[rationalize_this]

This applies to "Traditional/Nice girls", yeah yeah I know everyone is going to say they don't exist in the US, but there are rare exceptions.

How many dates are you willing to go for the lay depending on hotness( this is only applying to 8s+) ????

What about for a flag???

What about you players abroad in Eastern Europe??? How many dates are you willing to put up with from an (8+) for the notch or flag???

What are you willing to do? Learn a dance, a song? What about cooking a dish of her culture?

This is assuming you are gaming/banging other girls meanwhile, how much equity so to speak are you trying to put in?

[Tuthmosis]

3.

[alecks]

how far would you guys actually TRAVEL to get the notch?

[Nudge]

Funny about this thread. I've got a 3rd date coming up with a more traditional/good girl soon. She has told me she has had very few partners and it usually takes a long time for her to sleep with someone, usually months. Usually after 3 or even 2 I would drop it but this girl has me intrigued and I like the challenge, its my first black girl too. If it doesnt happen on the next one I think Ill still be tempted to go for a fourth.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

I remember with visceral dread those days when I thought that kissing a woman on the first date was inappropriate and really "too forward", akin to implying that you only want her for her body. Hah.

[Nudge]

(09-27-2012 06:51 AM)Nudge Wrote:  

Funny about this thread. I've got a 3rd date coming up with a more traditional/good girl soon. She has told me she has had very few partners and it usually takes a long time for her to sleep with someone, usually months. Usually after 3 or even 2 I would drop it but this girl has me intrigued and I like the challenge, its my first black girl too. If it doesnt happen on the next one I think Ill still be tempted to go for a fourth.

Not to worry, got the job done in 3

[gds555]

(09-27-2012 08:31 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

I remember with visceral dread those days when I thought that kissing a woman on the first date was inappropriate and really "too forward", akin to implying that you only want her for her body.

So since you bring the subject up, what are your favorite comebacks when a woman actually does hit you with the "Oh, so you only want me for sex/for my body" line?

I have this fantasy of saying to a woman, "No, I want you for your doctorate in microbiology". And then when she says "But I don't have a doctorate in microbiology", I say "Oh, well, fuck you then, I definitely don't want to have sex with you now".

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

gds555: I think that line is a fairly good example of misdirection that you can use. Just have a charming, unfazed reply of any direction and never apologize or explain. She will laugh and forget the question. I think some other good alternatives would be:

"Yes, I want to steal your organs" (Agree & Amplify)
"Why is that bad?" (Juan Antonio style)
"And you like it." (Asshole game)

etc. etc.

[MrXY]

(09-27-2012 06:51 AM)Nudge Wrote:  

Funny about this thread. I've got a 3rd date coming up with a more traditional/good girl soon. She has told me she has had very few partners and it usually takes a long time for her to sleep with someone, usually months. Usually after 3 or even 2 I would drop it but this girl has me intrigued and I like the challenge, its my first black girl too. If it doesnt happen on the next one I think Ill still be tempted to go for a fourth.

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Posted by Nudge - 09-28-2012 06:13 AM

Not to worry, got the job done in 3 Banana

I was going to say- never believe what girls tell you about their sexual history and behavior- but I see this girl has already taught you that lesson.

I have a three date rule which I will extend to four or sometimes to five but only if there are extenuating circumstances-usually logistical- and i really like the girl.

What I will not do though, is allow the girl to make me jump through any hoops i.e. meet her family, go to some stupid event , etc. I'm not willing to do anything that is unpleasant to me to bang a girl. I will do activities with her that she suggests if I it's something that I enjoy.

Paradoxically, I think this makes it more likely, not less likely, that I will bang her and bang her sooner than other guys. When you don't send off boyfriend/provider signals most girls don't hold you to that standard and will give it up more quickly.

With regard to hotter girls, in my experience it doesn't take any more time to bang them than average girls- what it does take is tighter game. I have gotten SNL/First Date bangs from 8s while it's taken me 3-4 dates to bang a 6. I am willing to give a really hot girl an extra date or two but that's it.

[Aliblahba]

The number of dates is proportional to her value. Would I use 6 dates to bang a 6? Hell no. A 10? Hell yes. And by dates I don't mean closing down the bar either. Meet up for a cup of joe, or a quick dinner.

Personally I like dating to make other women jealous, enjoy the company at a nice restaurant, and play with my prey. Keep hard to get women on the back burner and continue to game other girls.

There's nothing like taking a hot girl out for happy hour, getting sexually aroused, then hitting a night venue.

Besides, dating a girl a few times establishes a better connection, which will lower her inhibitions when you do have sex. I prefer the maximum amount of passion in bed.

[rationalize_this]

Broke the 3 date rule for an argentinian (7.5) flag. Great ass though.