[punchboy]

1) approaching doesn't mean you have to fuck them (if that really horrifies you)

2) learn to become more comfortable around girls by talking to the ugly ones;

3) then you will be able to apply what you have learned on the better looking ones (which is in part Athlone's point).

This being said, if you believe that lack of sex is making you depressed (as the title suggests), then as many are saying, just land some girl who is not a 10, but is not a 2 (I guess you can find a 5).

[Cruisen_Chubby]

You have guys on here who are consistantly bedding 8+'s asking you questions that are very applicable to the situation.

You sir, have a horrible attitude.

Assuming other's responses are in hopes that you'll fail? Pfhh, come on dude. Your solipsism along with your man hamster is just sickening.

In the few posts that you've made it is easily identifiable where your game lacks:

- You feel entitled to, but at times not worthy of, a beautiful woman's affection. Thats quite the oxymoron.
-You're fishin' for trophyfish in a rain puddle. 10:1 prick to chick ratio is laughable; are you gaming in a truckstop?
-You have listed what you feel to be your ultimate factors in attracting a woman. Looks/money alone won't do it most of the time. Any of the above can be negated by a shit attitude. On the flip side, you can be poor and ugly, but a positive outlook can do wonders at times.

The guys on here are your teammates. We care about helping others in situations in which we consider ourselves to be proficient. The advice given as well as the questions asked have been relevant. You've only responded with butt-hurt answers and sarcasm; typical tells of a loser.

Don't ask questions you don't want to know the answers to. Your essentially reading a self-help book without any initiative to put the teachings to use.

Take a step back and try again.

[Screwston]

[Giovonny]

Lack of sex = Depression

Yes. I've seen it many times. Guy can't get laid. Guy stays home smoking weed, watching tv and jerking off to porn. Guy complains about girls and why he can't get laid. Guy slowly gets more and more depressed.

Lack of sex = shooting up movie theaters

Lack of sex = shooting up schools

Lack of sex = shooting co workers

Lack of sex = suicide

[dly267]

Lack of sex = depression?

I couldn't agree more. It's hard to believe I got to this age 30, and never really had a consistent sex life. I could have if I pushed the issue with a couple girls from around the way throughout the years. But for the most part, it's been very sporadic. Hasn't been horrible, but definitely.. definitely, not good. The key, I would imagine, is to set step-by-step goals on how to resolve it, whether it's talking to more girls, etc.

[Ray]

(10-19-2012 10:02 PM)dog24 Wrote:  

So i got rejected the last five times i approached, thats 0/5.
By rejected i mean talking to a girl for 10 seconds and her telling me no thanks or im with someone, at a club.
Last time i kissed a girl was like 3 months ago. Havent had sex in like 2 years.
All day long i think about getting laid, do you think it can affect you mentally if youre not getting sex regularly? Im lacking motivation in everything except going to the gym.
My final exams are like 2 weeks away, and i cant even study for 10 mins straight.
Ive been lurking the Misc a lot and it has warped my brain into thinking i need aesthetics to get girls, when i know from past experiences that i already can get girls.
Im 170 lb right know, and im focusing more on noticing girls checking me out for an ego trip rather than actually approaching them.
Im going back to thinking im not good enough for the really hot girls.
Ive had opportunities to bang 5´s that had come on to me but i feel like i deserve better. I think to myself thats not why i got into game, and would cement even more the notion that i'm not good enough for the girls i really want.

I know how you feel lack of sex can really bring you down . I haven't got laid in almost a year, and that was with a prostitute to.
what do I suggest is keep hitting the gym hard ,and if you feel depressed search for "happy for no reason" it's a paralyminal sound meditation, it really helps (you can fiind it on torrent )
and bang some 5's you'll feel much better than if you banged a much hotter prostitute
and girls can see on your face that you're depressed

[dog24]

Shameless bump, yeah i said i would not post in here no more, but this shit is not happening for me.
I thought approaching girls would make me confident, and make me forget all the rejection i suffered growing up but obviously it isnt the case. All i have now is a fake persona, deep down putting aside all the pick up lines and teasing i still believe that im not good enough for really hot girls and i dont think i will ever get there.
I guess girls can sense that i have inner game issues, and i cant "fake it till you make it"

On saturday, 6 different girls approached me, 4 of them where 7+ for all the guys asking what do you bring to the table. By the way this only add ups to my fake persona and feeds my ego but doesnt really make me confident.
So obviously girls do think i am enough but not me.

I got into game cause i got dumped for a guy that could pretty much get any girl he wanted, so i said to myself im gonna get there myself one day ill be better than him and no girl will ever dump me again.
So here i am, the girl dump the guy and tried to get back with me, i got all the attention from girls i wanted, only to realize that it isnt making me happy.

Sometimes i wish i had a girlfriend, (yes beta i know) but this isnt a possibility anymore, what i mean is having a good girl i can go out with and stuff, but those kind of girls dont exist anymore so the player lifestyle is all i have.

And like i said before i dont have a lot of sexual experience, another thing to add to the list of fucked up things with me. Which makes me feel anxious at times when i'm talking to a girl.
Should i see a therapist? i dont think talking to some probably male feminist with even less experience than me would help me more than you guys

[the virgin chronicles]

Approach more women. Do it during the daytime. Talking to people is normal and makes you happy. When you meet a chick that was too hot for you and have an honest conversation with her, that's a really good feeling even if you end up not fucking her. That's the kind of shit that builds confidence. The approaches you mentioned barely sound like interactions.

[RouteBackwards]

(10-19-2012 10:02 PM)dog24 Wrote:  

So i got rejected the last five times i approached, thats 0/5.
By rejected i mean talking to a girl for 10 seconds and her telling me no thanks or im with someone, at a club.
Last time i kissed a girl was like 3 months ago. Havent had sex in like 2 years.
All day long i think about getting laid, do you think it can affect you mentally if youre not getting sex regularly? Im lacking motivation in everything except going to the gym.
My final exams are like 2 weeks away, and i cant even study for 10 mins straight.
Ive been lurking the Misc a lot and it has warped my brain into thinking i need aesthetics to get girls, when i know from past experiences that i already can get girls.
Im 170 lb right know, and im focusing more on noticing girls checking me out for an ego trip rather than actually approaching them.
Im going back to thinking im not good enough for the really hot girls.
Ive had opportunities to bang 5´s that had come on to me but i feel like i deserve better. I think to myself thats not why i got into game, and would cement even more the notion that i'm not good enough for the girls i really want.

Build your skills.

I bang on and off lately, but my focuses are on learning new shit.

Stop making women the center of your life, make money, learn how to make music, build monuments. Do something outside of the realm of getting your value from women and get your value from being able to do cool shit... and when you step back into the realm of gaming females, you'll be more confident than ever.

[soup]

This is a kind of response

Athelone is right- listen to him and stop your whining