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Dealing with bossy women
12-20-2012, 11:04 PM
I'm hoping some of the seasoned players can help me with this one. What's the best way to handle really strong/assertive/bossy women pre-bang? I feel like calling her out on her behavior shows that I'm affected by her frame. However if I don't say anything aren't I also supplicating to her?
In the past I've handled this by giving her a slight smirk and saying something along the lines of "a little bossy aren't we?" with a raised eyebrow. Not sure if this is the best way to handle the situation though...
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12-20-2012, 11:09 PM
Pay her no mind. Act extra aloof and carefree. Bossy women are control freaks. Nothing with throw her for a loop more, or get her wet than a guy that lives by his own rules and isn't affected by outside influence.
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12-20-2012, 11:23 PM
As long as YOU maintain a strong frame and personality around them, you'll be fine. Like thedude3737 said act extra aloof and care free but not so much that you dont call them out if they start giving you shit. These types are used to slapping around weak guys so dont let yourself become another casualty. Give them the challenge of their lives.
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12-20-2012, 11:42 PM
@OP- dude3737 is right.
Heres what I do...I just stop everything I am doing and just stare at her blankly when she is bitching/bossing me around. Do not respond or talk to her whatsoever for an uncomfortably long time (think unreasonably long and add another 20 seconds). Then wink and smile.
Then watch the hamster run....And have a laugh will you are at it. Then just continue on as if nothing happened. She will question you and try to figure you out. Dont tell her a thing. Just say it was nothing...and continue on.
Nothing un-nerves these girls more than having somebody out of their control. And by being unpredictable, you destroy her mechanism of "control and comfort".
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Dealing with bossy women
12-21-2012, 12:37 AM
Treat them like kids. Laugh or just ignore them when they start acting stupid. Actually, this applies for every girl lol.
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Dealing with bossy women
12-21-2012, 01:24 AM
Thanks guys, I'll put this advice in the toolbox for future use!
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Dealing with bossy women
12-21-2012, 01:40 AM
It's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.
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Dealing with bossy women
12-21-2012, 03:52 AM
Tell her to suck your dick.
