[EdinD]

I posted a thread a while back about a women who would not leave me alone at my work place until I kept dropping the G F. Bomb on her and started ignoring her numerous times. I'm always nice to people especially at work. Its been a while since shes contacted me, over 3 months time and I just recieved a call from her telling me she has lost her grandmother, I will admit I did sympathize with her and told her I would e-mail her (dont want to leave much of a trace) maybe I dont have the heart to ignore someone going through a hard time for a brief moment and give my sorrows, but I am stuck. Maybe she is looking for a shoulder to lean on, maybe attention, or lonliness during this time of year, she did mention she "taught she saw me last night" I feel as if she's an ex g.f. that can't get over a break up. She's twice my age a red flag that was raised is when she called my work and asked for me. I told her I'd email instead of call since I've changed my number and dont want to risk her having it. I can't figure out what the best approach is for this kind of situation. Best suggestions please.

[Veloce]

Every once in a while I'll get a crazy like this. Almost always a coworker that gets infatuated with you. Happened to me last year at a job I had. It got to the point where she would tell other coworkers to tell me how much she likes me and really wants to date me.

You want to steer clear of these because once you say yes, you can't say no. You fuck em and blow em off? You'll have all kinds of crazy on your hands, not worth the drama.

Eventually I got a new job. My only advice would be to have an honest heart-to-heart with her and say, "Hey, you know, you seem like a cool chick and all, but I'm getting the vibe that you're interested in dating me, and I gotta say I'm just not interested."

Her ego will be shattered and she'll hate your guts, maybe start spreading rumors about you, but at least she'll be out of your hair.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

^or if she's really messed up in the head she'll cry for a bit, say okay, and give you a hug and then next week start the process all over again. This happened to me recently and to friend of mine from college some time back. I also did a post on this. Gimme a sec and I'll find the thread.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

Look for the thread called "Ignoring the psycho". My recommendation is there.

[Merenguero]

The Restraining Order Data Sheet is one of the better posts on this forum. Check it out.

[Dr. Howard]

(12-21-2012 03:09 PM)EdinD Wrote:  

I posted a thread a while back about a women who would not leave me alone at my work place until I kept dropping the G F. Bomb on her and started ignoring her numerous times. I'm always nice to people especially at work. Its been a while since shes contacted me, over 3 months time and I just recieved a call from her telling me she has lost her grandmother, I will admit I did sympathize with her and told her I would e-mail her (dont want to leave much of a trace) maybe I dont have the heart to ignore someone going through a hard time for a brief moment and give my sorrows, but I am stuck. Maybe she is looking for a shoulder to lean on, maybe attention, or lonliness during this time of year, she did mention she "taught she saw me last night" I feel as if she's an ex g.f. that can't get over a break up. She's twice my age a red flag that was raised is when she called my work and asked for me. I told her I'd email instead of call since I've changed my number and dont want to risk her having it. I can't figure out what the best approach is for this kind of situation. Best suggestions please.

Oh man, is this the woman thats a customer/client at the place you work at? I would try to pass her off on someone else, lie and say he has a giant wang and you have herpes or a persistent fungal infection.

[Screwston]

Ask her for money every day.