[xy2k]

I'm interested in a chick who has studied mathematics and statistics. So far she seems really logical and rational.

But,
We all know most chicks are emotionally inclined and justify irrational behaviour all the time. ie the hamster effect.

We all know most chicks also study things that cater to this at some level at university.

My question is, have you dated chicks who were more mathematically / scientifically inclined? ie studied that at university, interested in it.

Were they any different to how they reacted to logical discussions? ie did they have less of the hamster effect?

[Hades]

They had more of a hamster effect. If you arm something that is essentially crazy with logic, it goes nuts with power and tries to over justify shit. The only girls in serious scientific fields that I know do nothing but talk about how much sleep they don't get, how smart they are, how smart other people aren't, and all the while they're kind of testing you to see if you'll give them the dick. Most of them have given up hope for this kind of thing since their peers are nerdy dudes with no game.

[WestIndianArchie]

(10-23-2012 06:44 AM)xy2k Wrote:  

Were they any different to how they reacted to logical discussions? ie did they have less of the hamster effect?

No, treat as a normal girl. I repeat, treat as a normal girl with full hamster tendencies. The hamster is deep and innate and part of what makes a girl a girl, period. No amount of brainwashing and socialization will change that.

WIA

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

I knew one and she was extremely flaky and bitchy. I don't know if it's related, though. She always pointed out how geeky and intelligent she was, yet all she talked about was World of Warcraft (to the point that I was extremely bored, even though I've been an avid player too at that time)

[Sphere]

Had an LTR (long distance) with a scientific colleague. Her hamster is in overdrive and she's in denial about her sex-specific weaknesses. Yours will be smarter than most but her logic will still be pretzel-shaped. Just with more twists and turns.

[tenderman100]

(10-23-2012 08:38 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

No, treat as a normal girl. I repeat, treat as a normal girl with full hamster tendencies. The hamster is deep and innate and part of what makes a girl a girl, period. No amount of brainwashing and socialization will change that.

Exactly.

Why do girls do better in school that boys? Education today is totally feminized, where it is about socialization, toe-ing the line, sucking up. If you couple that with innate intelligence, girls go far in the educational system.

Like men, girls have frontal lobes, and they are certainly capable of doing science and math (though at a lesser percentage). But they have a female limbic system with all its attendant evolutionary impulses.

If they lord it over you with their intelligence, consider it just another shit-test.

[cat_a_clysm]

Yes. A hard science grad student, major league slut. She was convinced she was a genius but was actually really dumb. I played along and let her think she was smart and just laughed at her inside my own head. She failed out of grad school gained about 50 pounds and now has a boyfriend who looks like a herb.

Edit-- Basically seemed like a typical high sex drive girl, crazy hypergamus hamster as you would expect.

[20th Level]

I have found that brainiac chicks are more inclined to do sick and twisted shit in bed for you.

[babelfish669]

I've got a good one for you, ever been with a chick who was mathematically / scientifically inclined and hot?

[soup]

The only math she needs to know is what angle to bend her back at that will give me the best doggy-style horizon to view.

[Norset]

Never forget a girl's amazing ability to turn off rational thought as if a switch is flipped (men have the same thing, to a lesser degree). Physics girls who are into astrology and believe in an afterlife. Not uncommon. CS girls who were major sorostitutes. And yes, I've been with a couple (I'm an engineer/physicist). They're good at exploiting all the needy guys within their field though, I usually joke about that. They all admit eventually.

[xy2k]

Thanks guys. This is why I love this forum - was about to let my guard down, but I won't.

[Rah]

My stupidly long first long term girlfriend was into science and had more brain horsepower than me in terms of raw processing capacity. It was amazing to watch her compute a bunch of math I couldn't do in her head and then melt down emotionally later the same day. She could also read about 4x faster than me and write A college papers 4x faster than me (but I could write better overall given enough time). Girls can be excellent technicians and executioners when it comes to science & academics (and probably any field) just as well as any man, but the big advances, breakthroughs and brilliance always has and always will come from men.

[RichieP]

(10-24-2012 01:36 AM)Norset Wrote:  

Never forget a girl's amazing ability to turn off rational thought as if a switch is flipped (men have the same thing, to a lesser degree). Physics girls who are into astrology and believe in an afterlife. Not uncommon. CS girls who were major sorostitutes. And yes, I've been with a couple (I'm an engineer/physicist). They're good at exploiting all the needy guys within their field though, I usually joke about that. They all admit eventually.

Yeah, ditto. Their intellect is a part of their personality, but they still have all the female parts that can go hamster on your ass.

Mind you, I've met some really sensible, reasonable, thoughtful, intelligent girls. I think that's because they were emotionally healthy too though, which meant their female/emotional personality parts weren't so warped into hamster mode.


I find that "how an intellectual girl reacts to logical discussion" will totally depend on what part of her personality is in the driving seat. If it's an emotionally charged issue that triggers her, she'll go hamster. Frustrating when you know she's capable of looking at it without that skewed perception. If it's not triggering her though, she'll bring her healthy intellect to bear, also often bringing some femininity along that can be a real asset to the discussion that is lacking if you were just talking to male friends. It just depends on the issue and how much it's triggering an emotional reaction or not.

[iknowexactly]

It seems to me most of the science chicks I've met ( true abstract stuf like physics and math, comp sci) had very low sex drives, just didn't want it.

However, I knew an "animal sciences" girl, basically agriculture student, who was really horny.

[slubu]

I dated two - a pharmaceutical scientist and a neuroscience researcher. Both were outrageously horny and nymphos. Go figure.

[wi30]

Back in high school I lost my virginity to a girl who scored a 33 on the ACT. Same as every other girl outside of the classroom.

If I knew what I do now I probably could have pulled a three-way with her and her identical twin.

[porscheguy]

To answer the original question, yes I have been with a mathematically/scientifically inclined girl. She was decent looking with a killer body. She was also batshit insane, and possibly the biggest whore I've ever been with outside traditional P4P whores.

[makaveli]

I know one girl who is kind of self aware of the hamster. She is a psychollogy student, and she is actually very pleasant to be around. She is able to have really interesting conversations, and she understands that she is often rationalizing.
She is open to discussions, and she is able to be objective, and rational at times.

Besides from getting very high grades and studying a lot, she is also a fun and social girl. I had sex with her on the second date, and i was direct and honest all the time. She is sexually free, and a typical scandinavian girl in terms of sexual freedom.

Now most of the well educated girls i know are the worst, and most unpleasant to talk to. They think they know everything, and they think that their opinion is the only true opinion. But once in a while, you might run into a pleasant and intelligent girl.

[Feo]

Hey Op..Yea, I have been with pleanty. For me, the best way to approach these chicks is A. know a lot about the topic she is working on, or at least a lot of "buzz words". B. Show that you know people "higher" than her...so talking about being freinds with people with more advanced degrees is a plus...talk about knowing PIs on a casual basis, tell her about your buddy from college who opened a startup in that feild etc. Helps if you have a good LinkedIn with reputable contacts. C. Be a cool guy...someone she can brag to her friends about. Play some kind of sport, surf, mma.. D. Act surprised or amazed by what she does. Too many guys I see try to downplay these chicks. The trick is to be really amazed and get her to open up, not in a condescending way, and then at the right time reach in and take over the conversation...steer it toward something you know more.

I feel like I should write a blueprint, because most of the girls I've been with have been post-docs, med students, grad students etc in the hard sciences. They are just like any other girl, but a lot of them want that intelligence factor. Great thing about that is that you can easily "fake" intelligence by asking the right questions.