[BostonBMW]

I having been enjoying myself quite a bit over the few weeks: being out and about, getting numbers etc., however facing a certain time crunch.

Besides going out, I am holding down a full time job, and trying to study for the GMAT (business school). Besides that I enjoy visiting my parents and friends in my hometown. So you can imagine that a lot of things require my time and attention.

For me, a good balance is important for the inner game, where I like to be eating healthy, hitting the gym 3X week, and getting enough sleep. Beyond that I love going out, meeting new people, trying to convince girls to come home with me

So I am looking for some advice on balancing things out. Unfortunately, I need the job to pay the bills, would like to go back to school soon, and like the hometown trips. The sad part is that I am getting numbers, calling up the girls, and they seem to be receptive for the dates, yet I can't fit them in!

I'll give you one example: I met K at the bar on friday, we went out thursday and I was traveling the next week, two weeks later instead of calling her up again - I ended up going out with 2 other girls. I just didn't have the time for K - who probably thinks I dissed her since it's been over a month now.

I need some help. My current schedule (evenings, since I'm at the office daytime):

Mon: GMAT Prep
Tues: Gym/GMAT prep
Wed: Night out
Thursday:Gym/GMAT prep
Fri: Sleep (yes I go to bed at 7 PM)
Sat: Visit hometown or when in town: GMAT prep (AM) night out/date (PM)
Sun: Gym (AM) GMAT prep.

I don't want to take a break from gaming/dates because 1. Its fun 2. I don't want to get rusty. 3. I want to have a few girls in the rotation (the booty call, the nice girl, and the hot girl). Since all of this requires a certain time investment, can you guys give some advice?

[OGNorCal707]

Just curious, but why go out on Weds. night, but not Friday? I guess there are different theories on having better chances of pulling during the middle of the week, but in my small town most weekdays are completely dead, and the people that are out are mostly dudes. Also, I am assuming your relationship with your family is different than mine, I love my family, but they are on the other side of the country and I see them once a year for a week, maybe you could cut out family time and divert that for gaming/dating these honeys that you are pulling....?

[thegmanifesto]

Wed nights in many big cities are far superior to friday nights.

[speakeasy]

I can't have a life that's bound by rigid schedules. I don't know what I'm going to feel like doing in 2 hours from now, yet alone 2 days.

[Giovonny]

I would just try to get 2 cuties on your team , any more then that is too much work. The idea is that regular sex will limit your need for partying/drinking/chasing. And allow you to rest/study more. The whole idea of "going out" is to meet a girl and get laid. If your satisfied with your sex life, why go out? Only go out as much as you need to. I have heard this concept described as "Grad School Game". If your really busy, ONE GOOD ONE can be enough. (for maybe a few months)

[BostonBMW]

(03-21-2010 07:54 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

Just curious, but why go out on Weds. night, but not Friday? I guess there are different theories on having better chances of pulling during the middle of the week, but in my small town most weekdays are completely dead, and the people that are out are mostly dudes. Also, I am assuming your relationship with your family is different than mine, I love my family, but they are on the other side of the country and I see them once a year for a week, maybe you could cut out family time and divert that for gaming/dating these honeys that you are pulling....?

Good question.

I like Wednesday nights because it's more laid back. Even though I am always looking out for interesting women, I am also out there to have a good time. Plus I have some places on lockdown since I go out during midweek and they are a lot less crowded, so the bartenders/hosts can chat for a bit without having Dbags trying to order drinks.

Moreover, I sometimes fly solo dolo on Wednesday nights, fully suited up..so it's much easier for me spit game that night.

Family/Friends: I am pretty close with my family and friends from my hometown. Btw, my hometown is not Podunksville, its NYC. So it's not too much of stretch to visit. Believe it or not, I try not game in NYC unless it's a same night bang situation (thanks roosh!) simply because of the aforementioned time issue.

[BostonBMW]

(03-21-2010 08:01 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

Wed nights in many big cities are far superior to friday nights.

Absolutely. I remember reading a message on your blog about the weesh guys and "it's friday, time to go crazy" girls. Besides, I can always go out on Saturday nights if I miss those crowds and want to meet up with a large variety of women.

[BostonBMW]

(03-21-2010 08:15 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

I would just try to get 2 cuties on your team , any more then that is too much work. The idea is that regular sex will limit your need for partying/drinking/chasing. And allow you to rest/study more. The whole idea of "going out" is to meet a girl and get laid. If your satisfied with your sex life, why go out? Only go out as much as you need to. I have heard this concept described as "Grad School Game". If your really busy, ONE GOOD ONE can be enough. (for maybe a few months)

Thanks for the response.

I like your idea of limiting to 2 cuties. Do you have any other info on the grad school game (perhaps a link?), because I see my schedule getting tighter. Once I have studied up for the test, I'll be applying to MBA programs that are part time, which means that a few nights a week will be gone due to classes and I will need to spend some of the weekends for homework/team projects.

Taking your idea further, I am thinking maybe one intelligent girl that I can meet at school, so that we can do the homework done together and have some fun after wards. Besides I am so eager to get back meeting girls in class and she'll be more understanding of my schedule. The second one can be a back-up, just in case.

[BostonBMW]

(03-21-2010 08:02 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

I can't have a life that's bound by rigid schedules. I don't know what I'm going to feel like doing in 2 hours from now, yet alone 2 days.

I hear you.

Right now I'm in a good spot with my firm willing to pay for the degree and my work isn't too bad. The ultimate goal is to get the degree, build a small bankroll and travel for a bit.

Also, while I traveling home to visit friends/family..I am also working on a small side biz idea with my best friend. That is something that I hope will provide a steady cash flow in the near future.

I am all over the map these days: Chasing women, getting fit, studying and working..just need to make sure that I take care of the health because I don't get as much sleep these days.

[Willy Wonka]

Yeah, I would say work on getting one or two girls on the team and then when you have free nights, if you do... even if only 2 free nights a month, just game chicks while out and go for the same night lay.

It's possible. You won't be banging as many chicks as a dude with more free time, but really, what's more important to you? If you're happy, do you....

[BostonBMW]

(03-27-2010 04:24 PM)BaltimoreBachelor Wrote:  

Try replacing "night out" with "free night." That means it could be a night out, or it could be a date night.

Also, once you've banged a girl a few times, you can do more "hanging out." This facilitates multitasking. While you're studying for the gmat, she's reading a book, and you take bang-breaks.

Solid Idea.

This leads to the other question: Basically I am entering some sort of consistent relationship with 2 women then? I am not against doing but love the current lifestyle. I love these nights out meeting new girls and trying to bang them. I guess sacrifices have to be made to get other things done.

Advice is much appreciated.

[BostonBMW]

(03-27-2010 06:34 PM)Willy Wonka Wrote:  

Yeah, I would say work on getting one or two girls on the team and then when you have free nights, if you do... even if only 2 free nights a month, just game chicks while out and go for the same night lay.

It's possible. You won't be banging as many chicks as a dude with more free time, but really, what's more important to you? If you're happy, do you....

Nice. I am loving the 2-3 free night idea. I don't want my game to get rusty or become too complacent with the two cuties.

I think you're right about the main question of what is more important to me: Definitely a balanced lifestyle is something that I want. Also, I figure that once the GMAT prep is done and Business School actually starts, I can bring in the college game (that I missed out during undergrad). I am thinking getting a Masters degree, banging multiple college cuties on the side, all while making decent money