Girl has said she needs time to think - shall I contact her?
Quote: (11-12-2012 02:56 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:
Quote: (11-08-2012 01:54 PM)lush1 Wrote:
yes
Conversation:
Me: What re you doing this weekend?
Her: I don't know yet hunn..why?
Me: I want to see you again
Her: I don't know if i want to c u again..sorry
Me: Can you tell me why?
Her: Bc i want sth serious and u r not looking for that
Me: Why do you say that?
Her: One of ur goals is have a girl in every place u r going to be
Me: I know I said that - but I was not completely serious when I said it.
Her: I took it seriously
Me: I understand.
I like you though. I had a really good time last weekend we spent together.
Her: Me too..i really enjoyed it.
Me: The only thing is, I know that I am studying abroad next year. I think distance is hard to make work.
I got out of a long distance relationship this summer. I like you but I am a little slow to get serious.
Her: I understand.
Me: Do you miss me?
Her: Yes i do
Me: Well - I have one more weekend I can take to come to DC between Thanksgiving and Christmas break. I want to spend it with you.
Her: I need to think about it
Me: I understand
(2 days later)
Me: I can't leave this weekend.
(2 days later)
Me: How was your weekend?
(2 days later)
Me: How was your weekend?
(2 days later)
Me: I also have time thanksgiving and christmas break
I have not sent any texts since. This was last week - so I'm pretty sure it's a cold lead (I'm working on other girls now), but curious what you guys see.
Wald
Read text message game by the pros from here. You said more than her in the texts for one thing and sounded needy dude. They can smell the neediness a mile away.
She just sent me a text containing her new number. I may continue this next week yet...
I believe a happy thanksgiving non sequitor is in order.
I believe a happy thanksgiving non sequitor is in order.
Beware though Walderschmidt she could have just sent that to everyone in her phonebook.
Quote: (11-15-2012 05:28 AM)lush1 Wrote:
Beware though Walderschmidt she could have just sent that to everyone in her phonebook.
I am aware of that - which is why I would be sending a happy thanksgiving as opposed to something which requires more investment.
I'll be studying abroad next yeaar, so most interactions with her won't matter after New Years.
Keep us posted
So after a couple of months radio silence she contacted me out of the blue... not sure if she was just bored or what but started going on about how I am a naughty boy haha. We'll see what happens.
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Quote: (11-12-2012 02:56 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:
Quote: (11-08-2012 01:54 PM)lush1 Wrote:
yes
Conversation:
Me: What re you doing this weekend?
Her: I don't know yet hunn..why?
Me: I want to see you again
Her: I don't know if i want to c u again..sorry
Me: Can you tell me why?
Her: Bc i want sth serious and u r not looking for that
Me: Why do you say that?
Her: One of ur goals is have a girl in every place u r going to be
Me: I know I said that - but I was not completely serious when I said it.
Her: I took it seriously
Me: I understand.
I like you though. I had a really good time last weekend we spent together.
Her: Me too..i really enjoyed it.
Me: The only thing is, I know that I am studying abroad next year. I think distance is hard to make work.
I got out of a long distance relationship this summer. I like you but I am a little slow to get serious.
Her: I understand.
Me: Do you miss me?
Her: Yes i do
Me: Well - I have one more weekend I can take to come to DC between Thanksgiving and Christmas break. I want to spend it with you.
Her: I need to think about it
Me: I understand
(2 days later)
Me: I can't leave this weekend.
(2 days later)
Me: How was your weekend?
(2 days later)
Me: How was your weekend?
(2 days later)
Me: I also have time thanksgiving and christmas break
I have not sent any texts since. This was last week - so I'm pretty sure it's a cold lead (I'm working on other girls now), but curious what you guys see.
Wald
Started off the text with "what are you doing this weekend?". Weak. Way too logical, seeking validation, giving too much validation, never tell girls that you're seeing other girls. You're treating text as a face to face convo. Use it more as a logistical tool. Or to share something that you found funny.
Basically you started off as the chaser, fell into her frame, and gave her every logical excuse to not see you again. Be more playful.
Quote: (11-14-2012 11:14 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:
She just sent me a text containing her new number. I may continue this next week yet...
I believe a happy thanksgiving non sequitor is in order.
You probably sent one already, but a good text back would be.
"you get fat"
Or something to that effect
New years I send girls something about going to the gym as a resolution. Lighthearted and stuff that I think its funny.
So I went round this girls house on Friday after she called up and invited me over... Not seen her for two months And she's put on a ton of weight especially round her face. So I couldn't give a shit what happens.. We went out and got some MDMA and went to a club, the she gets pissed off with me because I am blatantly checking out other girls. So she calls her boyfriend and says 'my friend is coming' (she doesn't know that I know she has a bf). So I just leave there and then. And she's all alone off her face on MDMA and the club aren't letting people in so her bf can't get in.
I think I took it too far by checking out the other girls but due to the weight issue I couldn't rely give a shit, just had a fun night in all and got home before sunrise.
I'm sure there is more to come with this girl haha
I think I took it too far by checking out the other girls but due to the weight issue I couldn't rely give a shit, just had a fun night in all and got home before sunrise.
I'm sure there is more to come with this girl haha
She has a new boyfriend or she got back with the old one? Seems like you played it right mate, bet she texts you later.
She has a new one. I even knew his name which spun her out she now thinks im super clever haha. I hope to see from her again as it gives me a good chance to practice being aloof. Satisfying to think I've gone from partial oneitis to not giving a shit in ten weeks.
Amazing what a bit of chub does, eh? Haha
It's great being shallow!
The only thing I'd say in future is to ignore the boyfriend remarks.
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