[Wargasm]

I'm relatively new to the Game, fresh out of college. I have noticed that girls are much more willing to have sex than they are to give blow jobs. Only a couple girls have blown me whilst still withholding from sex. Some of my friends have had the opposite experience though, with lots of girls agreeing to blow them but fewer agreeing to sex.

What have your experiences been? More women willing to bang or give head?

[ryanf]

I get more bjs. It might be my poor logistics, though.

[Gmac]

Way more bangs, but usually because most of the chicks didn't like to blow a guy for a ONS. I'm usually pretty persuasive though. When I had worse game I would get a lot more BJ's I think because it was "settling." My game might have been good enough for the BJ but not the ONS at times.

[WanderingSoul]

Way more bangs for sure.

[durangotang]

I make my living with ONS so to speak. I get blow jobs, but I have noticed a really frustrating problem. It grates my nerves actually, and that is this: in a ONS American girls will blow you, but only briefly because they want you to fuck them and please them. It seems to be all about their satisfaction. It is almost like a mans attitutude towards sex. I have actually gone years of my life without a blow job to completion for this reason. The other possible reason being a lot of girls just don't have the technique down and it takes too long so they stop. I once had a girl who told me "I have a black belt on blow jobs." Oh boy did she ever. Fuck. Any way, as a result of all this I cherish blow jobs for the sole reason that I am not expected to please her in anyway and I can just kick back, be a man and enjoy. Top of my list of qualities I look for in a girl is the ability to give a good BJ and the fact that she enjoys it. I am 32, and when I was in high school blow jobs happened way more than sex. Now that I am older, it's the exact opposite - I'll get blown only as a prelude to me pleasuring her. So I have come to the conclusion that I need to either date to get BJs to completion - or target 18 - 20 year old girls. You can whip your dick out while driving and an 18 year old girl will suck it with youthful enthusiasm. A 28 year old girl has done that too many times to be exited and is probably too tired from working all day. This brings up its own problems, however, as an 18 year old may not be too good at it, and a 28 year old expects a lot to reward you with a good blow job. I blame the mentality foremost, but these days a blow job to completion is a most prized thing. And for those of you who question, I trim and maintain good hygiene - no problems there.

The disappearing blow job. The most annoying problem. If anyone can suggest a cure, I am all ears.

[Wargasm]

(10-01-2012 10:05 PM)durangotang Wrote:  

I make my living with ONS so to speak. I get blow jobs, but I have noticed a really frustrating problem. It grates my nerves actually, and that is this: in a ONS American girls will blow you, but only briefly because they want you to fuck them and please them. It seems to be all about their satisfaction. It is almost like a mans attitutude towards sex. I have actually gone years of my life without a blow job to completion for this reason. The other possible reason being a lot of girls just don't have the technique down and it takes too long so they stop. I once had a girl who told me "I have a black belt on blow jobs." Oh boy did she ever. Fuck. Any way, as a result of all this I cherish blow jobs for the sole reason that I am not expected to please her in anyway and I can just kick back, be a man and enjoy. Top of my list of qualities I look for in a girl is the ability to give a good BJ and the fact that she enjoys it. I am 32, and when I was in high school blow jobs happened way more than sex. Now that I am older, it's the exact opposite - I'll get blown only as a prelude to me pleasuring her. So I have come to the conclusion that I need to either date to get BJs to completion - or target 18 - 20 year old girls. You can whip your dick out while driving and an 18 year old girl will suck it with youthful enthusiasm. A 28 year old girl has done that too many times to be exited and is probably too tired from working all day. This brings up its own problems, however, as an 18 year old may not be too good at it, and a 28 year old expects a lot to reward you with a good blow job. I blame the mentality foremost, but these days a blow job to completion is a most prized thing. And for those of you who question, I trim and maintain good hygiene - no problems there.

The disappearing blow job. The most annoying problem. If anyone can suggest a cure, I am all ears.

I think that this problem (like most other problems concerning women) is largely a result of the huge feeling of entitlement most women have. The hotter the woman, the worse the problem. 6's will give out blow-jobs like hot cakes, while hotter girls will barely participate in fore-play.

The hotter the woman, the less experience she is likely to have in pleasing men. My guess is that if you lowered your standards by a point or so your increase in SMV relative to the girls you're with would encourage them to try harder.

The problem is I'm reenforcing this behavior myself in that I'd still rather bang a 8 who just lied there than an enthusiastic 6. A 9 who acts like a 5 would be ideal though.

[Wargasm]

accidental double-post

[durangotang]

@wargasm I love you handle BTW. Yes I have observed this as an unfortunate truth.

[Statsi]

Way more bangs, girls over here give really bad head, or maybe I'm attracted to inexperienced chickas :\

[azulsombra]

I can relate to durangotango,

A lot more blowjobs with swallowing have happened with the younger chicks. However the best bday head i got was from a beach bar pickup where a latina milf ut proceeded to suck me off in a bar parking lot for a solid twenty minutes and swallowed every last drop.

[gringochileno]

Way, way more bangs. I've actually only gotten a blowjob from a girl I didn't eventually fuck one time ever, and the times I've gotten a blowjob before getting the notch rather than vice versa have been relatively few. It might be due to oral sex not being a part of my usual escalation strategy, but I do think some of it is also a genuine reluctance of some girls to suck dick when they could be getting their pussy pounded instead.

(10-01-2012 10:05 PM)durangotang Wrote:  

I make my living with ONS so to speak. I get blow jobs, but I have noticed a really frustrating problem. It grates my nerves actually, and that is this: in a ONS American girls will blow you, but only briefly because they want you to fuck them and please them. It seems to be all about their satisfaction. It is almost like a mans attitutude towards sex. I have actually gone years of my life without a blow job to completion for this reason. The other possible reason being a lot of girls just don't have the technique down and it takes too long so they stop. I once had a girl who told me "I have a black belt on blow jobs." Oh boy did she ever. Fuck. Any way, as a result of all this I cherish blow jobs for the sole reason that I am not expected to please her in anyway and I can just kick back, be a man and enjoy. Top of my list of qualities I look for in a girl is the ability to give a good BJ and the fact that she enjoys it. I am 32, and when I was in high school blow jobs happened way more than sex. Now that I am older, it's the exact opposite - I'll get blown only as a prelude to me pleasuring her. So I have come to the conclusion that I need to either date to get BJs to completion - or target 18 - 20 year old girls. You can whip your dick out while driving and an 18 year old girl will suck it with youthful enthusiasm. A 28 year old girl has done that too many times to be exited and is probably too tired from working all day. This brings up its own problems, however, as an 18 year old may not be too good at it, and a 28 year old expects a lot to reward you with a good blow job. I blame the mentality foremost, but these days a blow job to completion is a most prized thing. And for those of you who question, I trim and maintain good hygiene - no problems there.

The disappearing blow job. The most annoying problem. If anyone can suggest a cure, I am all ears.

I've noticed a similar pattern. Sometimes I'll want a girl to blow me after the first round of banging and more often than not they're hesitant to doing it at all, or they'll give a token sucking-off for a minute or 2 and then want to fuck again--or they'll try to negotiate and only do it "if I return the favor." Maybe it's a masculinized, selfish Western girl thing because the foreign girls I've banged have mostly been pretty enthusiastic about sucking my dick (I love it when they ask permission lol).

It's not a very big deal for me because in the end I'd rather have the pussy anyway, but it does get annoying when you've just finished a tiring bang sesh and it would be nice to just lie back for a minute and let the chick do the work.