[girllover]

It's been a while since I've been on this forum. It's nice to see so many new threads.

I've been having very unique issues at my school that have really fucked with my head. I've experience a lot of darkness in gaming girls in the small private college I attend. A recent post in my blog goes into detail of some of the issues I've had and my ultimate conclusion: http://frankfaz.wordpress.com/2010/03/05...lege-game/

I'm here for suggestions. I've gotten into some serious trouble...

[OGNorCal707]

Read your blog post, interesting situation, my advice to you would be to transfer to another school, unless it's your junior/senior year. Either that or do a semester/year abroad or at a different U.S. college. I got to give you props for trying though, I went to a school with a real lack of a party scene and hot girls, but instead of stepping my game up, I did the opposite, withdrew and focused on trying to hustle/make $$, it payed off financially, but if I could go back I'd do it totally different. If you stick around that school I'd say stay more aloof and play up your alternative/non-mainstream status. And as far as the douche bag boyfriends giving you shit... tell them to fuck off...

[girllover]

OGNorCal707,

I'm a junior, so transfering would be a bitch. Thanks for the props. You are right about staying aloof.

I'm also trying to make $$ at the same time as running my new found aloof style of game. I've broken into an all female social circle consisting of my sister's friends, but none of them are cute at all, and most are taken. It feels like a waiting game of watch out for IOIs, that and taking it all slow.

[UgSlayer]

I agree that you should consider a semester abroad. It works in a way that you can experience a new city, new girls, etc., and when you get back to your campus it'll be with a whole slew of new experiences and stories and if you did your semester abroad right, a lot more notches and a silent confidence.

Another piece of advice would be to not shy away from drama. It may sound difficult at first, but just rise above the adversity. I read this one post from Jeffy of RSD about generating fame. Basically, it states that even if people are talking shit about you, your name is still coming out of their mouth. Your value rises. If you have haters, you're doing something right. That being said, it's not about loving the hate and attention, it's not being affected by it. Not having your state affected by people talking shit is very attractive.

The fact that girls have filed complaints against you means you have to recalibrate your approach, but don't stop approaching altogether.

It's best to ramp up the kino after you've isolated her.

Hope this helps and good luck.

PS-Get a car, even if it's shitty, to take to the closest highly populated area on the weekends.

[Kona]

I read your blog.

Look, if I were you I would drop out of sight until school starts next year.

The school has 1000 students with almost a 3:1 ratio. So let's say there's 700 girls there.

11 of them felt that your behavior was so over the top, they needed to involve law enforcement.

The thing is, in a small place like that everybody is going to talk. Don't think for a second those 11 girls didn't chat it up at the lunch table over their experience with you and the cops.

You learned about some dude's sexual escapades because of this grapevine. What do you think the girls are saying about him? Since so many of the girls at the school are nasty, the attractive one that got it up the ass is probably the queen of that place. You know that when it came time for girl talk, she told everybody at the nail shop how fantastic that cat was. Then there's the female competition factor that probably has that guy getting laid right now as we speak.

You need his reputation. You going anal on the hottest chick at school is the story that needs to be flying around. Right now, you're the guy that chicks have to go to the cops about.

So next year, I don't know, maybe 200 new girls will come in that know nothing about you, and 200 will leave that do.

Next year is your year, brother.

Aloha!

[Quasi]

Whatever happens, learn from it and evolve, you scrwed up... now get back on track, reasses the situation and take measurements to get in control of creation your own life captajn :-)

[Roosh]

Ah I failed in steering you away from direct game.

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He informed me that somewhere in the realm of 11 girls had filed complaints against me for being a creeper.

Calibration problem. You proceed with escalation even when the girl isn't interested. I don't recommend touching girls in day time situations if they're not showing interest.