[IainMuirs]

The more I read the less likely I think this is going to work out with a happy ending for you. No apartment to take her, going to a beach that involves waiting on public transport and a 15 minute or more bus journey plus it's not exactly going to be warm, it's going to be late at night and she might just find it creepy.

Now I'm thinking go to the hostel, get her drunk and try and drag her to an empty room and smash her.

[redstar]

Just go. Worst case you get a free night's stay in the hotel. Best case...

[VonAwesome]

I went there to meet her at the club, I came about 2 hours late as the result of a huge thunderstorm with masses of rain, I also drove rather than take the bus since I believed that the unlimited drink special would have expired by then.

We went into the venue where she had been drinking for a while and was reasonably well intoxicated. It was a paint party so everyone was coated in fluorescent paint and she had it over her head to toe.

We head to the dance floor. Several pricks from her hostel tried to cockblock me, I did my best to alpha one and she brushed off the rest. I put my hands on her, move closer and our noses were touching and went for the makeout, I had the chance to get a hand down the back of her pants [very tight pants, just felt her ass] and put my hand up her shirt and played with her left tit. Basically there was no kino resistance other then her pulling my hand out of her pants after awhile with the objection that we shouldn't do that in public, especially with her friends from the hostel around. Dance, dance, dance, feel her ass, make out more and I said lets go.

We went to my car and talked and then I started driving to the beach [on the way there she said "we aren't going to your place are we?" The rain had stopped however the ground was still damp so the environment wasn't great. We sat on a towel and I attempted to amp up kino with some touching through the clothes, sitting her on my lap, etc. She was getting sober however and I started meeting more resistance. We watched the sunrise and I drove her back to the hostel.

All in all, I think I could have done more to facilitate the bang, maybe with some calibration and a bottle of wine for the beach. I didn't end up making it all the way there but it could have gone the other way with a bit of extra work.

Anyway it's 9am and I'm off to bed.

Cheers guys.

[iknowexactly]

(09-28-2012 06:02 PM)VonAwesome Wrote:  

All in all, I think I could have done more to facilitate the bang, maybe with some calibration and a bottle of wine for the beach. I didn't end up making it all the way there but it could have gone the other way with a bit of extra work.

Anyway it's 9am and I'm off to bed.

Cheers guys.

Great job and story. One thing I thing we can learn from your adventure is that if you are going somewhere with a girl who has already been drinking, it might be good to have more alcohol available so she doesn't have to come down. And maybe try to isolate earlier?

[VonAwesome]

(09-28-2012 10:17 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(09-28-2012 06:02 PM)VonAwesome Wrote:  

All in all, I think I could have done more to facilitate the bang, maybe with some calibration and a bottle of wine for the beach. I didn't end up making it all the way there but it could have gone the other way with a bit of extra work.

Anyway it's 9am and I'm off to bed.

Cheers guys.

Great job and story. One thing I thing we can learn from your adventure is that if you are going somewhere with a girl who has already been drinking, it might be good to have more alcohol available so she doesn't have to come down. And maybe try to isolate earlier?

Thanks, I completely agree. If she is already on that high emotional level, a state change such as letting her get sober will make it infinitely more difficult to close the set, logistics and having alcohol on hand would have helped in this particular situation.

Regarding whether or not to have gone to the club, I would say it was the right choice here since she already had a high level of attraction for me and ignored all the other guys there, basically all I had to do was escalate on the dance floor [I don't even normally do dance floor game!] However if the girl had a lower level of attraction, was with close friends [i.e not hostel buddies] or was in a logistically bad location, it would definitely have been better to stick to the original plan.

[j r]

(09-28-2012 11:09 PM)VonAwesome Wrote:  

Regarding whether or not to have gone to the club, I would say it was the right choice here since she already had a high level of attraction for me and ignored all the other guys there, basically all I had to do was escalate on the dance floor [I don't even normally do dance floor game!] However if the girl had a lower level of attraction, was with close friends [i.e not hostel buddies] or was in a logistically bad location, it would definitely have been better to stick to the original plan.

Maybe, but if she wasn't already into you there's a good chance that she would have bailed on the original plan anyway or been pissy because you took her away from a fun party to try and fuck her on beach.

I was thinking yesterday that it's hard to say which was the better choice without knowing more about how you guys met and what the history was. Girls who are already into you will jump through hoops to hang out, while girls who are on the fence or attention-whoring will drag you up and down over obstacles all day and night.

[XXL]

(09-28-2012 06:02 PM)VonAwesome Wrote:  

All in all, I think I could have done more to facilitate the bang, maybe with some calibration and a bottle of wine for the beach. I didn't end up making it all the way there but it could have gone the other way with a bit of extra work.

yup, bottle(s) of wine on the beach, that was crucial IMO.

also i think that on the beach if you'd EXTENDED the party (having fun, doing stupid shit, drinking, molesting each other for fun, teasing.. aka doing silly physical activities together) the physicality/escalation part would have reached the point of kiss/sex being natural consequence.

as a related story, i once fucked up so much it's embarrasing to tell but.. oh well. so it was very similar situation. i was gaming some chick like ever before started with huge frame battle. she gave in and i was able to lead her physically like she was a doll, or piece of wood or something, she complied so much i was just grabing her hand and dragging her anywhere i wanted. we ended up on beach, we got less and less drunk, i started to become more "serious" and chill and tried to play it smooth. it was going downhill super fast. she said she needs to go pee and never came back. ouch. basically i had her on silver plate, all it took was to get to the beach drinks some there and and rip clothes off and fuck just like that, it was that level of compliance from her. oops.

lesson learned - always take buzz to the beach

[HiFlo]

(09-29-2012 02:35 AM)XXL Wrote:  

[quote='VonAwesome' pid='277137' dateline='1348873321']
also i think that on the beach if you'd EXTENDED the party (having fun, doing stupid shit, drinking, molesting each other for fun, teasing.. aka doing silly physical activities together) the physicality/escalation part would have reached the point of kiss/sex being natural consequence.

that's it. go swimming with her. pretend to drown her. pretend there are sharks in the water. hahaha

[iknowexactly]

(09-29-2012 02:56 AM)HiFlo Wrote:  

[quote] (09-29-2012 02:35 AM)XXL Wrote:  

also i think that on the beach if you'd EXTENDED the party (having fun, doing stupid shit, drinking, molesting each other for fun, teasing.. aka doing silly physical activities together) the physicality/escalation part would have reached the point of kiss/sex being natural consequence.

that's it. go swimming with her. pretend to drown her. pretend there are sharks in the water. hahaha

if you're drunk at night and don't know the local waters please don't get killed.

[IainMuirs]

I wouldn't have bothered with the beach considering the weather and it was obviously still going to be wet. I would have tried to drag her somewhere in the hostel and fucked her right after I'd had my hand up her top and down her pants, the drive to the beach probably caused a drop in tension. The wetness from the rain earlier wouldn't have made ideal fucking circumstances either. No one wants to fuck on a wet, sandy, cold and dark beach.

[VonAwesome]

I tried to reach her pussy from behind but her pants were reaaaallllyyy tight, I could only get my hands on her ass.

Oh well, maybe I'll try going to the beach with her again this week, this time earlier and when it's not raining.

Some memories.

Venue Pic - fucking crazy party, lots of average girls in groups and dudes from her hostel - yes, that is paint on the ceiling, everyone was covered in it, including my white shoes which are probably destroyed.



Wet, cold beach. [barefoot 18 year old scandinavian wearing my jacket, standing with her arms crossed, circled are her shoes which were destroyed from dancing, paint and beach. Yes, this was taken at 6am [we were there from 4]- I thought I would at least try to bang even though it seemed like an uphill battle.