[Goldmund]

I have a girl from Paris who is flying in this Saturday to see me. She 22 yrs old, part time model, a solid 8...best body I have ever been with.

Anyway...the last time she was she was here, I was out in the city and texted me this..."When you come home I want to try some things we have never done before, surprise me."

So on the way back home I came up with a list and here are some of the things on it: Standing against the kitchen wall with her pinned up against it, a blindfold and bound wrists, in a chair with her bent in a bridge to the floor, on my rooftop, in a park at night, sideways 69, me doing a 360 without pulling out of her.

I get back and show her the list, and she is fucking disappointed! Says that I should have some crazier things in mind since I am 30 years old. I felt pretty ashamed at this point but didnt show it and instead smirked and told her 'wow you are such a fucking naughty girl' and ripped her clothes off and fucked her hard on the floor.

So...any suggestions for something a bit more freaky since i am apparently have a creativity block? And btw...we both arent fans of anal.

thanks.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

You've come to right place. She wants crazy, you give her a night she'll never forget. Let's come up with something here. How does she react to being slapped or hit? Have you tried this yet?

[Phil]

First of all, good response to her expressing disappointment in you. I would have fucked her doggie and pulled her hair a lot. Actually, that's my default bang style in all situations. : )

How about cuffing her hands behind her back and bang her out with a knife to her throat the whole time? Would she go for that?

Maybe go to a movie and bang her in the theater?

If there is a swingers club in your city, you should have no trouble getting in there with her. (Only single dudes have trouble getting in those.) I would never let another man bang her, but maybe you could fuck her in front of everyone?

Let us know what you decide.

[punchboy]

I wouldn't show her any list, and wouldn't her anything. As long as she doesn't know what you are going to do, anything will make her excited if you surprise her.

Women are like children with new toys: if you tell them what your intentions are, they will find you boring.


In any case, I would reverse it and put it up to her to show her skills/imagination...

[Goldmund]

She doesn't enjoy being slapped or hit very hard...likes having hair pulled (but what girl doesn't). And we have done plenty of doggy style/hair pulling already. She does want a threesome...and we have gone out looking at house parties but never found a suitable candidate.

And I am definitely not down with having another guy with us.

I kinda like the knife to the throat idea though...keep em coming.

(12-06-2012 09:53 PM)Alpha Hunter Zero Wrote:  

You've come to right place. She wants crazy, you give her a night she'll never forget. Let's come up with something here. How does she react to being slapped or hit? Have you tried this yet?

[Screwston]

Piss in her mouth and slap the shit out of her if she tries to get away.

[Tigre]

She's asking you to lead and inspire her. She wants novelty and variety.

A list is unerotic and not very inspiring. So it started badly. It probably felt like you were asking for her approval. It would have been better to give her one thing that night without asking, then elicit more ideas from her through conversation.

Instead of the checklist, be expansive with each idea. Get her talking about what pushes her buttons. Pay attention to what she says, and remember it. After sex is a good time for her to talk freely about sexual fantasies.

Paint pictures with words about things you could do. Gauge her enthusiasm for different concepts by how she responds. Not every girl is going to be into every kind of fetish.

Ask open ended questions. One way to get her talking: ask about her wildest female friend and the kind of things this friend is into. Ask her what she thinks of those things, if she could see herself doing them.

If she's a model, does she like to be filmed? Check Roissy's archives about chicks digging photographers. He goes over how to direct her with authority. You need to do it well, cause she probably has real world experience with actual photographers.

Check out Krauser's PUA blog. He's written great stuff on how to stir up female desire through the way you talk to her.

[Veloce]

Spontaneity is key with bitches like these (echoing what the others said about showing her a list). While you're driving, unbuckle her seatbelt, grab her hair and force her mouth on your cock. In broad daylight with people around and everything, just hope a cop doesn't see.

When the two of you are going at it, handcuff her hands behind her back and shove a buttplug or dildo up her ass while you're fucking her.

Dress her up as a slutty schoolgirl, tie her up in a chair, and fuck her mouth until you cum. Get it all over her face. Take pics.

If she's into pain, experiment with paddles, floggers, nipple clamps, and hot wax.

Experiment with public sex. If you know a neighborhood well you can get away with it. Go out and get her drunk (make sure she's wearing a skirt), pull her into a dark alleyway, pull her underwear down and pin her against a wall while you fuck her from behind.

I've done all the above. If a girl ever wanted more than any of this I'd probably be equally excited and concerned.

[RandalGraves]

Gentle lovemaking in the missionary position... with the lights off.

[assman]

(12-06-2012 10:06 PM)punchboy Wrote:  

I wouldn't show her any list, and wouldn't her anything. As long as she doesn't know what you are going to do, anything will make her excited if you surprise her.

+1

You could have done the stuff on the list without telling her beforehand and she probably would have been turned on.

Some good suggestions already. More ideas:

Put her on a collar with a leash and walk her around your place. With a buttplug in her ass.

Got a balcony? Fuck her on it with her facing outside.

Is she on the pill and you're cumming inside her? Scoop your cum out of her pussy and feed it to her.

Go to a clothing store and fuck her in the fitting room.

[Goldmund]

Thanks for the ideas and perspective. That list was a bad idea.

She arrives here tomorrow and is around for two weeks so I will have plenty of time to try some of your suggestions (thanks thedude and assman!). Will definitely surprise her with some crazy things and Im sure she will be happy with the spontaneity.

The more ideas the better...

Will keep you posted.

[HiFlo]

craziest sex idea of mine: sex on a horse

both of you mount the same horse. she's in front. let the games begin.

[Goldmund]

Our first night out last night and we went to a warehouse party, the place was packed, djs were great.

I was feeling invincible...inspired by the ideas from this forum...and my blood was boiling from a dinner of steak and oysters.

On the dance floor at the party we immediately started grinding close (it was wall to wall people) and I start feeling up her tight body and breath heavy on her neck. Move my hands around her waist in tune with the music and keep going down her thigh and up her skirt. Start rubbing the pussy through her tights. Nibble her neck and her feel her start melting. Take my hand and put it down the front of her skirt and its soaking wet. She dances even harder with two of my fingers in her. Writhing up and down until she is gushing. I take her over against the wall and rip a hole in her tights. She unzips my fly and pulls my cock out. I ram my dick inside her, under her skirt and through the tights, and we 'dance' like that for a good ten minutes. There are people bumping and dancing around us the entire time. Then I start choking her neck until she is almost about to pass out. This makes her come. We go back to the middle of the dance floor and she is grinding and getting off on my leg and I choke her some more. There are other girls watching with wide eyes.

We fuck in the cab on the way home and then for another hour all over my apartment.

She is in a twisted naked heap on my bed right behind me as i write this.

[soup]

This is weird request.

I'd tread carefully. As much as it sounds like a fun thing, it also sounds like she's trying to control the frame or shit test you a little.

"Surprise me" is a command.

Sure, you can think of a kink list, but I'd ignore her and do whatever YOU want to do, because that's what's really going to make both parties happy.

[Screwston]

(12-09-2012 12:17 PM)Goldmund Wrote:  

Our first night out last night and we went to a warehouse party, the place was packed, djs were great.

I was feeling invincible...inspired by the ideas from this forum...and my blood was boiling from a dinner of steak and oysters.

On the dance floor at the party we immediately started grinding close (it was wall to wall people) and I start feeling up her tight body and breath heavy on her neck. Move my hands around her waist in tune with the music and keep going down her thigh and up her skirt. Start rubbing the pussy through her tights. Nibble her neck and her feel her start melting. Take my hand and put it down the front of her skirt and its soaking wet. She dances even harder with two of my fingers in her. Writhing up and down until she is gushing. I take her over against the wall and rip a hole in her tights. She unzips my fly and pulls my cock out. I ram my dick inside her, under her skirt and through the tights, and we 'dance' like that for a good ten minutes. There are people bumping and dancing around us the entire time. Then I start choking her neck until she is almost about to pass out. This makes her come. We go back to the middle of the dance floor and she is grinding and getting off on my leg and I choke her some more. There are other girls watching with wide eyes.

We fuck in the cab on the way home and then for another hour all over my apartment.

She is in a twisted naked heap on my bed right behind me as i write this.

[Samseau]

Get some drugs, dope her up, bind her in all sorts of ways, whip her, put a vibrator in her pussy, and then fuck her in the ass. Give some torture play, it will work because she specifically said she didn't want to do it. Take pictures too.

Public sex, preferably somewhere near lots of people but secluded enough that you won't get in trouble.

Handcuff her, ride her in your car, and then when you pull up to other cars at stoplights pull her breasts out for others to see.

Pick up a threesome at a bar (with another girl, of course). Then make her torture the other girl.

Give her an amazing back massage.

Take her hiking, and the only thing she's allowed to drink is your cum.

Take all of her clothes and hide them away, and then make her do "favors" for you in order to win some of them back.

[bacan]

I want this thread to keep going!

[WanderingSoul]

Hire two ladyboy prostitutes to tag team her.

[TheMan]

(12-16-2012 04:01 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Hire two ladyboy prostitutes to tag team her.

[presidentcarter]

Handcuff and chain her to your bed frame. Leave her there for an entire day and night. Feed her if she gets hungry and make her piss in a bucket or something. Leave the house to periodically to run errands, get a drink, whatever and return to fuck around with her then have a grand finale after she's been there all day.

Obviously leave her phone near her so she can call in an emergency.

[presidentcarter]

^ A lot of girls like the idea of being a sex slave (for a day!) and if she trusts you she should be on board.

FYI There was another thread similar to this a few weeks ago.

[WanderingSoul]

You know you're thinking about it.

[Screwston]

I think I would piss and shit on a girl's face just to degrade her. It wouldn't turn me on at all but how can you ever take someone serious again after they've had your turd smeared on their face??

[Goldmund]

It was a good two weeks.

Being spontaneous was the key with her. Here is a highlight.

We took a trip up to Canada and on the way I got pulled over for speeding. It was at night and the police cruiser had one of those huge spotlights that lights up your entire car.

While the cop was back in his car running my license, I gave her my 'sex glance' and she took her hand and put it on my crotch. I unbuckled my belt and forced her mouth down on my dick and she was sucking like a champion trying desperately to make me come before the cop came back. I was just about to when I see his silhouette walking back to my window. Had to jerk her head back off me (there was spit everywhere) and cover my dick up with my shirt. He gave me the ticket and told me to have a good night. Ten seconds later she was back to sucking as I drove back onto the thruway.

I had never had an orgasm trying to control a car going 70mph before. Its tough keeping your eyes open while a load of your seed gushes down a beautiful womans throat.

[Praetor]

(12-24-2012 11:27 AM)Goldmund Wrote:  

It was a good two weeks.

Being spontaneous was the key with her. Here is a highlight.

We took a trip up to Canada and on the way I got pulled over for speeding. It was at night and the police cruiser had one of those huge spotlights that lights up your entire car.

While the cop was back in his car running my license, I gave her my 'sex glance' and she took her hand and put it on my crotch. I unbuckled my belt and forced her mouth down on my dick and she was sucking like a champion trying desperately to make me come before the cop came back. I was just about to when I see his silhouette walking back to my window. Had to jerk her head back off me (there was spit everywhere) and cover my dick up with my shirt. He gave me the ticket and told me to have a good night. Ten seconds later she was back to sucking as I drove back onto the thruway.

I had never had an orgasm trying to control a car going 70mph before. Its tough keeping your eyes open while a load of your seed gushes down a beautiful womans throat.