A few Saturdays ago I met a girl, completely ignored her, and wound up smashing faster than I've smashed almost any others in my past.
I met up with my friend at a bar in SoHo to watch the return of GSP in the big UFC event. I am a UFC fanatic, so I was pumped for this event and, even though I was meeting him in a target rich environment, my mind was completely focused on the fight. I had no thoughts or plans of approaching.
My friend is a broker and he takes out clients on his company's tab and this night was no exception. There was an eclectic group of about 10 people at his table, enjoying booz and watching the fights. I introduced myself to everyone upon arrival but nothing caught my eye except for a decent blonde but she was clearly wifed up by the guy next to her. I sat down and a few mins later another blonde sits across from me. She's a 7. I didn't even bother to introduce myself but a few moments later I noticed her ask my friend's gf to introduce us (IOI) and I don't think I said anything but my name. She asked me questions throughout the event but I gave her the briefest, monosyllabic answers I could think of. I truly had adrenaline running the entire event and was fixated on the screen. Sometimes I wouldn't even bother to look at her when giving her one of my cursory responses.
After the fight, I realized it was time to get to work so I assessed the situation. I finally showed some interest in her by making small talk for about 2mins. It was pretty late so I wanted to quickly determine where her mind was at because I was ready to hit a party if she wasn't going to be worth a Saturday night. I nonchalantly invited her to come with me to a party. She agreed but said she had to get changed first. I asked where she lived and she said 2 blocks away. Bingo.
I led her out of the bar and asked for the direction to her place as if she had invited me. I have no idea what we talked about, just chit chat, no game. We walked into her building and up to her apt w/o discussing it. Small talk and light banter continued. She poured us drinks when we got upstairs. We talked as we finished the drink and I finally went for the makeout. I pushed her into her room and threw her on her bed. No resistance.
Her: you know we're not having sex right?
Me: I know, I think it's too soon
Her: Ok I'm usually not this fast
Me: I can tell, you seem like the slower type
Physical escalation continues and I'm STROKING THE ISH OUT OF HER, all within 10mins of entering her apartment and 20mins after showing some type of interest in her.
Great night in my book.
I met up with my friend at a bar in SoHo to watch the return of GSP in the big UFC event. I am a UFC fanatic, so I was pumped for this event and, even though I was meeting him in a target rich environment, my mind was completely focused on the fight. I had no thoughts or plans of approaching.
My friend is a broker and he takes out clients on his company's tab and this night was no exception. There was an eclectic group of about 10 people at his table, enjoying booz and watching the fights. I introduced myself to everyone upon arrival but nothing caught my eye except for a decent blonde but she was clearly wifed up by the guy next to her. I sat down and a few mins later another blonde sits across from me. She's a 7. I didn't even bother to introduce myself but a few moments later I noticed her ask my friend's gf to introduce us (IOI) and I don't think I said anything but my name. She asked me questions throughout the event but I gave her the briefest, monosyllabic answers I could think of. I truly had adrenaline running the entire event and was fixated on the screen. Sometimes I wouldn't even bother to look at her when giving her one of my cursory responses.
After the fight, I realized it was time to get to work so I assessed the situation. I finally showed some interest in her by making small talk for about 2mins. It was pretty late so I wanted to quickly determine where her mind was at because I was ready to hit a party if she wasn't going to be worth a Saturday night. I nonchalantly invited her to come with me to a party. She agreed but said she had to get changed first. I asked where she lived and she said 2 blocks away. Bingo.
I led her out of the bar and asked for the direction to her place as if she had invited me. I have no idea what we talked about, just chit chat, no game. We walked into her building and up to her apt w/o discussing it. Small talk and light banter continued. She poured us drinks when we got upstairs. We talked as we finished the drink and I finally went for the makeout. I pushed her into her room and threw her on her bed. No resistance.
Her: you know we're not having sex right?
Me: I know, I think it's too soon
Her: Ok I'm usually not this fast
Me: I can tell, you seem like the slower type
Physical escalation continues and I'm STROKING THE ISH OUT OF HER, all within 10mins of entering her apartment and 20mins after showing some type of interest in her.
Great night in my book.