After reading bang I was eager to start some of this new knowledge out and last week whilst in a 40 minute queue to a nightclub, a chance was presented.
A really cute girl joined the queue just behind me, I waited for an opportunity and when she blurted out she was freezing I offered her my coat, only to tell her she could not have it (not sure if this was cruel, was intended to be a joke however).
After making a jibe about my balding hair we actually managed to get into a conversation, she asked me a bunch of questions and I remembered to hold back some answers (let her guess) but gave her honest answers for the rest.
As I got more less nervous we joked a little bit, I teased her cause she is southern and I am northern. Some people queue jumped, to which she told them off. I joked that they will be after us once inside now and I don't want to be associated with her (joking).
After about 15 mins of getting to know her (and her friend, I did speak to her aswell) she then started getting really close to me, muttering how freezing she was.
I could not tell if she was just using me for my body heat or not however.
She was getting closer and I was now basically hugging her, at this point she actually was facing me and for about two seconds was staring directly into my eyes. Now for whatever reason I did not make a move, but it felt like she was waiting for a kiss. We were in a queue so I thought this was inappropriate, [b]was I wrong?[b]
She gave me back my gloves just before we went in, so i decided to call her bluff,
"You can make up for it by buying me a drink"
"I'm a good catch ya know" She replied and then something like she is not easy.
A couple of hours later I had pretty much forgotten about her, until I bumped into her on the dancefloor. At this point I was with a large group of people, she smiled and we approached each other.
I then invested in a bit of small talk asking her if she was having a good time etc. She kissed me on the cheek for lending her the gloves.
I further engaged in small talk with her and not forgetting her friend, making it my aim to make sure they were comfortable with my presence. Then we started dancing......
By this point we were getting closer, so I decided it was time to put one arm around her waist.
Numerous times I would slip it further down to her cute bum, but for some reason I was to scared to commit. Should I have taken a dive and just gained a firm grip? After all she appeared to have no objection.
Her friend then exited the dancefloor, only to return later with another guy, no risk of a cockblocker now!
We continued dancing, but heres the thing, whenever we got close she would not look at me and there was no small talk whilst in this state. She had no objection with me putting my arms round her and she did same to me. Did I need to up it and start getting sexual with my talk?
Anyway, after a little while she got her phone out and asked me to put my number in. Not soon after the lights came up and she said she will text me, we were joking a little still and her friend had clearly pulled for the night. Should I have invited myself or venue changed as there was an after party.
No sooner had she left when I got a text from her saying "bye bye he he x"
Now this is where I think I messed up, I did not reply to her message and decided to think it over. I text her in the morning and guess what............no reply!!!
I did text her about five days later, taking into account the teasing humour. I asked her if she had been any more fights or been barred from any clubs. She did reply laughin and joining in the banter but as soon as I suggested we should meet up again she stopped responding........HELP!
Im not bothered about her but just want to know where I went wrong!
A really cute girl joined the queue just behind me, I waited for an opportunity and when she blurted out she was freezing I offered her my coat, only to tell her she could not have it (not sure if this was cruel, was intended to be a joke however).
After making a jibe about my balding hair we actually managed to get into a conversation, she asked me a bunch of questions and I remembered to hold back some answers (let her guess) but gave her honest answers for the rest.
As I got more less nervous we joked a little bit, I teased her cause she is southern and I am northern. Some people queue jumped, to which she told them off. I joked that they will be after us once inside now and I don't want to be associated with her (joking).
After about 15 mins of getting to know her (and her friend, I did speak to her aswell) she then started getting really close to me, muttering how freezing she was.
I could not tell if she was just using me for my body heat or not however.
She was getting closer and I was now basically hugging her, at this point she actually was facing me and for about two seconds was staring directly into my eyes. Now for whatever reason I did not make a move, but it felt like she was waiting for a kiss. We were in a queue so I thought this was inappropriate, [b]was I wrong?[b]
She gave me back my gloves just before we went in, so i decided to call her bluff,
"You can make up for it by buying me a drink"
"I'm a good catch ya know" She replied and then something like she is not easy.
A couple of hours later I had pretty much forgotten about her, until I bumped into her on the dancefloor. At this point I was with a large group of people, she smiled and we approached each other.
I then invested in a bit of small talk asking her if she was having a good time etc. She kissed me on the cheek for lending her the gloves.
I further engaged in small talk with her and not forgetting her friend, making it my aim to make sure they were comfortable with my presence. Then we started dancing......
By this point we were getting closer, so I decided it was time to put one arm around her waist.
Numerous times I would slip it further down to her cute bum, but for some reason I was to scared to commit. Should I have taken a dive and just gained a firm grip? After all she appeared to have no objection.
Her friend then exited the dancefloor, only to return later with another guy, no risk of a cockblocker now!
We continued dancing, but heres the thing, whenever we got close she would not look at me and there was no small talk whilst in this state. She had no objection with me putting my arms round her and she did same to me. Did I need to up it and start getting sexual with my talk?
Anyway, after a little while she got her phone out and asked me to put my number in. Not soon after the lights came up and she said she will text me, we were joking a little still and her friend had clearly pulled for the night. Should I have invited myself or venue changed as there was an after party.
No sooner had she left when I got a text from her saying "bye bye he he x"
Now this is where I think I messed up, I did not reply to her message and decided to think it over. I text her in the morning and guess what............no reply!!!
I did text her about five days later, taking into account the teasing humour. I asked her if she had been any more fights or been barred from any clubs. She did reply laughin and joining in the banter but as soon as I suggested we should meet up again she stopped responding........HELP!
Im not bothered about her but just want to know where I went wrong!