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You say: I'm independent/driven/ambitious.
He hears: I work 60 hours a week, teach yoga on the side and am taking classes to learn seven different languages.
This should be:
You say: I'm independent/driven/ambitious.
He hears: I fill up my schedule with random bullshit, to hide the complete lack of meaning and connection endemic to my life. I will proceed to proudly blow you off in favor of these engagements. And when I flake, or tell you I can't meet that day, I will not have the decency to propose another day instead. I will then make you pursue by default, and then lose interest in you because your pursuit makes you seem 'try-hard.'
(I saw the paragraph explaining this, after I wrote the above portion, and it seems like they agree with my first clause.)
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You say: I'm extremely picky.
He hears: I have unrealistic expectations for potential partners, and it's unlikely that you'll make me happy.
I hear: I'm emotionally incapable of feeling intimacy or affection for a partner, so I just try to get the richest, hottest, highest status, most sexually arousing man I can find. Until I get bored of him. If you see me as anything more than a fucktoy, I will think you're a sap and cheat on you. Immediately.
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You say: I'm laid-back/easygoing/down-to-earth.
He hears: I don't have strong opinions about anything or I spend a lot of time on the couch in my sweats watching movies.
Honestly, this is irrelevant. A girl saying she's 'laid-back' is zero indication of anything. I can see appealing and unappealing girls putting that in their profile.
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You say: I'm old-fashioned and have traditional values.
He hears: I won't have sex with you until we're married.
I don't think this is as bad as they say. I'd look at the rest of her profile. Is she wearing skimpy clothes, writing sassy comments, has had several sexual partners? She's probably looking for a lame guy to buy her dinners, where they can go six dates without kissing, while she's fucking some other dude.
I actually met a chick somewhere, ended up eating next to each other. She was thin, mid to late thirties I think. She had a strong sexual energy, remember telling her at one point "I don't want your juices to get all over me" when she was fidgeting with her food. She was kinda ugly in the face, but I was in a nofap stretch and ready to burst. Then the bitch tells me that she doesn't fuck men unless she's in a loving relationship with them, because she's from Texas. Ok, sounds respectable. Oh, and also that she's dating three men, one of whom she's gone on six dates with and they haven't even kissed. Another she's gone on one with, and they *have* kissed.
She still might've been DTF, but I immediately lost interest and proceeded to ignore her shortly after.
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Don't worry about wasting your time on men only looking for sex. "These guys always expose their true intentions," says Wygant. How? He'll engage in sex talk right away over email, so watch for suggestive language, recommends Wygant.
Not sure if Wygant is a fucking retard or a manosphere mastermind. The above statement, that any guy looking for just sex, will make that obvious over email - ha, that's ridiculous. Maybe he's covering for us?
Yeah, this stuff is pretty on point. It's because Evan Marc Katz is responsible for most of it. He's been mentioned on here before, as a man bringing wisdom to the women out there.