[WesternCancer]

I got some bad intel and walked into an older peoples halloween house party. (late 20s-late30s). I decided to stick around because there were some stunners. I approached 2 girls that were hotter than any girl at the university aged parties. We talked for a bit. Normal conversation, no game tactics. She'd moved around all over the place and had been in Canada for almost a decade -- originally from Russia. We talked about the changes associated with travel, how I wish I was traveling so I could experience things, friends traveling etc. Then we started talking about cuisines of the world. Completely friendly, physically interacting with me and all around being nice, but slightly flirty. I asked her who she knew there and she said "her husband" so banging was off the table. Shortly after I said I needed to find a friend. I run into my friend (a girl) and the men there are harassing her with bad game (better game than the university guys, but still bad). A few of the older women (maybe 35) started talking to me asking what my costume was, they said it was cool and appreciated the time I had put into making it. I complemented theirs and continued on.

After an hour at this place I went across the street to a party that was logistically similar to the old people party (similar music, similar ratio, similar amount of social circle stuff). The guys were running horrible game,but I approached a lot being friendly, making myself known so I could re-open a girl later in the night and fuck her. Girls were approaching me about my costume but had an attitude, girls I approached had an attitude. Generally everyone was in their own worlds, drunk as shit and hostile to any interaction.

This is a question to young and old players alike. Do you find that as women age they get a better attitude?

I've thought of some variables that could explain the differences.

- guys who are still single and still party will have better game through years of practice
- I'm a younger guy so my SMV is higher than the older womans so she is more receptive to my advances etc.

I don't know it feels like the girls my age (university) have this hostile attitude. Maybe its because they're assaulted by bad game or maybe its because they're so uncomfortable being approached by a stranger their instinct is to turtle and become hostile. Even if its a charming man such as myself.

[Samseau]

I'm not sure if a woman's attitude improves, but their manners certainly do. It's the same for men as they age.


The ages 14-20 can be a rough crowd. Kids are more concerned with "looking cool" than they are with "showing respect". Unfortunately, "looking cool" is usually shitty game, yet "showing respect" is also going to make you look bad in a social setting with teenagers as opposed to a social setting with adults.

You basically need to have the frame of a rock to be a cool, confident, and respectful guy at a party of teenagers.

[ryanf]

"I'm a younger guy so my SMV is higher than the older womans so she is more receptive to my advances etc. "

Careful here, older guys that have game and bank typically have VERY high SMV. Actually, it seems an inverse relationship - girls have a higher SMV when younger, guys have a higher SMV when older.

But, if you have game, smash it up. I'm 27, and I've found girls my age to be typically *less* friendly and *more* hostile. Especially when single. They know the clock is running out, but due to the irrationality of women, they think that bad attitude gets them guys (because "bad" attitude from guys creates attraction).

[R Smoov]

West, what was your costume?

I feel your pain bro. It feels like girls in our university are more emotional.
Yesterday, I accidentally called a spanish girl white while we were all chatting and she walked back inside the party. Wtf? Oh well, fuck it.
I say what's up to some white lizards going to a party. And rarely do all of them say hi. Wtf? Oh well, fuck it.

Some girls have shitty attitudes some have attitudes that make you wanna love them.

But I think the best way to keep your mental head strong when gaming these chicks is. No matter how old or how much attitude a girl gives you, you have options. Girls can be bitchy all they want. In the end of the day, we're going to get our fulfillment in pussy, money and success.

[WesternCancer]

Samseau I agree about their manners changing unlike attitudes like Ryanf said. It really is about looking cool and a lot about social circle. When I approached the older chicks they actually put in an effort to keep a conversation. Young girls would listen intently as I told a story. They'd reply with something that doesn't further the conversation, stand there looking scared then turn to their friend or their phone. It's like they're uncomfortable talking to me not because I'm creepy or have horiffic game but because they really can't hold a conversation. I know its not for reasons like I said before because ill get much warmer responses if they're with a friend I know. If I'm introduced most of the time I can tell the girl is attracted to me after a little bit of conversation.

Ryanf you're right too I meant in terms of an SNL or something. Older dudes in that setting would definitely be more accomplished than me having a higher smv.