple rules for the end game.
1) Take your belt off when you get home/ make her take her shoes off. Once the first peice of clothing is off, you are already in a much better place.
2) Dont give her a chance to question what is happening. You bring it up yourself first, in a playful way. (ask HER, something like "I would like to show you this video, but i need to be sure YOU arent going to rape me or anything like that")
3) Escalate physically, she wants you, else she wouldnt be alone in your place with you. Be agressive. Chinese women for the most part are passive in bed, but build trust by respecting her once she says she stop. Atleast for a while
4) Freeze her out every single time she says no. Make her miss you, and when you return, start some conversation, make her laugh again, and escalate again.

Of course, this isnt 100% but i have good sucess with it. Also, alcohol helps, but im more of a purist, i try not to get girls drunk before sleeping with them, unless there is no other way.

Also, Chinese girls from my EXP Shit test crazy ammounts once they are in your place. You need to be on top of the shit test game in order to do well. And most of the time you wont get a one night thing either.

[Rocky]

(04-15-2010 02:09 AM)charmer Wrote:  

(04-14-2010 11:58 PM)Rocky Wrote:  

(04-12-2010 04:40 AM)charmer Wrote:  

its not her fault...you were at wrong place with wrong person.

(you should be dating a gay with poor English)

Yo Mofo, how good is your italian? Son of whore Prick.

To other guys, thanks for your reply: Willy and Norcal (But me not Chinese, just work here!).

Yeah, reckon I shoulda been more agresiv - She wouldn't come to room if did not wanna get fucked, yeah?

On ta the next one!

now i reliezed why she gave your 'compliments'

You just won't quit will ya? You chose to call me gay and insult my English from no reson, so i call ya out. And another ting: YOU can't spell your own langage - What's 'reliezed' mean? And you made grammar mistake in firstpost: 'at wrong place' - You missed a 'the', and it should been 'in'. Now go back to the elementary school where you hunt 10 year old boys to fuck.

Yo Alpha: Nice tips man, ya got good game for Asia Enjoy yaself!

[AlphaQup2nite]

Np Man.

Keep in mind, the end game is the hardest and the easiest thing at the same time. For her to want to go back home with you, and to step inside the door, youve done 95% of the job well. Just the last part is like a final exam, where the chick logic kicks in. You really cant afford to make any mistakes at that point, b/c her mind is working something like "I want this guy, but i really shouldnt," and sometimes it leads to her looking for any excuse possible to get out of there back into her comfort zone. Your job is to make her forget about the "rules" and give in to what she already wants. Its a downhill battle most of the time, but you really need finesse for the score, else its alot of work later over time if you still want to court her.

I remember in my RAFC days, i used to still do the dating thing a bit (its really hard at the start to totally break away), and i would get the girls i wanted most of the time, but it would take ages, months at a time. For me it was all end game problems, and with practice you pick up all the tricks and tips to get arround the last minute resistance. It just takes time.