Alright, I am a believer in the "bros before hoes" school of thought. Recently, I was out with a kid that I would consider a friend. It all started fairly innocent where we were buying computers, and decided to get a drink (food in my case) at a nearby restaurant. He decided to call his female friend (I assume he was banging her in the past) to pick him up.
At the meantime we're chillin at the bar and I am messing with the hot Ukrainian bartender etc. The friend comes in and I am talking with her and him. Eventually this kid decides to become withdrawn while, I, and the friend are talking. I am not trying to game her, just chillin and talking. Later on, this kid decides to throw a hissy fit that I was ignoring him and macking on his female friend.
Anyway I tell him that obviously that was not the case and he is drunk. Anyway, we split later at night and this female friend drives him home (they live in the same hood). Pretty much from that point on, I have been pretty distant from him and that spazz out from that night. We work together but I keep it professional at the office and nothing has changed on that front.
Circling back to the top, I was not intentionally running game on his friend, but I am not 100% that I was not either because 1. This is my lifestyle 2. She was initiating conversations. Besides he may have banged her in the past however he had not call her off-limits either. I usually don't mess with his friends. He's a nice guy, very social, but shit gets ugly when he's drunk. This time it was directed towards me.
So I have dropped him. I can't roll with whiny little kids who feel insecure about themselves. Right choice, fellas?
At the meantime we're chillin at the bar and I am messing with the hot Ukrainian bartender etc. The friend comes in and I am talking with her and him. Eventually this kid decides to become withdrawn while, I, and the friend are talking. I am not trying to game her, just chillin and talking. Later on, this kid decides to throw a hissy fit that I was ignoring him and macking on his female friend.
Anyway I tell him that obviously that was not the case and he is drunk. Anyway, we split later at night and this female friend drives him home (they live in the same hood). Pretty much from that point on, I have been pretty distant from him and that spazz out from that night. We work together but I keep it professional at the office and nothing has changed on that front.
Circling back to the top, I was not intentionally running game on his friend, but I am not 100% that I was not either because 1. This is my lifestyle 2. She was initiating conversations. Besides he may have banged her in the past however he had not call her off-limits either. I usually don't mess with his friends. He's a nice guy, very social, but shit gets ugly when he's drunk. This time it was directed towards me.
So I have dropped him. I can't roll with whiny little kids who feel insecure about themselves. Right choice, fellas?