[HiFlo]

So there's this girl who I've seen 0-2 times per week for a couple months. About 3 weeks ago, I started to get real tired of having sex with her (not sure why), but I still like very much hanging out with her - she's got a bubbly personality but is very girlish and fun to be around with. We watch movies, play some basic rec sports (basketball, frisbee), cook, and write songs together lol - no serious activity but it's all good fun. We did have one serious 'encounter' during a big comedown I experienced after prolonged ingestion of various illicit substances that left me very, very low and I was basically crying in her lap while she comforted me, but apparently she lapped that shit up for whatever reason.

However, whenever we hang out all she wants to do is bone. Strangely enough, the less interested I'm in her sexually, the more she wants to come over to bone. Now the only way I can get it & keep it up anymore when boning her is closing my eyes and imagining other girls.

So, I guess what I'm asking is what do I do? Can I still keep her as a friend (I don't have a lot of friends, so it's nice to have a friend) while telling her I'm not sexually attracted to her anymore? Or does this not work, or what?

[CMan0928]

It may sound cliche, but if you really do enjoy her company and would like to keep her around as a platonic friend, your best bet is to just be honest with her. If you didn't wanna keep her around, you could just stop speaking to her and blow the relationship off entirely. Tell her you see her as more of a long term friend rather than girlfriend material. Make sure you emphasize how much you enjoy her company in a genuine fashion. Tell her in specifics why you enjoy hanging out with her, don't be vague. She may take it hard initially, but she'll get over it. I don't think there's a magic bullet for an answer here. Tell her how you feel and hope for the best.

[Parlay44]

[HiFlo]

Man, I've been trying to get a threesome with her and her hotass roommate. But she keeps refusing lol.

[Parlay44]

(11-25-2012 07:48 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

Man, I've been trying to get a threesome with her and her hotass roommate. But she keeps refusing lol.

You've come to the right place then

Logistics of a threesome
http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-9394.html?

[deepcov3r]

You might miss it when you're not getting it anymore. Maybe say you're getting like an old married couple, you like it but want it less. That might sound romantic enough for her. Make her do more perverted stuff. Threesomes aren't the only sick thing you can demand.

I had a girl with a nice figure once who would do ANYTHING immediately when asked. I was stupid and lost her. Pussy on demand is a very nice thing to have when some 9 treats you like shit.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

HiFlo, Im having trouble finding out where to start here. You're tired of banging her but when you guys hang out all she wants to do is bang. Game recognized you know you got her hooked when you dont give a shit about her body and she's still throwing some at you. As for telling her anything, SOME honesty is key. Take a few of CMan's pointers. Just hope she takes it well instead of pulling a 180 and turning clingy and batshit crazy.

[Capitán Peligroso]

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That might sound romantic enough for her. Make her do more perverted stuff. Threesomes aren't the only sick thing you can demand.

I had a girl with a nice figure once who would do ANYTHING immediately when asked. I was stupid and lost her. Pussy on demand is a very nice thing to have when some 9 treats you like shit.

You need to tell her what you really want, whatever that is. If it was me, I would fuck her in the ass until next sunday. If it really is to platonically sit around and write songs together, I would wait to tell her though. It sounds like to me like you have something quite worthwhile here, you should indulge yourself in her, for all that's worth. She wants you to, and if all is said and done and it doesn't work for you, fine. But don't relegate her to the friendzone until you've made the most of it sexually first.

[NoBalls]

It's really hard to turn a fuckbuddy into a platonic friend. If you discover how to do this, please let me know.

I completely understand where you are coming from here. Its much more desirable to seek out new pussy then to have sex with the game girl or girls over and over again. I've been in the same situation plenty of times where I wanted to stop having sex with a particular girl but still wanted to hang out with her.

Based on my experience if you stop providing her with sex she will eventually just stop hanging out with you and your friendship will end. Kind of sucks but that seems to be the way things work. The best bet if you really want to keep her as a friend is to have sex with her once or twice a month.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

Congrats, HiFlo! I say that you should be honest with her and tell her that you should just be friends and so on. It's a bit weird, being the opposite of the classic friendzone situation, but life is like that.

That said, I think deepcov3r also has good thoughts on the matter.

[Samseau]

(11-29-2012 02:32 PM)NoBalls Wrote:  

It's really hard to turn a fuckbuddy into a platonic friend. If you discover how to do this, please let me know.

I completely understand where you are coming from here. Its much more desirable to seek out new pussy then to have sex with the game girl or girls over and over again. I've been in the same situation plenty of times where I wanted to stop having sex with a particular girl but still wanted to hang out with her.

Based on my experience if you stop providing her with sex she will eventually just stop hanging out with you and your friendship will end. Kind of sucks but that seems to be the way things work. The best bet if you really want to keep her as a friend is to have sex with her once or twice a month.

This is the truth. You can't friendzone a fuckbuddy. She will feel rejected and stop hanging out with you.


Best bet: Get some kind of male stimulant (like viagra) so you can bang her easier.

[Parlay44]

You've got to bring out your inner perv. Just keep getting her to do dirtier and dirtier things.
It's fun to see what you can get away with.

Off the top of my head get her to:

Blow you in a movie theater
Blow you while you're driving
Bang her in her parent's bed
Ass to mouth
Hook you up with her hot friends
Dirty pics and videos
Do a striptease for you
Give you a lapdance