I'm sure this has been touched upon before, but I couldn't think of the proper search terms.
a girl I was seeing recently ended it, she didn't give a reason but I presume it was because she was pushing for a relationship, and I wasn't interested in anything more than sex and going to bars together. this manifested in a few ways - her asking to see me more often, her asking me out to dinner, her calling me to hang out multiple times a week. I liked her but didn't want to give the wrong impression, plus I didn't feel that she was worth the work.
what I would have liked is to keep things casual, seeing each other once a week max. when I realized this was unlikely my goal was just to prolong it as long as possible without escalating.
are there proven techniques to increase the probability of girls keeping me in the "fuck buddy" bucket, instead of having them put me in the "boyfriend" bucket, then get angry when I am not interested? I just want to be the guy girls call when they are horny, I don't want to go out to dinner and text each other all the time.
a girl I was seeing recently ended it, she didn't give a reason but I presume it was because she was pushing for a relationship, and I wasn't interested in anything more than sex and going to bars together. this manifested in a few ways - her asking to see me more often, her asking me out to dinner, her calling me to hang out multiple times a week. I liked her but didn't want to give the wrong impression, plus I didn't feel that she was worth the work.
what I would have liked is to keep things casual, seeing each other once a week max. when I realized this was unlikely my goal was just to prolong it as long as possible without escalating.
are there proven techniques to increase the probability of girls keeping me in the "fuck buddy" bucket, instead of having them put me in the "boyfriend" bucket, then get angry when I am not interested? I just want to be the guy girls call when they are horny, I don't want to go out to dinner and text each other all the time.