I'll keep as short as possible but it'll still be long...
-we will call her HB
-know HB through mutual friend (a girl, they are very close)
-seen her a couple times, she is very hot
-one random night I meet up w/ a fuck buddy, and by coincidence HB is w/ her. HB is all over me, asks for my facebook, adds me on the spot, and tells me I better accept
-I do, she writes something on my wall, I then private msg her
-HB goes out with my fuck buddy again and fuck buddy messages me to come. I say maybe. I flop
-Same night HB facebook messages me saying she thought I was supposed to show up
-I give her my #, she immediately texts me. We go from there, we end up meeting up one night, me + my friend + her + her friend. She is all over me all night, we hold hands and all that gay shit all night, kissing up on my neck, feeling each other up, etc.
-We were all going to crash at my buddy's house, but I had something to do at home really early so I had to leave. Before I left, HB and I hung out 1v1 and smoked, and talked for a good 30-40 minutes. She pretty much was feeling me up and telling me she's really attracted to me, and that mutual friend was warning her about me because I am younger and a player. I had to go.
-She sometimes takes hours to reply. And she randomly will decide to stop texting in the middle of a convo (not too often but it's happened)
-She isn't a slut (according to the mutual friend, who btw is a very close family friend) and is a wifey type girl
-We were supposed to meet following weekend but she ended up showing up at like 2am so I had left.
-I've invited her out (on a date pretty much) 1v1 many times on the weekends but she always 'has work until very late' on weekends (she isn't lying about this but still annoys me. and weekdays are kind of hard for me)
-She flopped on me last minute this weekend because she had late work again and thought it was too late by the time she got home, but she was still showing lots of interest when we do have convos.
-She has initiated a few text convos since we met, but most of the time it's me. I haven't spoken to her since she flopped (2-3 days ago)... Right now I don't plan on texting her next until she initiated next time.
-I consider myself a player, but I feel like the tables have turned this time and this girl is trying to play games w/ me for some reason. Or she is worried about the mutual friend not liking the situation (the mutual friend thinks I'm hot), or the mutual friend is cock blocking by telling her I'm a player, blabla.
-I feel like I am chasing too much, but it is because I KNOW she wants me because she has clearly told me she's attracted to me and has actually showed up 2/3 times we planned something. And when she initiated convos, it's to make plans to hang out. If she actually doesn't want me then she's a better player than I am. But like I said, she is known to be a quality girl.
-She is 2 years older than me (24 - 26)
-I know most guys on here are against relationships, but she's the type I wouldn't mind getting into one with. So I feel different about her than with random ONS and fuck buddies.
Basically, should I suck up my pride and continue being persistent, and initiating convo with her more than she does with me (because it seems to be working slowly but damn I hate the feeling of me chasing too much)... should I keep chasing (because I know she wants to see me, I'm 100% sure)? Or should I 'move on'', disregard her and hope she will initiate contact next?
Tried to make it short but that's the best I can do. I feel like some small details might make a difference in opinions. It's a stupid soft noob issue but I like hearing opinions from different perspectives.
-we will call her HB
-know HB through mutual friend (a girl, they are very close)
-seen her a couple times, she is very hot
-one random night I meet up w/ a fuck buddy, and by coincidence HB is w/ her. HB is all over me, asks for my facebook, adds me on the spot, and tells me I better accept
-I do, she writes something on my wall, I then private msg her
-HB goes out with my fuck buddy again and fuck buddy messages me to come. I say maybe. I flop
-Same night HB facebook messages me saying she thought I was supposed to show up
-I give her my #, she immediately texts me. We go from there, we end up meeting up one night, me + my friend + her + her friend. She is all over me all night, we hold hands and all that gay shit all night, kissing up on my neck, feeling each other up, etc.
-We were all going to crash at my buddy's house, but I had something to do at home really early so I had to leave. Before I left, HB and I hung out 1v1 and smoked, and talked for a good 30-40 minutes. She pretty much was feeling me up and telling me she's really attracted to me, and that mutual friend was warning her about me because I am younger and a player. I had to go.
-She sometimes takes hours to reply. And she randomly will decide to stop texting in the middle of a convo (not too often but it's happened)
-She isn't a slut (according to the mutual friend, who btw is a very close family friend) and is a wifey type girl
-We were supposed to meet following weekend but she ended up showing up at like 2am so I had left.
-I've invited her out (on a date pretty much) 1v1 many times on the weekends but she always 'has work until very late' on weekends (she isn't lying about this but still annoys me. and weekdays are kind of hard for me)
-She flopped on me last minute this weekend because she had late work again and thought it was too late by the time she got home, but she was still showing lots of interest when we do have convos.
-She has initiated a few text convos since we met, but most of the time it's me. I haven't spoken to her since she flopped (2-3 days ago)... Right now I don't plan on texting her next until she initiated next time.
-I consider myself a player, but I feel like the tables have turned this time and this girl is trying to play games w/ me for some reason. Or she is worried about the mutual friend not liking the situation (the mutual friend thinks I'm hot), or the mutual friend is cock blocking by telling her I'm a player, blabla.
-I feel like I am chasing too much, but it is because I KNOW she wants me because she has clearly told me she's attracted to me and has actually showed up 2/3 times we planned something. And when she initiated convos, it's to make plans to hang out. If she actually doesn't want me then she's a better player than I am. But like I said, she is known to be a quality girl.
-She is 2 years older than me (24 - 26)
-I know most guys on here are against relationships, but she's the type I wouldn't mind getting into one with. So I feel different about her than with random ONS and fuck buddies.
Basically, should I suck up my pride and continue being persistent, and initiating convo with her more than she does with me (because it seems to be working slowly but damn I hate the feeling of me chasing too much)... should I keep chasing (because I know she wants to see me, I'm 100% sure)? Or should I 'move on'', disregard her and hope she will initiate contact next?
Tried to make it short but that's the best I can do. I feel like some small details might make a difference in opinions. It's a stupid soft noob issue but I like hearing opinions from different perspectives.