[MrXY]

Understandably, there is a lot of discussion here about tactics and lines to get a girl to come to your place or induce her to invite you to her place.

But it should be kept in mind that while we are gaming girls, they are gaming us, too.

I've had two recent experience in which girls outright tricked me into coming to their house. The first was an online meeting at a bar. The interaction was going well. We were drinking beer, and after the first one she asked me if I wanted another and she paid for it. Then another, then another. We then went to a party at her friend's house and she kept asking me if I needed a beer, and would go fetch it for me. Pretty soon, i had downed 8-9 beers for the evening. We got ready to go and she said " I can't let you drive, you've had too much to drink. You can come stay in my spare bedroom." I realized she had been feeding me beers for hours in order to set me up for this-she could pose as Miss Responsible Citizen to herself and her friends while getting my dick in her house. And it worked-she got the bang.

The second happened this weekend. Once again. it was a first meeting with an online girl. We met at the bar of a restaurant, had a couple of drinks and hit it off pretty well. I wanted to bounce, but wasn't too familiar with her town, so i asked her to suggest another place. She said there were a couple of bars a few miles away. We took separate cars, but on the way she called me and said I could leave my car at her house, which just happened to be on the route to the bars. When we arrived at her house, she said," I'm almost out of gas." I said I could put some gas in her SUV or she could ride with me, but she responded that she didn't want me to have to do that. "Why don't we just go inside and sit down?" she said. She got the bang, too

I have to say, I admire these girls boldness and manipulative skills.

Of course, the classic girl way to get you to her house is to invite you over for a homecooked meal. so much so that when I was in college the girl's slang for sex was "homecooking" as in " I gave Tony some homecooking this weekend."

So what lines, pretexts and ruses have girls used on you to get you to their place?

[Sphere]

Strangely, I have not run into this problem. Clearly I am doing something wrong.

I try to avoid logistics that leave me distant from my place. My usual meetup is a bar/grill near my house and then bounce home if the auspices look good. I generally assume that if she wants me to come to her that it's going to be a sterile meet and greet.

May I ask you old you are and how old they are? I'm nearly 50 and I think the dynamics are a little different in this demographic. On the other hand, I'm probably doing something less than optimally. What's your secret to getting homecooking?

[BIGINJAPAN]

If I got a good feeling about the first date before I get there and I think I got it in the bag I turn my oven on. Never the stove though, that is too risky of burning your place down. Make sure you turn it on, don't just say it, looks more credible when you show up at your place and it is on.

That little trick has gotten me first date lays for years now.

[dirtman]

(10-01-2012 03:32 PM)BIGINJAPAN Wrote:  

If I got a good feeling about the first date before I get there and I think I got it in the bag I turn my oven on. Never the stove though, that is too risky of burning your place down. Make sure you turn it on, don't just say it, looks more credible when you show up at your place and it is on.

That little trick has gotten me first date lays for years now.

Easily the craziest tactic I've heard to get a girl back to your place.

[BIGINJAPAN]

(10-01-2012 03:35 PM)dirtman Wrote:  

(10-01-2012 03:32 PM)BIGINJAPAN Wrote:  

If I got a good feeling about the first date before I get there and I think I got it in the bag I turn my oven on. Never the stove though, that is too risky of burning your place down. Make sure you turn it on, don't just say it, looks more credible when you show up at your place and it is on.

That little trick has gotten me first date lays for years now.

Easily the craziest tactic I've heard to get a girl back to your place.

In my college days we used to test all these ways to either pick girls up, get them back to your place or get them naked at parties.

Best idea we had for getting girls naked at a house party was to crank the heat up on the thermostat. Logic was they would start sweating so much they would have to take their clothes off.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

(10-01-2012 03:42 PM)BIGINJAPAN Wrote:  

Best idea we had for getting girls naked at a house party was to crank the heat up on the thermostat. Logic was they would start sweating so much they would have to take their clothes off.

Great idea, but don't men sweat more than women? You'd probably have to get undressed first. Did it ever work for you?

[BIGINJAPAN]

(10-01-2012 03:47 PM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

(10-01-2012 03:42 PM)BIGINJAPAN Wrote:  

Best idea we had for getting girls naked at a house party was to crank the heat up on the thermostat. Logic was they would start sweating so much they would have to take their clothes off.

Great idea, but don't men sweat more than women? You'd probably have to get undressed first. Did it ever work for you?

Fuck we were all drunk jocks at the time. Not the greatest logic behind our ideas. But it did lead to drunk, shirtless girls getting tag teamed or doing some cross country skiing on the couch.

[XII]

Drugs.

There's not a more foolproof pretext in the book for fucking someone.

[MrXY]

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Posted by Sphere - Today 04:57 PM
Strangely, I have not run into this problem. Clearly I am doing something wrong.

I try to avoid logistics that leave me distant from my place. My usual meetup is a bar/grill near my house and then bounce home if the auspices look good. I generally assume that if she wants me to come to her that it's going to be a sterile meet and greet.

May I ask you old you are and how old they are? I'm nearly 50 and I think the dynamics are a little different in this demographic. On the other hand, I'm probably doing something less than optimally. What's your secret to getting homecooking?

My approach is the opposite of yours. I play "away game" exclusively with new girls- I always bang them at their place or on occasion at a hotel, a friends house, in a car, the woods, the beach etc. A lot of guys think that the best way to bang a girl is to get her into your place but I don't find that to be necessary at all. If a girl wants you to bang her she will help you make it happen regardless of the location

As you noted, there also seems to be a belief out there that going to the girl is a bad move because it will come across as beta or the girl isn't interested in sex that night if she wants you to come to her. In my experience, both of these beliefs are quite wrong. I drove 45 min. to see the first girl discussed in my post and an hour and a half to see the second.

I will be 50 shortly, and the women I go after are 27-45. If anything, the women in this age group are much more likely to invite you to their place. They are sexually experienced and know what they want and how to get it.

I don't have a secret. I just run good standard game, dress well, am fit, and my inner game is strong. Once you have created attractiion and gotten them aroused, they will start thinking of ways to get your dick inside them. BTW, I have evolved to the point where I never suggest going back to her place. Sometimes I help create the situation where we end up at her place, for example, by driving and picking her up there for the date, but otherwise I let the idea be hers. This might seem too passive for the taste of some, but I have found that if you are aggressive with the rest of your game, being passive here works.

[dirtman]

At least he didn't leave the weed whacker on.

[Sphere]

(10-01-2012 08:42 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

Quote:

Posted by Sphere - Today 04:57 PM
Strangely, I have not run into this problem. Clearly I am doing something wrong.

I try to avoid logistics that leave me distant from my place. My usual meetup is a bar/grill near my house and then bounce home if the auspices look good. I generally assume that if she wants me to come to her that it's going to be a sterile meet and greet.

May I ask you old you are and how old they are? I'm nearly 50 and I think the dynamics are a little different in this demographic. On the other hand, I'm probably doing something less than optimally. What's your secret to getting homecooking?

My approach is the opposite of yours. I play "away game" exclusively with new girls- I always bang them at their place or on occasion at a hotel, a friends house, in a car, the woods, the beach etc. A lot of guys think that the best way to bang a girl is to get her into your place but I don't find that to be necessary at all. If a girl wants you to bang her she will help you make it happen regardless of the location

As you noted, there also seems to be a belief out there that going to the girl is a bad move because it will come across as beta or the girl isn't interested in sex that night if she wants you to come to her. In my experience, both of these beliefs are quite wrong. I drove 45 min. to see the first girl discussed in my post and an hour and a half to see the second.

I will be 50 shortly, and the women I go after are 27-45. If anything, the women in this age group are much more likely to invite you to their place. They are sexually experienced and know what they want and how to get it.

I don't have a secret. I just run good standard game, dress well, am fit, and my inner game is strong. Once you have created attractiion and gotten them aroused, they will start thinking of ways to get your dick inside them. BTW, I have evolved to the point where I never suggest going back to her place. Sometimes I help create the situation where we end up at her place, for example, by driving and picking her up there for the date, but otherwise I let the idea be hers. This might seem too passive for the taste of some, but I have found that if you are aggressive with the rest of your game, being passive here works.

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. I guess I need more experience.

Do you pull in the 27-35 range online and if so, how? I've read the entire 'How to get laid on OKCupid like a boss' thread and the gestalt is good pictures good messaging skills and the numbers game. I'd be glad to PM you if you prefer. I would like to know what you know though.

[silent_scope]

No ruse.. just a text that read... "I need you.. NAOW!"

Couldn't resist. She got the bang.

[Capitán Peligroso]

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Once you have created attraction and gotten them aroused, they will start thinking of ways to get your dick inside them. BTW, I have evolved to the point where I never suggest going back to her place. Sometimes I help create the situation where we end up at her place, for example, by driving and picking her up there for the date, but otherwise I let the idea be hers.

This is how it's done... know when to hunt and when to fish. When you've laid the right context for a sexual relationship, there won't be LMR because it's her "idea."