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11-07-2012, 10:34 AM
Hey, guys. This really hot chick I am dating doesn't want to bang. She says that she doesn't want to bang me because she doesn't bang guys she doesn't know. The fact is that we have slept in the same bed twice, and have been on like say four dates (two has been on Saturday nights in clubs and shit. Texted and decided to meet up).
Anyhow, I think it's about God damn time that I get the bang. We make out all night, touch eachother's genitals and that stuff. And believe me, I've tried. Several times. I've tried everything. I've both just stood up and walked out the door (this was the first time i met her and we went home to her house), and also tried to almost "rape" her. She keeps pushing my hand away from here vagina, and I keep comming back. She even screams how horny she is and that I am making it very difficult for her to cope with her principles.
So, I guess she's a teaser, or something. What's your opinion? What to do? Should I persue it, or am I allready persuing too much? I should also say that I've gotten closer to the bang for every date... Kind of.
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11-07-2012, 11:05 AM
I'm in a similar situation with this Lebanese chick who gets extremely horny but refuses to have sex every time I push for it. She says she wants to wait a week or two because she's "not feeling good about her body". She's extremely horny and loves to have her tits sucked on and has blown me twice already. I figure its just a matter of time, but still, any advice to shorten the wait is much appreciated.
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11-07-2012, 11:38 AM
hey mate, I know what you mean, it's like one of those WWE ladder matches, everytime you get to the top and are just about to grab the belt and Brock Lesnar knocks down your ladder. Fuck it, get back up, grab another ladder and get the belt.
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11-07-2012, 01:34 PM
the lies that women tell.
Have you try putting your dick next to her vagina......let nature take its course.....
One of the most simple way to escalate.
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11-07-2012, 02:04 PM
Had this happen to me as well... Suffered many bang-less nights like the beta I was... Eventually manned up.
Tough lesson
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11-07-2012, 02:25 PM
Same position here! She has only just come out of a ten year relationship and says it feels 'strange'. Almost exactly the same situation. I will persevere though because its worth it and to me theres more to it than just sex (beta alert)
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11-07-2012, 02:54 PM
I've got one of these right now. After two tries and lots of dry humping I just put her on the far back burner. I make no efforts to communicate but hear from her 2-3 times a week. I'm thinking I'll see if this comes to me but, in the meantime, I think the advice above is correct, i.e., just bang other girls and if this comes your way, the more bangs the better.
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11-07-2012, 02:54 PM
Quote: (11-07-2012 10:34 AM)HenryH Wrote:
Hey, guys. This really hot chick I am dating doesn't want to bang. She says that she doesn't want to bang me because she doesn't bang guys she doesn't know. The fact is that we have slept in the same bed twice, and have been on like say four dates (two has been on Saturday nights in clubs and shit. Texted and decided to meet up).
Anyhow, I think it's about God damn time that I get the bang. We make out all night, touch eachother's genitals and that stuff. And believe me, I've tried. Several times. I've tried everything. I've both just stood up and walked out the door (this was the first time i met her and we went home to her house), and also tried to almost "rape" her. She keeps pushing my hand away from here vagina, and I keep comming back. She even screams how horny she is and that I am making it very difficult for her to cope with her principles.
So, I guess she's a teaser, or something. What's your opinion? What to do? Should I persue it, or am I allready persuing too much? I should also say that I've gotten closer to the bang for every date... Kind of.
You can't always avoid nights like this. It happened to me also that I ended in the sack with a girl who didn't want to fuck on the first night together but i always went for and go the prize on the second night.
My advice, Visit or meet up every once and while and keep pushing. In the meanwhile make sure she knows you're banging others girls. You can do this by making her jealous in front of her or straight up dropping it in a conversation.
Since you seem to like this girl, I would say that you have to try once or twice more before giving up.
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11-26-2012, 11:37 AM
Another tip: Get her to blow you and ensure she swallows..nothing is more satisfying that seeing that momentary look of surprise and disgust as she consumes your man juice.
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11-26-2012, 12:28 PM
Stop trying.
Make out, get her horny, dont escalate.
Tell her you dont bang girls that dont trust you.
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11-26-2012, 08:26 PM
Most of the times a girl told me she didn't want to have sex - I either teased her ("who told you I want? I am not that easy?" if she has a playful personality) or I turned to the other side of the bed and started sleeping - in the latter case, most times, within few seconds/minutes they started making out with me again, and then I finally got the notch.
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11-26-2012, 10:14 PM
She's having a herpes outbreak...She's waiting on it to clear up...