[Elixir]

So I got back from a small local bar, and this girl's drunk friend told me I looked like a serial killer. I had approached the girl(not the friend) previously, teasing her about the drink was ordering. I tried to pull off some kind of fake Indignation about it, saying "whoa whoa hey now!" but I think she was too Drunk to get it. Anyways, they teased me a little bit more, saying if I tried to kill them, they would fuck me up, and might even try to pee on (wtf) I told them I might be into that kind of thing and got a hi-five from my target and was re-titled, "funny serial killer" I had only kept talking to the trio because the girl I was interested in wasn't wearing a wedding ring, and was out shit faced while her husband watched the kids. I figured she might be a little bit DTF. My target texted her husband, telling him she was with a "drunk" serial killer at first, then corrected herself.

Also, the trio had a nice group cockblock system going on. The bar pretty loud, so I touched ones knee to get her attention, and my hand was immediately swept off. The same thing happened when I lightly touched their DD,s forearm to say something to her.

So basically, was they're any way I could have pulled any thing from that? What could I have done differently, or what did I do wrong? And is a girl telling me I look like a serial killer a shit test? Or is it the same as being told you are creepy?

Thanks!

[Fingerman]

(11-25-2012 04:55 AM)Elixir Wrote:  

So I got back from a small local bar, and this girl's drunk friend told me I looked like a serial killer. I had approached the girl(not the friend) previously, teasing her about the drink was ordering. I tried to pull off some kind of fake Indignation about it, saying "whoa whoa hey now!" but I think she was too Drunk to get it. Anyways, they teased me a little bit more, saying if I tried to kill them, they would fuck me up, and might even try to pee on (wtf) I told them I might be into that kind of thing and got a hi-five from my target and was re-titled, "funny serial killer" I had only kept talking to the trio because the girl I was interested in wasn't wearing a wedding ring, and was out shit faced while her husband watched the kids. I figured she might be a little bit DTF. My target texted her husband, telling him she was with a "drunk" serial killer at first, then corrected herself.

Also, the trio had a nice group cockblock system going on. The bar pretty loud, so I touched ones knee to get her attention, and my hand was immediately swept off. The same thing happened when I lightly touched their DD,s forearm to say something to her.

So basically, was they're any way I could have pulled any thing from that? What could I have done differently, or what did I do wrong? And is a girl telling me I look like a serial killer a shit test? Or is it the same as being told you are creepy?

Thanks!

I have no rep here to back up my advice but maybe others can confirm what I'm suggesting.

You could have:

Tested for compliance to see if those girls are actually interested in you or not. Different ways to do this would be to:

1. Stop talking, see if they initiate the conversation with you.
1. Tell them to do or say something like "Tell me why bought those shoes".

If they comply, it means they are interested, and you make them invest more into you by escalating to bigger compliance test.

If they don't comply, it means they were never interested in you. Try to add value to their life by being funny, friendly or interesting, since you probably don't know how to do that, move on to another girl.

If after many approaches no girls ever comply to anything, you need to change your approach to something better.

[Beyond Borders]

(11-25-2012 04:55 AM)Elixir Wrote:  

So I got back from a small local bar, and this girl's drunk friend told me I looked like a serial killer. I had approached the girl(not the friend) previously, teasing her about the drink was ordering. I tried to pull off some kind of fake Indignation about it, saying "whoa whoa hey now!" but I think she was too Drunk to get it. Anyways, they teased me a little bit more, saying if I tried to kill them, they would fuck me up, and might even try to pee on (wtf) I told them I might be into that kind of thing and got a hi-five from my target and was re-titled, "funny serial killer" I had only kept talking to the trio because the girl I was interested in wasn't wearing a wedding ring, and was out shit faced while her husband watched the kids. I figured she might be a little bit DTF. My target texted her husband, telling him she was with a "drunk" serial killer at first, then corrected herself.

Also, the trio had a nice group cockblock system going on. The bar pretty loud, so I touched ones knee to get her attention, and my hand was immediately swept off. The same thing happened when I lightly touched their DD,s forearm to say something to her.

So basically, was they're any way I could have pulled any thing from that? What could I have done differently, or what did I do wrong? And is a girl telling me I look like a serial killer a shit test? Or is it the same as being told you are creepy?

Thanks!

Wouldn't worry about it too much. I think most women have a deep paranoia of this sort of thing due to media exposure, and anything that makes them uncomfortable or triggers their subconscious will sometimes get them saying something stupid like that, especially if they're drunk and don't have a filter.

She was teasing you but at the same time subconsciously gauging your reaction - as if a serial killer would confess then and there... lol

Or it could have just been a shit test.

The repeated instances of your hand being swept away, on the other hand, tells me you're not properly gauging comfort while at the same time showing too much interest in them. That could have had something to do with it too. Not a big deal - it's all a learning experience, right?

You were right to amplify and turn it into a joke. From there it could have gone either way, and it simply didn't go anywhere because of a lack of game or just because it wasn't going to pan out.

Now, if you got that comment again from time to time from different women, then it might be worth worrying about.

[Prophylaxis]

Drunk chick - "You look like a serial killer"

Elixir - "Thanks babe, I hear the mass-murderer look is coming back in"
- "OH MY GOD, HOW DID YOU KNOW?"
- "Yeh, work is pretty tough these days...do you know the amount of laundry powder I go through?!"

Might be worth revising your wardrobe and work on getting better at rambling. Certainly would help to have some alcohol as well.

[Alpha Hunter Zero]

Like Beyond Borders said, only if you begin hearing this repeatedly from different girls should you begin to worry. As for this particular one, she was drunk out of her mind. Who cares what she said?

[Elixir]

(11-25-2012 06:38 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(11-25-2012 04:55 AM)Elixir Wrote:  

So I got back from a small local bar, and this girl's drunk friend told me I looked like a serial killer. I had approached the girl(not the friend) previously, teasing her about the drink was ordering. I tried to pull off some kind of fake Indignation about it, saying "whoa whoa hey now!" but I think she was too Drunk to get it. Anyways, they teased me a little bit more, saying if I tried to kill them, they would fuck me up, and might even try to pee on (wtf) I told them I might be into that kind of thing and got a hi-five from my target and was re-titled, "funny serial killer" I had only kept talking to the trio because the girl I was interested in wasn't wearing a wedding ring, and was out shit faced while her husband watched the kids. I figured she might be a little bit DTF. My target texted her husband, telling him she was with a "drunk" serial killer at first, then corrected herself.

Also, the trio had a nice group cockblock system going on. The bar pretty loud, so I touched ones knee to get her attention, and my hand was immediately swept off. The same thing happened when I lightly touched their DD,s forearm to say something to her.

So basically, was they're any way I could have pulled any thing from that? What could I have done differently, or what did I do wrong? And is a girl telling me I look like a serial killer a shit test? Or is it the same as being told you are creepy?

Thanks!

Wouldn't worry about it too much. I think most women have a deep paranoia of this sort of thing due to media exposure, and anything that makes them uncomfortable or triggers their subconscious will sometimes get them saying something stupid like that, especially if they're drunk and don't have a filter.

She was teasing you but at the same time subconsciously gauging your reaction - as if a serial killer would confess then and there... lol

Or it could have just been a shit test.

The repeated instances of your hand being swept away, on the other hand, tells me you're not properly gauging comfort while at the same time showing too much interest in them. That could have had something to do with it too. Not a big deal - it's all a learning experience, right?

You were right to amplify and turn it into a joke. From there it could have gone either way, and it simply didn't go anywhere because of a lack of game or just because it wasn't going to pan out.

Now, if you got that comment again from time to time from different women, then it might be worth worrying about.

She actually kinda joked about that first point you made, I think she said, "a girls gotta be careful nowadays ya know?" I smirked a little and said something like, "yep you're right"

I'm really bad about showing too much interest, too soon. I don't know how to implement 'push/pull' Dynamics when I'm talking to girls. I either don't show enough interest and get ignored, or show too much and get labeled a perv.

That was the first time I've ever been told that by a girl, I just thought it was kind of a weird comment haha

[Elixir]

(11-25-2012 07:00 AM)Prophylaxis Wrote:  

Drunk chick - "You look like a serial killer"

Elixir - "Thanks babe, I hear the mass-murderer look is coming back in"
- "OH MY GOD, HOW DID YOU KNOW?"
- "Yeh, work is pretty tough these days...do you know the amount of laundry powder I go through?!"

Might be worth revising your wardrobe and work on getting better at rambling. Certainly would help to have some alcohol as well.

Hahaha good ones! I'm off and on when it comes to coming up with one liners like that. Sometimes I can be off the cuff with a joke, then other times I'm kicking myself for missing a good oppurtunity :/