I'm both relatively new to this forum and to actively practicing game, but I've been studying the stuff for over a year now. Anyways, only recently have I gotten over approach anxiety, and because of this I have been opening more sets and number closing various girls living on campus. One in particular lives in my dorm building, which is very convenient for me, so I figured I would see if I can follow through with this one and see if I can build attraction and work towards moving in for the kiss.
After hanging out with her twice in the building, I have noticed occasional subtle IOIs (nothing super-blatant) characteristic of a reserved girl. However, at the same time, whenever she sees a guy friend of hers (who usually also lives in the building) while we're chillin, she'll jump from where she is sitting to run and give him this huge bear hug as if she hasn't seen the guy in 30 years or something, chat for a bit, and then return to what we were talking about. I get the impression that she isn't always like this based on what I've heard form her roommates.
Should I interpret this as either:
a. Her trying to demonstrate higher value and make herself look more popular in front of me
b. Her trying to give me the hint that she's not too interested in me based on her ADD in the middle of our conversation, in which case I should stop wasting my time and move on
c. Neither of these and just ignore it
Thanks guys! Ultimately, I'll learn to interpret and calibrate for things like this, but for now, I'm still a noobie
After hanging out with her twice in the building, I have noticed occasional subtle IOIs (nothing super-blatant) characteristic of a reserved girl. However, at the same time, whenever she sees a guy friend of hers (who usually also lives in the building) while we're chillin, she'll jump from where she is sitting to run and give him this huge bear hug as if she hasn't seen the guy in 30 years or something, chat for a bit, and then return to what we were talking about. I get the impression that she isn't always like this based on what I've heard form her roommates.
Should I interpret this as either:
a. Her trying to demonstrate higher value and make herself look more popular in front of me
b. Her trying to give me the hint that she's not too interested in me based on her ADD in the middle of our conversation, in which case I should stop wasting my time and move on
c. Neither of these and just ignore it
Thanks guys! Ultimately, I'll learn to interpret and calibrate for things like this, but for now, I'm still a noobie