I set out tonight to get into the game.
I live about 45 minutes away from New York City. So I invited a friend (because I was too much of a pussy to go alone). Mistake. My friend barely did any approaches, had massive approach anxiety even though he is a good looking guy, and only served as a motivator and approach counter. Next time I'll go alone.
Anyway, my goal for the night was to approach 20-30 girls.
For some, that must be pretty easy. For me it was not. I finished the night with 13 approaches over the course of 4-5 hours. Honestly, I was watching SashaPUA and Simple Pickup all weekend, so I decided to go direct the majority of the time telling girls they were cute or hot and truly meaning it.
It felt empowering to do this. I felt confident doing the approaches. I was excited I was doing something few men could do. However, it was my first time doing this, and my results were bad.
I thought my best approach was on a 7.5 Ole Miss junior. She had walked right into Grand Central Station and was with a group of three or four. I told her that I thought she was cute and we chatted a bit about some personal stuff. It went well, she was asking me some personal questions and told me she thought I was cute. Cool, cool. Have her type in her number on my phone. Go to text it an hour later...... wrong number.
Other than that, two girls approached my friend and I, and I got the 6's number.
My main problems were:
I live about 45 minutes away from New York City. So I invited a friend (because I was too much of a pussy to go alone). Mistake. My friend barely did any approaches, had massive approach anxiety even though he is a good looking guy, and only served as a motivator and approach counter. Next time I'll go alone.
Anyway, my goal for the night was to approach 20-30 girls.
For some, that must be pretty easy. For me it was not. I finished the night with 13 approaches over the course of 4-5 hours. Honestly, I was watching SashaPUA and Simple Pickup all weekend, so I decided to go direct the majority of the time telling girls they were cute or hot and truly meaning it.
It felt empowering to do this. I felt confident doing the approaches. I was excited I was doing something few men could do. However, it was my first time doing this, and my results were bad.
I thought my best approach was on a 7.5 Ole Miss junior. She had walked right into Grand Central Station and was with a group of three or four. I told her that I thought she was cute and we chatted a bit about some personal stuff. It went well, she was asking me some personal questions and told me she thought I was cute. Cool, cool. Have her type in her number on my phone. Go to text it an hour later...... wrong number.
Other than that, two girls approached my friend and I, and I got the 6's number.
My main problems were:
- I wasn't really pushing for the number. I was more trying to hold a conversation and bounced when I didn't have any material left.
- I brought a friend. I should have the motivation to do this riding solo.
- Had too many missed approaches. Somehow, someway, I would psych myself out of doing an approach. "She's with her family." "She's walking too fast." Do I really want to get good?!? If so, got to step it up.
"I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."
~Michael Jordan