[Balkanite]

A few things I noticed that I'd like to get input on:


1) I swear 80-90% of the women had wedding rings on. Does this sway you or change your approach? I am new to game so admittedly I didn't even engage.


2) Said hi to a younger girl walking by, kind of got a half-smile with no response...is this normal? She may have been a little too young but I'm only 25.


3) Received a WTF expression from a guy stuffing his face with lunch as I walked by. I was wearing a v neck with tight jeans, and I just got a haircut. I was feeling pretty good. I imagine this is standard protocol to get looks like this. Is this the case?

[HiFlo]

No offense, but you went to the mall and only said hi to one-girl? The mall is a plethora of pussy man, you gotta want to improve a little bit more - no, a lot more - than what you exhibited.

At the mall around me, most of the girls are like 16, which is why I don't really do that anymore. I think you were in the wrong stores or went at the wrong time if all you saw were married women?

[IainMuirs]

Doesn't sound like you were overly dressed so I'm not sure why it would be standard to get strange looks from people. A v neck and jeans is standard mall wear surely?

[RandalGraves]

You sound like you're new to game, especially since you're stressing over an approach that was a mere "hi" to a girl walking by.

To pull in girls that are walking by, you need a solid frame right off the bat. To do random daygame approaches at the mall, you need solid confidence and a cool demeanor. IMO, most beginners will be nervous and uncomfortable, when in day game (as Roosh says) you need to be low key, calm, and not scare the cat.

If you really are a newbie, I highly suggest using bars/nightgame as your training ground. At the mall, if people percieve you as a creep approaching young girls, security will seriously kick you out after a while. At a bar, anything goes, and if you fuck up, you can walk away 5 feet and have another group of girls to approach that are none the wiser. You have a big margin for error at a bar, and you can practice controlling your posture, tone, and pace... which will come in handy down the road for day game.

[Balkanite]

(09-30-2012 09:48 AM)RandalGraves Wrote:  

You sound like you're new to game, especially since you're stressing over an approach that was a mere "hi" to a girl walking by.

To pull in girls that are walking by, you need a solid frame right off the bat. To do random daygame approaches at the mall, you need solid confidence and a cool demeanor. IMO, most beginners will be nervous and uncomfortable, when in day game (as Roosh says) you need to be low key, calm, and not scare the cat.

If you really are a newbie, I highly suggest using bars/nightgame as your training ground. At the mall, if people percieve you as a creep approaching young girls, security will seriously kick you out after a while. At a bar, anything goes, and if you fuck up, you can walk away 5 feet and have another group of girls to approach that are none the wiser. You have a big margin for error at a bar, and you can practice controlling your posture, tone, and pace... which will come in handy down the road for day game.

I am definitely new to game and appreciate the input. I am by no means a seasoned vet. Just felt like getting out there yesterday.

[Deluge]

(09-30-2012 09:48 AM)RandalGraves Wrote:  

At the mall, if people percieve you as a creep approaching young girls, security will seriously kick you out after a while.

I've only ever heard of this happening in America and Canada.

Don't forget to street game in outdoor shopping strips and your cities downtown area.

[pitt]

Most of the girls i fuck have boyfriends. It doesnt bother me if i see a girl wearing a wedding ring, matterfact i dont even look at that shit.

[Stun]

(09-30-2012 09:35 AM)Balkanite Wrote:  

A few things I noticed that I'd like to get input on:


1) I swear 80-90% of the women had wedding rings on. Does this sway you or change your approach? I am new to game so admittedly I didn't even engage.


2) Said hi to a younger girl walking by, kind of got a half-smile with no response...is this normal? She may have been a little too young but I'm only 25.


3) Received a WTF expression from a guy stuffing his face with lunch as I walked by. I was wearing a v neck with tight jeans, and I just got a haircut. I was feeling pretty good. I imagine this is standard protocol to get looks like this. Is this the case?

I wouldn't just sit there and let people walk by. You should be walking along side them (about 6 feet away) and then open them. Have something to say after hi. Also, stop when you say excuse me. If you keep walking with her, you're more likely going to have it get weird, or get blown off.

Also, don't expect day game to make any sense. I've had 5 average girls blow me off in a row, and then an hour later a hot girl super into me.