[bacan]

..who was basically just your sex slave? blowjobs, anal, whatever you wanted on demand... and anything else you can think of

.. If it were a girl who was specifically turned on by just having you use her for your own pleasure, your wishes are her commands, you basically can own her, treat her like a pornstar, whatever..

What would you do?

I am coming into a situation like this and I just want to get the absolute most fun out of it possible..

I'm also looking forward to shifting my attitude to being more aggressive, dominant way, macho in my sex... the way that girls complain to me that their boyfriends don't know how to fuck them..

I need some ideas for fun sexy things to try that I wouldn't be able to get away with in a regular situation (girlfriend/harem/ONS/fuckbuddy or whatever) where I literally can have anything I want..

I just checked out the Freaky Sex thread from a few days back in the newbie forum -- http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-18452-...#pid328213

Plus I need some tips for raising my libido probably -- I don't know if I am going to even be able to bust all the times per day/week that I want to.. Like I pretty much smash once in a night which is way below average: http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-17244.html
* Should I try to get my hands on viagra or something? I don't have much time and am just a regular guy in his mid 20's. What about the gas station pills I see? Are those legit?
* I might need to boost my testosterone - http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-18388.html

Basically I just get to be an animal in the bedroom for a few weeks and I don't want to stop or get tired or get bored.. but my main concern is not being not good enough.. it's missing out on getting the most enjoyment possible out of this..

What would you guys do if you could ask for and get literally any sexual thing you wanted every day for many days in a row?

And how would you stay constantly turned on and not have such a long recovery time between nutting?

I think I'm going to take lots of videos, look for girls for threesomes, get blowjobs and quickies whenever I feel like it.. Need to think of more things to do and more ways to be up for it all...

[Sebastian]

I think we need pics of her to recommend proper treatments.....

[assman]

(12-16-2012 03:45 AM)bacan Wrote:  

I need some ideas for fun sexy things to try that I wouldn't be able to get away with in a regular situation (girlfriend/harem/ONS/fuckbuddy or whatever) where I literally can have anything I want..

Efukt - she may regret giving you free license. LOL.

[xsplat]

If you are serious about wanting to raise your libido look into practices designed to do so. There are some body centered meditations designed for this. General chi-kung, and daoist yoga. Also there are sexual practices labelled as "kundalini" that allow you to last longer in bed or even avoid coming at all, so you could fuck several times a day, and only come some of the time, or a few times per week. Kundalini and the other energy practices can have you feeling constantly horny.

Herbal supplements and lifestyle changes designed to boost testosterone can also help. Tongkat ali, weight lifting, some competitive sport that raises testosterone or has a martial arts feel, and keeping lean should help.

[Timoteo]

"I'm also looking forward to shifting my attitude to being more aggressive, dominant way, macho in my sex... the way that girls complain to me that their boyfriends don't know how to fuck them..."

This reminds me of a funny encounter I had some years ago. I was walking along Spring Street in NYC one day, and a chick that was walking behind me was complaining to her orbiter that her boyfriend won't fuck her. He made love to her, but she wanted to get pounded. I turned around with this big smile on my face, and she blushed and apologized. I told her there was no need to - you want what you want, and you need what you need. Of course, she's going to cheat on the boyfriend, because she sees him as soft, even if he's a nice guy. Sexually, she doesn't want or need nice, she needs her pussy beaten up. It's more about your mindset than taking a supplement or Viagra. Yes, it's nice to be physically prepared to knock the lining out of the coochie, but you need to develop an aggressive mindset. If she's giving you the green light, take full advantage. Pull out and blast on her. Lube her up and put it in her butt. Pin her fuckin' ankles behind her head and pile-drive. Take it out of her pussy and put it in her mouth. Do ALL THAT SHIT.

[WestIndianArchie]

You're thinking about it wrong.

Your body is your body. Of course you should be eating right, working out, taking natural supplements, yadda yadda yadda. (and one of you fitness dudes needs to really come up with a 5x Strong Fucks, Hindu Push Ups and what not, a routine optimized for fucking hard for a long time, not some vague shit like work on your core)

But your dick can't bust the # of times that she can climax in any given session, no matter what you do with medical science.

You've got to think long game. 50 shades of grey, 9 1/2 weeks, that kinda thing. Every session is something new and different from the last session.

Night #1 might be your marathon night
Night #2 might be anal.

By night 3, once you get past the calisthenics of sex and run through mish, doggy, cowgirl, pile driver, facials, swallows, cream pies, et cetera, you've got to start fucking her mind.

It starts with talking dirty. It starts with getting her to really open up.

Remote control vibrators
making her crawl
choking her out
Head in the theater
head on the highway, to skull fucking at the rest stop
fucking her in an alley
strangulation
getting her to dress up, costumes, telling her what to wear
texts that say, meet me at the grocery store, or never see me again
take her to a sex club
Have her call her granny up, while you're fucking her ass

That type of shit. You can only go so far with just pounding and degrading a bitch in your bedroom. Remember, most chicks fantasize about controlled rape situations and gang bangs, they like the idea of having another guys baby and fooling her boyfriend into thinking it's his. They love gossip and secrets. Once unleashed, her fire is hard to put out.

Remember she's going to tell every single disgusting detail to her friends. So you need to give her a story to tell. In fact, the type of things you make her do, should make her feel a lit bit shameful, and hold something back.

In fact, you should feel a little weird after the whole thing is over, and think of her as kind of a slut. When you think a chick is a slut, not some virginal vessel/possible box for your unborn, you have no problem degrading her and fucking her the way the she needs to be fucked.

WIA

[bacan]

I don't get satisfaction out of doing anything that's degrading, just doing things that are enjoyable to me

When I'm not fucking her I'm going to have a nice, normal time with her

I wonder how I will think of her -- I don't want to think of her as a slut. To me a slut is a girl who will give it up to another guy easily, even if it means cheating on you, treating you like a sucker, lying to you or whatever. A girl who just does everything for one single guy isn't a slut.

[thegmanifesto]

(12-16-2012 03:45 AM)bacan Wrote:  

..who was basically just your sex slave? blowjobs, anal, whatever you wanted on demand... and anything else you can think of

.. If it were a girl who was specifically turned on by just having you use her for your own pleasure, your wishes are her commands, you basically can own her, treat her like a pornstar, whatever..

What would you do?

I am coming into a situation like this and I just want to get the absolute most fun out of it possible..

Wait, you have to tell us a little more how this "situation" occurred?

What's really going on here?

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

How many times have you fucked her already?

[rudebwoy]

(12-16-2012 02:10 PM)bacan Wrote:  

I don't get satisfaction out of doing anything that's degrading, just doing things that are enjoyable to me

When I'm not fucking her I'm going to have a nice, normal time with her

I wonder how I will think of her -- I don't want to think of her as a slut. To me a slut is a girl who will give it up to another guy easily, even if it means cheating on you, treating you like a sucker, lying to you or whatever. A girl who just does everything for one single guy isn't a slut.

You don't want to think of her as a slut but yet you are "doing" all these sexual acts to her, or are you? Please don't fall into beta guy that respects her, girls DON'T want to be respected.

Listen to what WIA told you, it is 200% true and the mindset of most girls. If you cannot perform in the bedroom then you need to sort that out right away, there are a few threads on here about increasing your libido.

[bacan]

It's a girl that cares about me, that I haven't seen in a while, that wants to just meet up and act out all my fantasies for me haha

I don't mind thinking of her as my personal slut that will do anything I want

I just want to think that it's possible for a girl to be freaky and submissive and sexually giving with me (my slut) without also being easy for any other guys to get with (a true slut)

Some of this stuff she'll do with me (and has done with me) she hasn't done with anyone before

[xsplat]

(12-16-2012 03:17 PM)bacan Wrote:  

It's a girl that cares about me, that I haven't seen in a while, that wants to just meet up and act out all my fantasies for me haha

I don't mind thinking of her as my personal slut that will do anything I want

I just want to think that it's possible for a girl to be freaky and submissive and sexually giving with me (my slut) without also being easy for any other guys to get with (a true slut)

Some of this stuff she'll do with me (and has done with me) she hasn't done with anyone before

Ya, the slut circuit is hard for guys unaccustomed to it to tap into. Especially as we also have a circuit that appreciates purity.

I'll try to put into words how it feels subjectively, for the man and the girl. First off there is the general principle that anything naughty is extra spicy. Public sex, sex while she is on the phone (especially with a family member), and sex with her while she's seeing another guy. It's wrong, therefore it's extra good. It's a stolen watermelon.

Girls are not supposed to have any impetus to infidelity. But they do. They all do. We all do. So even if she would not in real life act out on her hidden desires, you can use them as a tool to make her feel a little naughty.

One way that can work for you, without disgusting you or ruining your fantasies of a pure romance (which can be good and useful fantasies that really help both of you) is to do role playing sex where you imagine there is a third girl in the bed. While you are fucking her, tell her how the third girl is going to eat out her pussy while you suck her nipples, tell her how you are going to fuck her from behind while she eats out the other girl, and so on. This makes her into a slut in your slut army - your personal private slut. A girl who is being naughty, but at least isn't taking any other dick.

Or if you want to step it up a bit further, just call her degrading names while you fuck her. You can call her a little bitch and spit on her, and at the same time feel great affection for her. You can also do that and feel hate - so it's not a good idea to get stuck in a rut with these dominance themes. Mix em up with every other possible kind of sex, and be sure you are at least capable of lovey dovey cooing romantic sex, sometimes. If you can be both dominant and feel great affection, that really bonds the girl to you, but if you only are dominant you can get her addicted but it's less bonding. Oxytocin vs dopamine and all that. Your overall goal is to give her high doses of both, and not slip too far into one side or the other.

If calling her a little slut doesn't make YOU horny, then don't do it. To learn dominance play you need two things: 1) a girl who is into it, and 2) time to experiment at your own pace through trial and error. Only do what turns you on. As you experiment you'll find pleasure in unlikely places, and follow along on that path, seeing what else you can see, and that experimentation will change your attitudes. You don't just start in with what you think is supposed to work. You have to find your own way, and let the process slowly internalize inside you. Only do what you feel.

I remember the first girl who told me she liked to be slapped in the face. She complained that when I did it I just didn't do it right. I wasn't believable. It must have been too foreign to me. The attitude shifts required aren't learned in a book, they are learned by your reward centers associating the actions with pleasure, and that reprogramming takes a while.

[bacan]

Really good response. Yeah, she really wants me to tap into this idea that I'm the man, I take control, she's my sex slave, she's fragile, I'm strong.. she wants me to do her in the ass, call her a slut, slap her ass.. wants to blow me etc etc ...

I want to be able to enjoy the macho, dominant role.. and to tap into that slut circuit to basically have her as my own personal slut..

But like you say, I don't want to mess with my mind and see her totally differently.. I would like to kind of have the dichotomy of seeing her as just being a "slut" with me .. The rest of the time I want to think that she doesn't even notice other guys and all that crazy stuff is just for me.. Probably why most guys are unaccustomed to tapping into it

I think it's important to use the right terminology though..

Lots of girls like being sexually dominated, controlled like being pounded, fucked hard..
Lots of girls like being easy and likely to cheat, likely to fuck your friends, etc..

But they are not the same thing and I think we should be more careful to not confuse them by calling them all sluts I think

[Scott]

(12-16-2012 02:31 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(12-16-2012 03:45 AM)bacan Wrote:  

..who was basically just your sex slave? blowjobs, anal, whatever you wanted on demand... and anything else you can think of

.. If it were a girl who was specifically turned on by just having you use her for your own pleasure, your wishes are her commands, you basically can own her, treat her like a pornstar, whatever..

What would you do?

I am coming into a situation like this and I just want to get the absolute most fun out of it possible..

Wait, you have to tell us a little more how this "situation" occurred?

What's really going on here?

He kidnapped her?

[Wreckingball]

I got a girl saying that she wants to be my sex slave for a day. everything allowed except anal, hard hitting and scat...

she's going to get it in the ass wether she wants it or not