[Cruisen_Chubby]

Hey all: I have a problem that I am looking to address through the opinion(s) of you guys; fellow players that will understand.

I have always been a proponent of MOB (money over bitches). It has been spouted multiple times to just do ourselves and let the women come to us as a result. I believe it was Heartiste that insists that your mission in life should be your priority; not women.

I agree with this, however, I am in my last year at university. There are hunnies all over, begging for D. I go to a school where the ratio is 3:1 girls to guys. Most of the guys are sperg like dupes. A decent percentage of the girls are decent looking.

With this, it is no doubt a player's field.

I; however, started a small business a little over a year ago. The jobs and contracts offered to me at the time were rather sparatic (working 1-3 days a month, but still good money). Now, through hustle and gumption, I have increased the amount of traffic to my business five fold. I could work every day if I want to, making a minimum of $200 a day. I will not leave my house for under that.

Now, this is a great problem to have, but recently I have been putting in some long ass days (12-16 hours). This means skipping class, skimping on the gym, not attending ballroom dancing (love that shit), and constantly flaking on my harem. I have lost a few plates as they believe I am boning other girls (oh well).

My concern is this:

At such a wonderful time in my life, should I be worried more about making money? Or conquering new pussy?

I'm aware I will never be in a situation with this accessibility ever again, but at the same time, I worked my ass off for where I am at with my business.

G manifesto had some good shit on balancing work with women. Tipping the scale in one way over the other results in an imbalance and possibly unhappiness and feeling unfulfilled.

What would you guys do? Chase the dollar and play extra hard on the weekend with acquired toys? Or forgo some jobs (possibly at the expense of my business cred, to pick up new girls and let that porcelain whirl?)

Thanks in advance,
-Chubby

[HiFlo]

I own a small biz. It is impossible to do everything yourself while still having free time. It is also impossible to hire people to do anything without significant cash flow, which you won't have if you have no startup capital and have been in business for less than 2 yrs or so.

The bottom line is if you wish to continue the biz while still having time you must hire employees, or subcontract some work out to professionals (accounting, graphic design, sales, etc), but there's no easy way to get this unless you have a nice balance sheet to begin with.

No easy solution brah.

[Cruisen_Chubby]

(09-25-2012 08:51 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

I own a small biz. It is impossible to do everything yourself while still having free time. It is also impossible to hire people to do anything without significant cash flow, which you won't have if you have no startup capital and have been in business for less than 2 yrs or so.

The bottom line is if you wish to continue the biz while still having time you must hire employees, or subcontract some work out to professionals (accounting, graphic design, sales, etc), but there's no easy way to get this unless you have a nice balance sheet to begin with.

No easy solution brah.

It's a service industry; one I don't wish to be in after I graduate with my degree. I'm just doing it until I pass my CPA certification tests.

The money is great though, no disputing that.

I am not looking to hire employees at that would make my stress skyrocket. Half the people I know are retards and wouldn't trust with a small animal, let alone my capital and investments. On top of that, I do not want to deal with the FICA (Social Security) nor the FUTA (Unemployment) that I would have to pay dealing with having employees.

Subcontracting is the way to go; but it's a lot of hastle (with 1099's) and liability throwin in there as well. Plus in this industry, If It were a $400 job, I could pay the subcontractor $350 for a $50 profit. To me, that is not worth the administrative headache.

I plan to do this for another year or so, but upon completion, I will be out of school and onto something new. Perhaps I'm paranoid. But as I read more and more about the longing of older players to be back in high school and college, I'm begginning to wonder if I'm doing it right, or if i'm blatantly missing the point of being a wreckless young man.

[Basil Ransom]

You have the rest of your life to make money. You can't say the same of college.

A few Gs here and there won't make much difference.

You misunderstood Roissy. The point is to make every girl in your life feel that she is not your mission, your highest priority. There's nothing wrong with making *women,* as a group, your priority, as a committed womanizer. Just don't single out one. If a girl thinks she comes before everything else in your life, she will see you as less of a man.

Did you grow up poor?

[Cruisen_Chubby]

(09-25-2012 09:21 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

You have the rest of your life to make money. You can't say the same of college.

A few Gs here and there won't make much difference.

You misunderstood Roissy. The point is to make every girl in your life feel that she is not your mission, your highest priority. There's nothing wrong with making *women,* as a group, your priority, as a committed womanizer. Just don't single out one. If a girl thinks she comes before everything else in your life, she will see you as less of a man.

Did you grow up poor?

Thanks for clarifying- Makes much more sense now.

I didn't grow up poor. Middle as the middle class comes.

But at 21 I have a sports car, a business car, a newer sea-doo, and a motorhome for partying in during the summer. Meanwhile having a very nice place downtown (perfect logistics) and getting a hot tub real soon.

I think I'm addicted to the toys involved with the increased income.

You could look at it this way.

Working more ----> more money ----> More toys ----> more women.

A paradox presents itself

Working more ----> Less time ----> Less game ----> less women.


You can see my problem =/

[IainMuirs]

In my opinion the toys are a waste of money. You don't NEED 2 cars (or is it 3? I've no idea what a sea-doo is) and you'll only end up getting attached to this stuff which is not a good situation to be in.

[littleG]

Stay focused on your path. One of my mantras is: "There will always be x." x can be whatever may be currently distracting you from your path. I.e. "There will always be parties;" "There will always be 18 year old girls;" But like you said whatever you are doing right now isn't necessarily your path as you are on the way to becoming a CPA. Figure out what is important to you and focus on that.

[HiFlo]

(09-25-2012 09:47 PM)IainMuirs Wrote:  

In my opinion the toys are a waste of money. You don't NEED 2 cars (or is it 3? I've no idea what a sea-doo is) and you'll only end up getting attached to this stuff which is not a good situation to be in.

No shit, you have all these toys but are resistant to hiring an accountant to handle employee tax withholdings for you? Your priorities are screwed up: by this I mean your priorities are aligned with what the average 21 year old wants, but not what a successful entrepreneur knows is right. Not to mention that all these toys are at complete odds with the personality of EVERY CPA I have ever dealt with. LOL!

[Basil Ransom]

(09-25-2012 09:32 PM)Cruisen_Chubby Wrote:  

(09-25-2012 09:21 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

You have the rest of your life to make money. You can't say the same of college.

A few Gs here and there won't make much difference.

You misunderstood Roissy. The point is to make every girl in your life feel that she is not your mission, your highest priority. There's nothing wrong with making *women,* as a group, your priority, as a committed womanizer. Just don't single out one. If a girl thinks she comes before everything else in your life, she will see you as less of a man.

Did you grow up poor?

Thanks for clarifying- Makes much more sense now.

I didn't grow up poor. Middle as the middle class comes.

But at 21 I have a sports car, a business car, a newer sea-doo, and a motorhome for partying in during the summer. Meanwhile having a very nice place downtown (perfect logistics) and getting a hot tub real soon.

I think I'm addicted to the toys involved with the increased income.

You could look at it this way.

Working more ----> more money ----> More toys ----> more women.

A paradox presents itself

Working more ----> Less time ----> Less game ----> less women.


You can see my problem =/

You sound like you came on the forum to get attention and brag about your business, not so much to solve a problem. Thus talking about abstruse business matters. It's usually manifested when someone starts a thread to answer a question that has already been answered, or to pose a question that no one but the OP himself can answer. And then the OP goes on to disregard the answers he is given, in order to keep the attention on himself.

I suppose that sounds hostile. You sound kind of... toolish.

[Cruisen_Chubby]

(09-25-2012 09:47 PM)IainMuirs Wrote:  

In my opinion the toys are a waste of money. You don't NEED 2 cars (or is it 3? I've no idea what a sea-doo is) and you'll only end up getting attached to this stuff which is not a good situation to be in.

A sportscar = fun...Good for pickin' up chicks as well.
A business car = necessary for running my business and for tax purposes.
Sea-doo = jet ski...great for havin' fun with chicks on...bikini time.

I don't think any of these are a waste...My motorhome, perhaps.

(09-25-2012 09:49 PM)PJ25 Wrote:  

Stay focused on your path. One of my mantras is: "There will always be x." x can be whatever may be currently distracting you from your path. I.e. "There will always be parties;" "There will always be 18 year old girls;" But like you said whatever you are doing right now isn't necessarily your path as you are on the way to becoming a CPA. Figure out what is important to you and focus on that.

That's true mate. But will there always be college? Will one always be 21 and supple? Healthy and horny? etc.

Money and chicks are equally important. I feel like they go hand in hand with lifestyle and game.

(09-25-2012 09:50 PM)HiFlo Wrote:  

(09-25-2012 09:47 PM)IainMuirs Wrote:  

In my opinion the toys are a waste of money. You don't NEED 2 cars (or is it 3? I've no idea what a sea-doo is) and you'll only end up getting attached to this stuff which is not a good situation to be in.

No shit, you have all these toys but are resistant to hiring an accountant to handle employee tax withholdings for you? Your priorities are screwed up: by this I mean your priorities are aligned with what the average 21 year old wants, but not what a successful entrepreneur knows is right. Not to mention that all these toys are at complete odds with the personality of EVERY CPA I have ever dealt with. LOL!

Why would I hire an accountant to do the things I am educated through my discipline to do myself? That is a waste of money. FICA and FUTA when the benefit would be minimum to me? Waste of time and money.

And no, I am not your typical accountant. I have second thoughts often. I am majoring in international accounting though, so the international playboy could be a reality.

Honestly though, I just got done doing some "male entertainment" gigs and was more happy doing that (making less money but more girls) than making more money with less female interraction.

I should have put more thought into this thread; it's been a long day.

[Cruisen_Chubby]

(09-25-2012 10:29 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

(09-25-2012 09:32 PM)Cruisen_Chubby Wrote:  

(09-25-2012 09:21 PM)basilransom Wrote:  

You have the rest of your life to make money. You can't say the same of college.

A few Gs here and there won't make much difference.

You misunderstood Roissy. The point is to make every girl in your life feel that she is not your mission, your highest priority. There's nothing wrong with making *women,* as a group, your priority, as a committed womanizer. Just don't single out one. If a girl thinks she comes before everything else in your life, she will see you as less of a man.

Did you grow up poor?

Thanks for clarifying- Makes much more sense now.

I didn't grow up poor. Middle as the middle class comes.

But at 21 I have a sports car, a business car, a newer sea-doo, and a motorhome for partying in during the summer. Meanwhile having a very nice place downtown (perfect logistics) and getting a hot tub real soon.

I think I'm addicted to the toys involved with the increased income.

You could look at it this way.

Working more ----> more money ----> More toys ----> more women.

A paradox presents itself

Working more ----> Less time ----> Less game ----> less women.


You can see my problem =/

You sound like you came on the forum to get attention and brag about your business, not so much to solve a problem. Thus talking about abstruse business matters. It's usually manifested when someone starts a thread to answer a question that has already been answered, or to pose a question that no one but the OP himself can answer.

I suppose that sounds hostile. You sound kind of... toolish.

Reading the OP does sound a little toolish, you're right.

Perhaps I should have kept it simple as in:

If you had the option to make good money or have forego that cash with the ability to game on women at an accelerated rate...would you do it? Or would you not? Would you seek some sort of balance?

I would imagine this answer to differ from person to person. The correct answer for a young man may be to chase tail while responsibilities are minimal. The answer for a more established man may be to further his business.

Hopefully this cuts down on the tool section of my post. I just felt like I needed to give a bit of background.