[Sebastian]

Let's say you just met this girl. The conversation is going pretty good.
In the middle of the conversation, she informs you she has kids (or other things that can hinder you dating her)
Would you keep poker face while listening and just move on to next topic or even show some unpleasant face.
OR
Would you try to comfort her by saying it's ok. it's about her not about her past.

I am not a fan of putting women down to make her feel shit about herself. But in this case, I think I should react in 1st way.

I have been doing 2nd way and I haven't had any positive responses.
To them, I can be seen as a person who will take anything.
I was in qualifying position but by saying that, I flipped this power situation.
It's better to keep them insecure about themselves
(there is nothing wrong with it since I am not the one who brought it up.)

Do you agree with this?

[TheMachinist]

From personal experience I would not on ANY level get involved with a woman that has kids...There is just too much potential drama and those types are usually looking for somebody to lighten their financial load.Their are waaaaay to many chix that dont have kids to even consider doing that unless you live in a small town where most chix do have kids.Mommy pussy is easy to get but hard to get rid of.