This reminded me of a post of Roosh's years ago with the same title.
We all need to strive to be like this guy.
We all need to strive to be like this guy.
Quote: (11-11-2012 12:38 AM)IQVX Wrote:
This reminded me of a post of Roosh's years ago with the same title.
We all need to strive to be like this guy.
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I want to share with you an epiphany I had years ago. I was trying to bang this girl and she was being very flakey and taking forever to get back to me. I asked my friend what I should do about it and we proceeded to go over my options after I told him everything that had transpired so far.
At the end I thought, “Is she doing this with her friends right now? Is she asking her friend how to get with me? Is she asking her friend how to get me to stop flaking?”
Of course not.
Even though she wasn’t treating me well, I was still chasing her. Even though she was barely encouraging me, I wanted her bad. It’s human nature.
If you eavesdrop on conversations with girls, you will hear them talk about guys that are flakes. Guys that don’t call. That put in the minimum amount of work. That don’t give much notice on dates and then cancel them at the last minute. That fuck the girl and then make an excuse to leave within minutes. You think that guy is stressing over the girl? You think he’s asking his friends for help? No, he’s too busy working on other girls. He doesn’t care about any of them. He has no attachments. With no attachments he doesn’t do the pathetic, desperate, needy shit that 95% of other guys do.
I realized then that I had to BE THAT GUY, and not the guy who plots and tries and talks about what to do next. Because the moment you have to try is the moment you care, and the moment you care is the moment she has you, and all you’ll have is your hand, waiting for the phone to ring.
Quote: (03-27-2015 03:21 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:
That story reminds of one a FB told me years ago. We were talking about strangest places we had sex and she said she and a group of friends including a guy were in Vegas in a hotel room and she was trying to explain to her GF's how to give a good BJ. The guy friend volunteered for her to demonstrate on and then the two of them ended up fucking right there in front of her GF's. That story still turns me on and I fucked her extra hard right after she told it to me.
Quote: (03-27-2015 03:29 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
I'm all on board with the idea, but still I feel like this is a vicious circle that's hard to break, at least at the beginning.
In order to have abundance mentality and "give no shit" attitude, you need to have lots of prospects and banging a lot of girls. In order to have lots of prospects and banging a lot of girls you need to have the abundance mentality and "give no shit" attitude. If you don't have one, you don't have the other.
It's like with a job search. No one hires you because you have no experience, but you can't have experience if no one hires you.
Of course at the beginning we fake it until we make it.
Quote: (03-27-2015 03:31 PM)LINUX Wrote:
Quote: (03-27-2015 03:21 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:
That story reminds of one a FB told me years ago. We were talking about strangest places we had sex and she said she and a group of friends including a guy were in Vegas in a hotel room and she was trying to explain to her GF's how to give a good BJ. The guy friend volunteered for her to demonstrate on and then the two of them ended up fucking right there in front of her GF's. That story still turns me on and I fucked her extra hard right after she told it to me.
You are a better man than me. I would grab my jacket walk right out the front door.
Quote: (03-27-2015 02:22 PM)heavy Wrote:
Bumping this thread because Be That Guy still one of the shortest, most succinct, yet best articles Roosh ever wrote...
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I want to share with you an epiphany I had years ago. I was trying to bang this girl and she was being very flakey and taking forever to get back to me. I asked my friend what I should do about it and we proceeded to go over my options after I told him everything that had transpired so far.
At the end I thought, “Is she doing this with her friends right now? Is she asking her friend how to get with me? Is she asking her friend how to get me to stop flaking?”
Of course not.
Even though she wasn’t treating me well, I was still chasing her. Even though she was barely encouraging me, I wanted her bad. It’s human nature.
If you eavesdrop on conversations with girls, you will hear them talk about guys that are flakes. Guys that don’t call. That put in the minimum amount of work. That don’t give much notice on dates and then cancel them at the last minute. That fuck the girl and then make an excuse to leave within minutes. You think that guy is stressing over the girl? You think he’s asking his friends for help? No, he’s too busy working on other girls. He doesn’t care about any of them. He has no attachments. With no attachments he doesn’t do the pathetic, desperate, needy shit that 95% of other guys do.
I realized then that I had to BE THAT GUY, and not the guy who plots and tries and talks about what to do next. Because the moment you have to try is the moment you care, and the moment you care is the moment she has you, and all you’ll have is your hand, waiting for the phone to ring.
...and hadn't see this thread before. That OP linked to the yahoo q/a, hilarious. What a man.
Quote: (03-27-2015 03:29 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
It's like with a job search. No one hires you because you have no experience, but you can't have experience if no one hires you.
Of course at the beginning we fake it until we make it.
Quote: (03-27-2015 03:29 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
In order to have lots of prospects and banging a lot of girls you need to have the abundance mentality and "give no shit" attitude
Quote: (03-27-2015 03:29 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
It's like with a job search. No one hires you because you have no experience, but you can't have experience if no one hires you.
Quote: (03-27-2015 03:29 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
at the beginning we fake it until we make it.
Quote: (03-31-2015 06:04 PM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:
What we need to tell them to do is to develop iron discipline and keep going, stick with the game until you have experience enough to finally "make it". Accept the neediness and your temporary lack of success. Compensate with sheer force of will.