Quote: (12-18-2012 05:08 PM)slubu Wrote:
rationalize_this, few questions for you:
1. How long have you been gaming?
2. You mention that it may take more dates, etc. Are you saying that an 8 or a 9 requires more work/effort and/or is treated/gamed differently than a 5 or a 6? I've always thought former is not accurate (more dates until banging), but the latter is (they are part of a different world, can't compare what they react to, to what a chubby mediocre girl reacts to).
I'm at the 1 year mark of taking the red pill so to speak. I'd like to concentrate on higher quality, but still can't fend off the need for mass quantity. Maybe it will come soon.
1) I don't know how long i've been "gaming" per se. I was traveling around the world when I was 16 playing tennis and had a Romanian coach who taught me how to approach, text, etc. Best mentor and friend I've ever had. I still shoot the shit with him regarding girls. He actually met my last mini-LTR the former NFL cheerleader.
In college I wouldn't really say I had game, just more status. Top tier fraternity, Division I athlete, intelligent. I would just get blackout and good things happened. I think I pulled around 40 girls, while having a gf for a year.
I found the forum halfway through law school when I was in Miami and my numbers were not what they once where. I realized I needed to bring more to the table. Adapt.
***You can read all you want about game on this forum. The most progress I made was when I simply went out solo and approached, approached, approached. Nothing improves your game more than going solo. True Story.
2) It really depends on the girl. The more you swoop, the quicker you'll be able to realize what MO to proceed with.
The NFL cheerleader I pulled on a second date. Drinks first date with makeout and I told her at the end "I'm leaving you because I can't trust myself around you anymore tonight" something to that effect. Second date I told her to bring a bottle of Jameson to my house and we drank, walked on the beach, game over. I laid it down BALLER though.
The Russian whose here in bed with me right now in NYC took 4 dates. First date was like pulling teeth. Super cold. She gradually warmed up to me once I understood how to game her, which was demonstrating cooking, independence, ambition, and intelligence.
In sum, the similarities are still striking. Both I gave the best sex of their lives (they both literally said so). Both praised my intelligence over almost anything. Both loved my cooking, and travel stories.
You've really got to be the whole package. You can fake it to a point, but they'll smell it out midway and it could cost you the bang- or a mini-LTR in the future. Congruence, unphased by their beauty, and ambition over anything they have to offer.