[Luxe]

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...wait did I tell you he starts for a NFL football team (rookie) and his team is coming to visit our city to play our team

What position does he play? Hopefully the answer is offensive line (despite being the toughest looking they are the most beta).

The story doesn't add up; if he's a rookie, and they have been BFF for 5 years, then they are around the same age. They met in high school or freshman year of college. So he was a big time D1 NFL prospect, she went to the same school where he had equally high status, or she presumably visited him several times, but they never hooked up? How did he go from being a friend to hooking up?

[Doulos2Game]

(12-25-2012 07:06 PM)mr greenleaf Wrote:  

This one seems to have a soul, more so than the other whore bags I've met in 2012 . I'm actually considering making a run of a relationship so I mainly want a 3rd opinion. Easier being a outsider looking in than drinking my own cool-aide if you catch my drift.

I am in the same boat as you my friend. Every player goes through the same situation one in while. By being players for a while we can recognize when a girl is worth the emotional investment. I will tell you this though my friend, it is much easier to just continue your player ways and keep doing what you been doing.

There is a reason why YOU are the once currently fucking here and not the NFL player.

Don't change because she doesn't want change. If she didn't like you already how you are, she would have tossed you to the side by now. Assume all women are sluts until you sit them down in a lie detector test. Until then ...Virgin Mary (slut)..Mother Teresa (slut)..Michelle Obama (I love america)

[mr greenleaf]

(12-25-2012 09:26 PM)Luxe Wrote:  

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...wait did I tell you he starts for a NFL football team (rookie) and his team is coming to visit our city to play our team

What position does he play? Hopefully the answer is offensive line (despite being the toughest looking they are the most beta).

The story doesn't add up; if he's a rookie, and they have been BFF for 5 years, then they are around the same age. They met in high school or freshman year of college. So he was a big time D1 NFL prospect, she went to the same school where he had equally high status, or she presumably visited him several times, but they never hooked up? How did he go from being a friend to hooking up?

cornerback....Like I said, I dont know specifics but I do one thing...her previous boy friend had a problem with this guy, but they were neighbors. She didnt bang him until 2 yrs after her prev. BF and they broke up. My gut says that if a prev. BF had a sitting problem with him I should as well.....to be honest no chick hangs out with a grade A male without having some attraction to him....period...I dont want to get into specifs but I am prob. comparable in status in what he does unless he goes full fame status with all star type shit...

than i would need to combat with a political pos.

[mr greenleaf]

(12-17-2012 05:48 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

(12-17-2012 03:53 AM)LouieG Wrote:  

Not sure if this is the right forum but regardless--

It's amazing how many problems in a man's life can be resolved by fucking a lot of girls. Not just one girl. A lot of girls.

I loved that scene in Little Miss Sunshine...

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"Fuck a lot of women, kid. I have no reason to lie to you. Not just one woman, a lot of women."

I don't have any useful advice for the OP. I don't think the odds of her actually banging him are high, but her behaviour is quite wrong. She shouldn't put you into that situation and threaten your relationship by it.

That said, from your words "The girl is totally smiten with me and has already asked on numerous occassions to be her BF", I don't get the feeling that you two are more than fuck-buddies. What did you tell her on those numerous occasions?

she brings that topic up all the time, but I didnt care. I had quite the harem unti recently where I had to shed the herd to last the winter....Im from the NW and the summer is quite easy pickings...but winters are brutal for chicks...in my response to her asking about me being her BF I played it off becuase I had a solid base with chicks...which was mainly to me learning from this forum and RP lingo in general....but none the less I do actually like this chick, and there is no reason to be fictional about it on this forum. I do have one more issue with this girl non related to this one, but I will save it for another thread in a couple weeks.

[Christian McQueen]

What's the update

[Jaydublin]

(12-25-2012 09:26 PM)Luxe Wrote:  

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...wait did I tell you he starts for a NFL football team (rookie) and his team is coming to visit our city to play our team

What position does he play? Hopefully the answer is offensive line (despite being the toughest looking they are the most beta).

The story doesn't add up; if he's a rookie, and they have been BFF for 5 years, then they are around the same age. They met in high school or freshman year of college. So he was a big time D1 NFL prospect, she went to the same school where he had equally high status, or she presumably visited him several times, but they never hooked up? How did he go from being a friend to hooking up?

Not always true... Not at all.

[trainwreck]

Well I'd say it'd be a pretty obvious move for her right now if you agree to being exclusive to her just right now. You will just have to take the chances. And from what it looks like, she won't have really much time to bang him either.. I guess you're on the safe side.

[Doulos2Game]

Look at it on the bright side...If you get her pregnant, she will pin it on him.

[Luxe]

A cb? Hopefully it's not this dude...

[Doulos2Game]

(12-26-2012 09:07 PM)Luxe Wrote:  

A cb? Hopefully it's not this dude...

This guy hasn't learn shit....dam I thought he was naming his nephews and niece. All those babies are his.

[Duke Castile]

(12-24-2012 04:21 PM)mr greenleaf Wrote:  

(12-20-2012 05:27 AM)Fisto Wrote:  

Something that hasn't been addressed much is the likelyhood that the bff is probably planning on meeting up with her after the game. If there are drinks involved you know the guy is wanting to bang her again.

There really is nothing you can do about it. She's telling you it's her bff, whats the harm in that? She's got a guys mentality, as other's have pointed out, she's getting one thing from you and another from this guy. No way is an NFL player talking to her about her shoes for hours. These two fucked in Vegas six months ago and now they're best friends? Give me a fucking break.

You have to decide with whether or not you can keep banging her after you get back because I am 100% sure she's sleeping with this guy again, and possibly continuing to play the "it's my friend" game.

And that's assuming these two don't have the "I love you" conversation and she wants to date him instead of you.

Remember, he's an athlete, he'll want to fuck her just because it's just out of reach and he's competitive. And that's assuming they aren't having phone sex already.

I'm sorry man, but if it were me I'd do my best to emotionally withdraw.

All good points, but the catch is that they have been friends for 5+ years and only recently hooked up and before I met her. Its not like they just met and are now BFF, they have been that way for years. she isn't my GF, but she wants me to be. So I really do doubt anything would happen, (she is taking her dad to the game instead of me since I will be traveling) and he has to catch a flight back an hour after the game so they wont be hanging for very long and her dad is going to be there. So the chances are pretty minimal that something would happen.

But really my problem is that I can't say ditch your best friend that you have had in your life for years and be with me who you have only dated for a few months even though she wants more. That doesn't seem like I could say that right now and get a favorable response. Maybe if it was a LTR I could angle that play but Im pretty sure it would back fire right now.

Dude, I'm not trying to be an asshole but how do you know he has a flight an hour after the game? Did she tell you all this? Why is she making it a point to give you an alibi already? Can he not very easily change his flight? Could he just be telling her that so he can get her guard down and then "Oh let's get drinks, I changed my flight until tomorrow".

On the other hand, she could just be orbiting him. Hell he may be annoyed with this girl and has something else lined up. She may just be telling YOU they're best friends to get you squirming. For all you know she's one of many girls he's fucked in that town and he's giving them all tickets.

I just have a hard time believing a corner back (aggressive athletic position) nfl player pumped full of testosterone (and probably juicing) is wasting his time talking to a girl without any sexual benefit.

There's too many unknowns in this scenario. You can't give her an ultimatum and you obviously can't keep seeing her (and be happy) as long as this is going to be on your mind.

Again, the only thing to do here is try and emotionally withdraw IMO.

[bojangles]

Agree with you Fisto, unless this NFL guy is suffering from oneitis don't see why he wouldnt be fucking the gaggle of sloots that will be willing to dangle off his cock

[Doulos2Game]

(12-28-2012 05:05 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

Agree with you Fisto, unless this NFL guy is suffering from oneitis don't see why he wouldnt be fucking the gaggle of sloots that will be willing to dangle off his cock

You have a point. You do have some sense. I thought there was no hope for you.

[bojangles]

(12-28-2012 06:06 PM)Doulos2Game Wrote:  

(12-28-2012 05:05 AM)bojangles Wrote:  

Agree with you Fisto, unless this NFL guy is suffering from oneitis don't see why he wouldnt be fucking the gaggle of sloots that will be willing to dangle off his cock

You have a point. You do have some sense. I thought there was no hope for you.

what??

[mr greenleaf]

Traveling in buenos aires. Ill update when I get a moment to stop staring at all the labias hanging out of their thongs. Just made it to punta del este . Girls here are on par with Miami , def better looking than BA chicks, could be because of a more affluent area in general.

[mr greenleaf]

Trying to post some thong shots from the beach. Any tips how to post on here from the iPhone

[mr greenleaf]

Well i Feel i am of duty to conclude this thread. I basically gave her a ultimatum that she is with me or not, and she can't be talking to this dude (this was right before new years). She actually responded very well to the fact that i stood my ground. So she is basically all about me as before, bad news is she found a pair of earings next to my bed last night (not hers) and walked off. Its over haha. It was from a blonde I have been banging. And usually I am so good about covering my tracks.

chalk one up to the game of life, C'est la vie. We all know she will be smoking that guys pole in no time after this chirade.

[Matt3B]

She'll probably come back to you if you didnt act like a bitch when she found them.